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Yeah he owes me £300 plus about 2 months maintenance...doubt I shall see the £300 now but to be honest I don't care, just being able to move on is worth more!I'll make a wish, take a chance, make a change And breakaway. I'll take a risk, take a chance, make a change and breakaway ....
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Are u going to go to the CSA?I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.
Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
"A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.
***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb. ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
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He's paid me some maintenance but he still owes me for May and June, if he doesn't then i will def go to the CSA, especially if now things become difficultI'll make a wish, take a chance, make a change And breakaway. I'll take a risk, take a chance, make a change and breakaway ....
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Oh the joys~not.I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.
Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
"A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.
***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb. ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
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Morning diary seem to have gone back to waking up early... Know it's stress induced!
Had a lovely chat last night with R and we are going to start putting plans together about where we go from here. He looked at a few houses close by (10 miles ish) from here which he said he could afford to get on his own for now and then we could move in when the time was right. Part of me is very very excited and the other part of me doesn't want to leave the comfort that I have. I think if the place is right those feelings will go and I'll be happy. Maybe there is also an element of being scared that what if our relationship changes dramatically when we move in together or that there is something
majorly annoying which I don't know about (I don't know why I am worrying really as I know there isn't)I'll make a wish, take a chance, make a change And breakaway. I'll take a risk, take a chance, make a change and breakaway ....
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Ohhhh house hunting!!! Exciting.
I'm sure those feelings will go if you find the right house but if they don't, listen to them and hang back a bit, another few months isn't going to hurt. Just carry on being open with each other and I'm sure he'll understand.
The thought of the unknown and a move to a newish area is always going to be a frightening prospect without throwing in a "new relationship" to the mix so don't beat yourself up about having a few niggly doubts, I think every single one of us would be worrying on some level."Start every day off with a smile and get it over with" - W. C. Field.0 -
Don't want to put a dampener on things when you are so happy but just a note of caution (and I am sure you have already thought about this) but if he bought/rented somewhere on his own, you need to sort out finances etc so that if things didn't work out, you wouldn't be left without anywhere to live or without any money to move on!OD [STRIKE] £2600 [/STRIKE] £0 :j Loan [STRIKE]£9500.00[/STRIKE] £0 :j Car [STRIKE]£3150[/STRIKE] £0 :j Moving Costs [STRIKE]£1300[/STRIKE] £0 :j Savings £1150 :j
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I have thought about it tenmah dont worry, I will keep the deposit I have in this house as a safety net in a savings account just in case I should need it....like you say you never know!I'll make a wish, take a chance, make a change And breakaway. I'll take a risk, take a chance, make a change and breakaway ....
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which direction are the houses ? Nearer me?
"Stay Wonky":D
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Yes they are BB....about half way
So you would just have to brave the A35 and you can then come for Woo Woo's I'll make a wish, take a chance, make a change And breakaway. I'll take a risk, take a chance, make a change and breakaway ....
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