lilmissmup - the 2010 chapter!

Souk08

MMM, no idea why he would tell you that! And I'm guessing he looked like Jude Law yeah :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

lilmissmup

More hair than Jude! Hes quite a good looking guy, well I still think so, had a few people seemed shocked when he was with me.:o

Problem is hes a hermit who smokes a lot of W and never wanted to leave the house so he could never handle a relationship with a high maint "pretty' girl.

Could just do with some confidence boosting!

wendz86

Yor OH was obviously attracted to you or he wouldn't have got together with you. You will find someone (when you are ready) that thinks you are the most amazing person on earth and that is what you deserve.

Souk08

Mmm. Confidence boosting is always nice lady but not to sound too Oprah, it really has to basically come from yourself with just a bit of man induced confidence boosting on the side. X

lilmissmup

Once brace is off that should help, one of my 2010 things to do is have a makeover and some professional pics once it has been done as I hate nearly all pics of me, only look good in one or two!

And thanks Wendz

Souk08

OOh that's a good idea lovey. Personally I'd love some nudey ones done while it's all still pointing north, but not really a priority this year! :rotfl::rotfl:Right I'm off to bed, my lazy day has made me tired!

lilmissmup

Hello ladies.

I am hibernating this weekend whilst I can avoid the snow and ice!

I am in a fairly good mood today!

Rang Anglian Water to get a final bill and they owe me just over £60 so result there!!! They had sent me a bill saying I owed £94 before xmas so was expecting to pay something.

Also rang Halifax to close my ISA and am getting £662 from them next week, will use £480 to pay off laptop and then save rest.

Still a few places to ring to sort out final bits from moving but nearly all done.

Also my old sofa is getting collected from my Nans by a furniture charity this week which is good, I didn't want to keep it as ex MIL brought it but glad its not getting tipped and can help someone on benefits have a sofa!

Not heard from ex since beginning of week, having a bit of wonder what hes up to day but I am still defo making progress on moving on, can smile at some things now that would have made me cry a month or so ago and I don't feel angry at him anymore, I know I have a long long way to go but I am getting there slowly, not feeling half as depressed as I was and the horrid dismal feeling I had each day when I woke up has now gone!

So its been nearly six months since the split, nearly 2 months since we saw each other or spoke and I don't really miss him although do miss his family and certain aspects still.

Anyway back to cash I am trying the make £100 into £10k challenge, seems a good inspiraritonal thread, am buying some cheap misspelt auctions off ebay to try and sell on right now, might have to persuade Dad to do a car boot once warmer!

Shoe_Gal

Great to see you sounding so upbeat - well done you :j

lilmissmup

Its weird, over the last month I feel like I have found "me" again, am so much happier than I have been in a long time which I guess says a lot about my relationship anyway, was getting to me before the split with being ignored, living in separate rooms really for a few months anyway....:rolleyes:

And we never ever went out on dates, only ever went to Mcdonalds....

Holidays were only time we spent any quality time together!

Have realised now hes never going to change, even if I see him with another girl I shouldn't be jealous because he will prob let them down eventually through lack of enthusiasm/commitment/motiviation!

doodledo_2

You are going through the stages hun, I went through this after a few months, realising that my relationship wasn't as perfect as I thought it was. It's good though as it makes you realise what you want out of a relationship in the future