lilmissmup - the 2010 chapter!

SarahNeedle1872

Single and in debt (I think!) thread

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doodledo_2

Awww I am only one of those now

lilmissmup

Me too but they let me post, theres a few non single people too, you should come join us doodles!

Right work not so bad today, hoping to wake up to 10ft of snow so I can't go to work but doubt will be that lucky. :rolleyes:

Was awake until very late again last night trying to decide what to do with my life....part of me wants to get a working holiday visa and go Australia for a year, other part wants to go London.....

Just want a change of scenery, lived in my home town all my life and tis pants cos literally nothing to do here entertainment wise and shops aren't great either.

I could end up moving back here just want to escape for at least a while whilst I have no-one keeping me here!

Souk08

GO GO GO GO GO GO lilmissmup. I get the feeling you are quite a relationship chick (and nothing wrong with that) so if you don't move soon you may well meet someone and NEVER move and ALWAYS have regrets. SO go girl X

lilmissmup

On the relationship front....mmm I am ok being single but I do admit when I fall in love I do tend to want the whole deal.

(Been in love twice, had 3 serious relationships since I was 15 though,longest obv with ex at 6.5yrs)

I am quite happy being single now apart from missing somethings

TBH its nice just worrying about me and not having to do everything for someone else too for once!!! :rolleyes:

Do want to move though but need to get finances sorted more first and I do admit moving will knacker my Dad again (he has ME) when I have only just handed in notice on the old house, went there tonight to take last bits out as they are gonna start viewings ASAP and it was like a freezer in there.

It was cold in there in October so am super glad I moved back to Dads now as would have probably been ill as the storage heaters were pathetic in there!

I know it sounds really silly but Australia means no cat cuddles for a year and London means cat cuddles not very often as would have to leave them here until I was really settled or won the lotto!

I am a huge animal lover, always have been and my kitties are my world right now, I am over the they were "our" cats thing now really, but I don't wanna abandon them.

Izzy my girl has been a big soppy mess with me since he left us and she hated me before pretty much! Think she might hate me if I go!

I think London is more realistic though as have friend down there and its only 40mins away from here not 24hrs!!!

doodledo_2

Evening chick how you doing?

lilmissmup

Okies, bit tired and grumpy.

I finished work at 1.30 today due to the snow, hoping for loads more overnight so can stay home tomorrow!!!

Dad and me put my double bed back together today which means more room and a comfy mattress again as was sleeping in my single bed from my teenage days with a horrid mattress.

More room for fur babies too!

Still pondering what the heck to do with my life and failing miserably doing so.

Oh and Irish Man never replied after 2nd email, not chatting to anyone else on there either, all the guys I fancy find me !!!!!!!

Souk08

Now that's not the attitude lilmiss. You'll ignore loads of guys too during the internet thing cos they just wont be for you. Doesn't mean there's anything wrong with them/you!!! Loads of blokes ignore my emails, I'm just not for them. I have short hair, am 5'0 and big boobed. I'm very happy with myself but if they want a tall girl with long red hair and an athletic body then it's not going to work!!!!! Simples!

Also when I tell them I don't do the whole outdoorsy bit, don't want kids and don't want 'something in a blue cagoul hovering outside the front door'! (Fabulous Ab Fab reference for drippy man) lots of them run a mile... and I am left with the sexy, fun guys who work for me. It's just a numbers game and you can't give up at the first hurdle. Or you can, and sit in night after night waiting for a man to knock your door. The choice as they say is yours!

doodledo_2

Evening chick did you survive another day in "frozen" Bedford

lilmissmup

Don't worry Souk I am not taking it personally as not really looking.

I am only 5ft2, with glasses and a brace and good sized boobs but I don't think I am pretty so guess just get a bit paranoid and my self esteem is still low as ex said he took into account his workmates saying he could get someone better when he dumped me....:o

Makes me think he spent six years thinking I wasnt that pretty even though he tried to backtrack and say he thought i was after saying it....this was all part of our honest convo when we might get back together.....

Frozen Bedford was ok, was hoping for more snow and a snow day though!