Getting your faith back in the other sex

Minimum_Wage_2

Why must you blame yourself! your at a point in your life where you can change things and not have to answer to any one.

PS, its not you with the fool on your forehead! it you that just cant read it on there heads!

Firstly
Organizing
Openly
Living again

there you go, you've been reading it wrong!

ben500

Sorry when I first read it I thought it said "face"


























I'll get my coat!!

lilmissmup

Hope things improve for you Jak, my ex had the nerve to tell me in an email yesterday it was because he was such a nice guy that we were in this mess, what "nice guy" tells someone who they know loves them and spent the last 6 years of there live with them that they may have a chance when really there is none :rolleyes:

He got a reply telling him exactly what I think....and hopefully he will leave me alone now, just tears me up that someone I adored and thought loved me too can treat me like dirt.

lilmissmup

ben500 wrote: »

Sorry when I first read it I thought it said "face"


























I'll get my coat!!

:rotfl:

Thanks for making me laugh on what has been a truely horrid day! :T

jak

It is quite scary isn't it when you think you know someone but they turn out not to be the way you thought. I'm so sorry that you're having a horrible time. He sounds like a bit of a wuss really. I hope you meet someone nice who treats you well soon...And continues to treat you well.
X

Minimum_Wage_2

you can still enjoy life and you can still laugh!

thats proof!

lilmissmup

Yes I can still laugh.

I know in a week or two I will be feeling better, I spent 2 months feeling crap then started to feel better and it was like he "knew" even though we hadn't been speaking, came back into my life, spent 4 weeks stringing me along and has made me feel like I am back to where I was 4 months ago :rolleyes:

Minimum_Wage_2

your feelings will still be the same in a few weeks time you will still miss them things but the thing that will be different is that you will be stronger. more organized and that little bit wiser

lilmissmup

Right now I don't miss a lot, I am very angry with him for using me.

I changed my phone nymber Thursday so the only way he can contact me is via email and well the last ones we sent were not pleasant as I mentioned.

I could never trust him again now even if he banged down my door telling me he loved me, I wouldn't know what he will be up too when we are apart and tbh I don't think he did want me back, I guess it was just weird for him after being with me and living with me so long.

I am praying he will just leave me alone now, I don't have the strength to ignore his emails and if he contacts me I know things will just carry on getting worse.

I am strong in some ways but not in others....

Becky I hope you get your happy ending too. Do you live with your current boyfriend?

maggied_2

lilmissmup - I can tell you there is hope out there! Me and my XH did much the same but finally left each other's lives. I wasn't interested in meeting anyone - at all! Did the whole drinking too much, sleeping with some VERY questionable men :eek:, went on a couple of ace holidays and then when I wasn't looking I met my present OH.

As much as I do moan about him sometimes (and we've had a very bumpy year) it was such a revelation to actually be with someone who made me feel good about myself, not jump down my throat in case I did / wore / said the wrong thing and made it clear he felt happy and lucky to be with me.

I'd say enjoy yourself, learn to enjoy being on your own and the right bloke will come along.

Have to say I did also find that because I'd been through the wringer once I was much more forward about what I wanted and what I found acceptable when I first started seeing him. Coming through a divorce and those dark months that you have experienced recently made me feel so much stronger. Knowing I had been to hell and back I knew I could walk away if things weren't exactly right. That sounds very cynical thinking about it but hopefully makes sense.

Good luck for the future :beer: lots of fun and frolics and EVENTUALLY none rubbish blokes.