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MSE Parents Club Part 9

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  • kindofagilr
    kindofagilr Posts: 6,825 Forumite
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    Just popping in

    I have a question, I remember a while ago someone talking about a book designed for you to read to your bump, it was from amazon I think

    Does anyone know what its called?

    Its just OH likes talking to bump but I think he feels silly sometimes cos he doesnt know what to say, so I think having something to read would be good?

    Any suggestions?
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  • csh_2
    csh_2 Posts: 3,294 Forumite
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    weezl74 wrote: »
    :rotfl:pay your mortgage!

    I've just dropped 5% when my fixed rate ended, I'm on SVR of 2.09% plus BoE base rate, loose change for you Weezl ;):p
  • csh_2
    csh_2 Posts: 3,294 Forumite
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    edited 15 January 2010 at 10:01AM
    Just popping in

    I have a question, I remember a while ago someone talking about a book designed for you to read to your bump, it was from amazon I think

    Does anyone know what its called?

    Its just OH likes talking to bump but I think he feels silly sometimes cos he doesnt know what to say, so I think having something to read would be good?

    Any suggestions?

    Was it the Dr Suess one that Boo had? I'm not sure what its called tho sorry Kindof

    ETA: think it might be this one?

    http://www.amazon.co.uk/Oh-Places-Youll-Go-Seuss/dp/0007280750
  • weezl74
    weezl74 Posts: 8,701 Forumite
    csh wrote: »
    Not really :-( My mum is the type to keep score and will want hour for hour, but the PIL are better placed for watching him and my mum has health issues. I sense an upset on the way......
    Thats why I wanted a nursery, to avoid all of this :o

    oh tricky! Will your mum want the same time alone with K or can you be there too? Not that that sounds ideal!

    Hi Kindof :)

    no idea on the book, sorry. DH reads to ME every night though, so I think Kester is used to Daddy's voice now :)

    :hello:Jonathan 'Fergie' Fergus William, born 05/03/09, 7lb 4.4oz:hello:
    :)Benjamin 'Kezzie' Kester Jacob, born 18/03/10, 7lb 5oz:)
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  • r.mac_2
    r.mac_2 Posts: 4,746 Forumite
    That's odd! I wonder why she isn't getting to start? They told me before she started nursery because of her birthday, she doesn't get to start until Sep 2011!

    So Charlotte will just have turned 5 at the end of P1? Keira will be starting at 5yr 4months. But then her friends in her class, are going up to P1 this year and one of them has the same birthday as her (1 year older).

    Maybe it's different rules in Scotland and England?

    I'm not too bothered, at least I won't feel bad if she is ever behind a lil bit, but would of been nice for all day peace and quiet :rotfl:

    Button - the main difference between england and scotland is that the intake yeaer is different. In scotland it runs from March-March, but England have a different 'year' IYKWIM.

    HAve another social day ahead - coffee at a friends house in about 45 mins s better get a moev on, then soft play this afternoon. It's £2 for under 12months and £3.xx for over 1's. However everyone seems very excited about a new place that's opening at the end of the month - but it is over £6 per child and they charge £1 per adult - but due to the age group, you have to be there to accompany your child?!

    We won't be going at that price! Or am I being a meanie?

    Nap time beckons for LO, and I have to get myself together to go out. See you all soon.

    Oh and a big congratulations to Benjamin on his first word :D I'm very proud!
    aless02 wrote: »
    r.mac, you are so wise and wonderful, that post was lovely and so insightful!
    I can't promise that all my replies will illicit this response :p
  • csh_2
    csh_2 Posts: 3,294 Forumite
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    weezl74 wrote: »
    oh tricky! Will your mum want the same time alone with K or can you be there too? Not that that sounds ideal!

    Hi Kindof :)

    no idea on the book, sorry. DH reads to ME every night though, so I think Kester is used to Daddy's voice now :)

    She'd want the same hour for hour, shes quite childish:rolleyes: Its not fair of her.
    K is also PIL's 1st grandchild. my mum watched DD when she was a baby but a lot changed in 13yrs x
  • kindofagilr
    kindofagilr Posts: 6,825 Forumite
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    Thanks guys :) thanks csh I am looking at it now xx
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    Mortgage (01/04/09 - 01/07/39)
    £79,515.99/£104,409.00 (as of 05/02/21) ~ 23.84% Paid Off

