MSE Parents Club Part 9

feelinggood_2

money_maker wrote: »

why cant she come when OH is there ?

OH doesn't like people here when he is home.

I phone homestart to cancel visitor for this week, and after talking with them decided that I don't want any more visits. Hopefully the lady won't take it personally, I asked them to explain it wasn't anything she did/didn't do.

r.mac_2

feelie - is everything okay?

money_maker_3

feelie, I dont know why do dont want any more visits, but have a good think about it first especially when you arent getting out at the minute.

money_maker_3

jillie1974 wrote: »

that was me before i moved to manc and no-one understood what i meant by 'grand' or 'your man' or 'your one' lol!! never use those anymore. well...until i'm at home (ireland) and then you have to or noone understand you and thinks you're a 'foreigner' lol!!

well I would know what you were on about !!:rotfl:

And the ultimate insult reply for a teenage boy is ''aye yur ma !!''

jillie1974

money_maker wrote: »

feelie, I dont know why do dont want any more visits, but have a good think about it first especially when you arent getting out at the minute.

must admit feelie i have to agree with mm. surely people calling to the house is a good thing? specially if you are not going out

Sami_Bee

pah! why do I procrastinate so much?! I could have had a shower at 10 but noo I had to laze around until Ed decided he was hungry again - I need shaking!

feelinggood_2

money_maker wrote: »

feelie, I dont know why do dont want any more visits, but have a good think about it first especially when you arent getting out at the minute.

It is helpful at the time, but I spent so long worrying about - the loss of sleep for a few days afterwards and the feeling of dread just means it isn't worth it. Homestart lady said to call her back if I felt better in a few weeks time.

Just cancelled the Nanny for the day too Still have to pay her, but I just can't face it. I feel bad for messing her around but want to call that off too.

Sami_Bee

Feely please try not to isolate yourself :kisses3:
I do worry about you, esp when you seem almost fearful of your OH sometimes :undecided

money_maker_3

Sami_Bee wrote: »

pah! why do I procrastinate so much?! I could have had a shower at 10 but noo I had to laze around until Ed decided he was hungry again - I need shaking!

sami, set Ed down a second and stand up

done ???

*shakes sami and then quickly gives her a clip round the ear just to prove a point*

OK, you can now resume feeding, but let that be a lesson to you :rotfl:

money_maker_3

feelinggood wrote: »

It is helpful at the time, but I spent so long worrying about - the loss of sleep for a few days afterwards and the feeling of dread just means it isn't worth it. Homestart lady said to call her back if I felt better in a few weeks time.

Just cancelled the Nanny for the day too Still have to pay her, but I just can't face it. I feel bad for messing her around but want to call that off too.

sweetie, you need to speak to people. You have taken a very brave step starting back on the mads, your next step is to allow people in to help.
when you get anxious, just talk to us