im a cheat.. help!!

ManOnTheMoon

Likely a troll, but on the off chance it's not...

If you think the person who has got you on to drugs is better than a loving caring person, then you really need help.

I agree with all the other posters when they say your OH is better off without you.

I actually feel sorry for you, sorry that you think so little of yourself that you need to sleep around with random men and that you think a druggie is more appealing than someone loving and caring.

No mention of kids, but if kids are involved, that just makes it worse

Ellie2758

Spot on Paddy's mum. The high is only momentary. The resultant self-disgust is very damaging and long-lasting It isnt an easy cycle to break, and it is just as much an addiction as any other.

paddy's_mum wrote: »

Persistent infidelity, in women, is usually a solid indicator of poor self esteem and I would suggest that you urgently seek counselling before you cause irreperable damage to yourself, let alone anyone else.

Behaviour such as yours is achieving nothing except reinforcing those deep down feelings of worthlessness. You may get a high when some bloke fancies you but deep in your heart you already know that the course you are engaged upon simply adds to your own inner unhappiness.

You can stop yourself! You just need to recognise that the other men have no real feelings of any kind for you. The particular chap you keep thinking about has no love for you - would you give dangerously tainted food to the beloved family pet? Use reason to work out whether he truly cares for you or if you are a convenient bed mate and drug buddy. Have you a trusted person you can talk to - vicar, Samaritan, support worker?

You don't need me to tell you that you are playing a deadly game, do you?

Morglin

Break off with both blokes, and then spend some time, on your own, to work out what you want, and hopefully to find someone you love enough that cheating would be impossible.

If you can cheat on someone, you cannot really love them.

Lin

Pollycat

carolinosourus wrote: »

.....troll?

pinkgirl2009 wrote: »

i think so haha nice 1

Me too.

How many people think this thread will soon be up to multiple pages without any further input from the OP?

shellsuit

If this isn't a troll post, then leave your OH.

You don't love him, so do him a favour and let him find someone who does.