    Lloyds (M) - £1196.93/£1296.93 ~ Next - £2653.79/£2700.46 ~ Mobile - £296.70/£323.78
    HSBC (H) -£5079.08/£5281.12 ~ HSBC (M) - £4512.19/£4714.23
    Barclays (H) - £4427.32/£4629.36 ~ Barclays (M) - £4013.78/£4215.82
    Halifax (H) - £4930.04/£5132.12 ~ Halifax (M) - £3708.65/£3911.20

    Asda Savings - £0

    POAMAYC 2021 #87 £1290.07 ~ 2020/£3669.48 ~ 2019/£10,615.18 ~ 2018/£13,912.57 ~ 2017/£10,380.18 ~ 2016/£7454.80

    ~ Emergency Savings: £0

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  • SusanC_2
    SusanC_2 Posts: 5,344 Forumite
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    BeenieCat wrote: »
    3-6 onions to 500g of mince :eek: Wowzers, it's interesting to learn of other people's cooking though :p
    Onions are cheaper than mince.
    tiamai_d wrote: »
    What do you call that website where you can look at how well a school has done in it's inspection?
    Fiction.
    Glamazon wrote: »
    I remember a woman bringing toddler into surgery covered in blood - he'd bitten right through his tongue and there was a hole in it _pale__pale_:eek::eek:
    My OH did that when he was little by falling down the stairs. Apparently they stitched it back up with no anaesthetic and MIL said it was awful having to wait outside hearing him scream. He doesn't remember it at all though.
    Ah ok AF I actually just went to ur FB page to double check your relationship staus b4 putting my big size 9s in lol. It is a battle and if you just givein a take them in bed it's harder to get out of that routine. I did it the 1st couple of nites in the new house as I felt sorry for her then she started waking every nite "mamas bed" "mamas bed" so we're still sorting this prob out lol
    We had that when we moved too but it was "Mummy-Daddy's room, I need to sleep in Mummy-Daddy's room."
    Sami_Bee wrote: »
    BM in englnd you start primary the september after you turn 4yo although legally you don't have to send them until the sept after they're 5 (but they would go straight into year one and skip reception)
    I thought legally it was the term after you turn five? (So Sept-December birthdays have to start by January of Reception Year, January to March after Easter and then April to August don't have to start until September of Year One. Our local authority takes them all full time from September of Reception Year but some areas they either don't start them until it's compulsorary or they have them part-time from the September and then switch to full time depending on when they turn five.
    Becles wrote: »
    I've not heard of P1-P7 before :o
    We had "P"s for a while when I was in primary school. It started off Reception, Bottom Infants, Middle Infants, Top Infants and then J(unior)1 to 4 but then they changed it to P1-7 (not sure exactly when that happened) and then they changed it to Reception and Year 1 to 6 around 1989 so I think it was assosciated with the introduction of the National Curriculum. But Scotland has a completely different system. (I think NI has a different system too.)
    Any question, comment or opinion is not intended to be criticism of anyone else.
    2 Samuel 12:23 Romans 8:28 Psalm 30:5
    "To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven: A time to be born, and a time to die"
  • weezl74
    weezl74 Posts: 8,701 Forumite
    Hi again,

    I'm feeling really down today and yesterday.

    I think it's tiredness (been up since 3.30) the weather and hormones. But it's manifesting as tearful overwhelmedness, financial anxiety and questioning myself, friendships and relationships :(

    might try to see if I can ask someone to have F a little while this afternoon so I can sleep...

    xxx

    :hello:Jonathan 'Fergie' Fergus William, born 05/03/09, 7lb 4.4oz:hello:
    :)Benjamin 'Kezzie' Kester Jacob, born 18/03/10, 7lb 5oz:)
    cash neutral gifts 2011, value of purchased gifts/actual paid/amount earnt to cover it £67/£3.60/£0
    january grocery challenge, feed 4 of us for £40
  • Oh Weezl ((HUGS)) we are all here for you - on here or by PM if you want to have a little moan.



    Benjamin woke at 3.10am for ten minutes and then at about 7am (whilst I was in the shower). He looks shattered this morning but seems in a good enough mood.

    We have been trying to get him to say 'Ball' seeing as that is his favourite thing but he just says 'blah' :rotfl:


    We have rain, and lost of it!! Yay for rain :T
    r.mac wrote: »
    please listen to MFD - she is a wise woman :D
    Proud Mummy to the gorgeous Benjamin John born 14 March 2009, 8lbs 14oz
    A new little seedling on the way, due 30 September 2012
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