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The path of my life is strewn with cowpats from the devil's own satanic herd.

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  • shaun40400
    shaun40400 Posts: 4,134 Forumite
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    tesco voucher,,,every cloud has a silver lining!!!

    bob you need to plough a bit more ground!!

    may be i should take up scrabble,,,,:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:
    WAS DEBT FREE & STILL BAAARRRRRKING :cool:
    hello my name is shaun,,,and im not so addicted to farmville,still addicted to football:o:o

    BAAAARRRRRRRRRRKING er insanely so :o
  • shaun40400 wrote: »
    tesco voucher,,,every cloud has a silver lining!!!

    bob you need to plough a bit more ground!!

    may be i should take up scrabble,,,,:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

    Told you i was rubbish at Farmville, i just got rid of a load of dead crops:o

    Anytime on scrabble shauny :D
    Blackadder: Am I jumping the gun, Baldrick, or are the words 'I have a cunning plan' marching with ill-deserved confidence in the direction of this conversation?
    Still lurking around with a hope of some salvation:cool:
  • taxi73
    taxi73 Posts: 20,815 Forumite
    Like you say he has his good points and he is sort of trying.He doesn't understand the concepts...You understand it more(thankfully) perhaps he needs stuff pointed out very precisely to him.
    MY OH has no clue about finances and I have to explain to him on more than one occasion and in very simple terms so that he understands what I want.
  • taxi73 wrote: »
    Like you say he has his good points and he is sort of trying.He doesn't understand the concepts...You understand it more(thankfully) perhaps he needs stuff pointed out very precisely to him.
    MY OH has no clue about finances and I have to explain to him on more than one occasion and in very simple terms so that he understands what I want.

    Yes, i have been going wrong in waffling then dictating- i didn't have the right approach.

    Was able to talk tonight with out arguing ( a bonus) i have told him how to open up a basic bank account and he finally clicked that if it is not coming out of main account then we won't be getting overdraft fees:rolleyes: That took some doing:o

    That way he will have to budget- no choice as he will go overdrawn other wise. Money can be transferred back to joint account to cover that loan, and pay off overdraft.:j Utilities will be transferred to my account, so i know they are paid- but at the moment i reckon that FTC and Family allowance will cover the main loan. So we may well be out of the mire in three months with a bit of luck.
    Blackadder: Am I jumping the gun, Baldrick, or are the words 'I have a cunning plan' marching with ill-deserved confidence in the direction of this conversation?
    Still lurking around with a hope of some salvation:cool:
  • feb news bob!! Re farmville you have to plan your crops - ie plant sommat when you know you will be on...ie eve!! only prob is its addictive!
    shau pm me your real name and I'll happily be yer neighbor! what level you on?!!
    Nerd no 109 Long haulers supporters DFW #1! Even in the darkest moments, love and hope are always possible.

  • shaun40400
    shaun40400 Posts: 4,134 Forumite
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    level 14:o

    pm'd you
    WAS DEBT FREE & STILL BAAARRRRRKING :cool:
    hello my name is shaun,,,and im not so addicted to farmville,still addicted to football:o:o

    BAAAARRRRRRRRRRKING er insanely so :o
  • oo dear I am clearly more addicted (personality type!!),,,have pm's you back!

    Bob hope all is ok in bob land....wish you lived closer...
    Nerd no 109 Long haulers supporters DFW #1! Even in the darkest moments, love and hope are always possible.

  • Wish you lived closer too- shaun just pm'd me as he had trouble finding you- so you can add him from mine if he can't find you.
    Blackadder: Am I jumping the gun, Baldrick, or are the words 'I have a cunning plan' marching with ill-deserved confidence in the direction of this conversation?
    Still lurking around with a hope of some salvation:cool:
  • taxi73
    taxi73 Posts: 20,815 Forumite
    Am so glad that he'sgot it at last and that you can see a way out....that's fantastic...
  • I hope so Taxi- this is getting daft now, i need to get cracking on these debts. I have been rubbing my lucky coal- but it leaves a mess.lol
    Blackadder: Am I jumping the gun, Baldrick, or are the words 'I have a cunning plan' marching with ill-deserved confidence in the direction of this conversation?
    Still lurking around with a hope of some salvation:cool:
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