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mclaren_2

cantcope wrote:

Bring on the rain.

nooooooooooooooo we need sun and heat

mclaren_2

Miroslav wrote:

Urbs!!!!!

Empty your PM box

has urbs got a full box eh

URBS, ya box is full

Careful_girl

Urbs is a well loved MSEr. I think that Martin should give her a bigger box for all her fan mail. We love you Urbs!!!And hope all is sorted out at work.
:beer: Urbs!
CG.

ukbadger_2

Oh I have missed being able to post here - my 2 month old laptop died on me the day after I freecycled my old desktop job and I have just got laptop back tonight !! For some unknown reason I can't read or post here in my new job - says it's a chat room , will kick up a fuss when I'm past the 4 week mark.

Hope you are all fabulous - have got quite a lot of pages to read but looks like you are all doing ok and it was nice to see Miroslav is around again - I was getting worried x

Been busy with new job , it's a bit exhausting with the extra travel in this heat but sure it will be ok. Was on a work trip to Bracknell monday and tuesday , bt of a trip down memory lane as lived in that area for a few years - got quite emotional !

On the boy front - toy boy turned out to have a toy girl who is away studying , turned out ok as he was way too young for me anyway but I was rather annoyed that he wasn't straight with me.

Been on a couple of dates , got another one on Sunday and I am emailing a total husband material man I met on Friday , he's up in Edinburgh but is going to come and sweep me off my feet soon lol. To be honest I am totally loving being single at the moment - a boyfriend for the winter nights would be nice but have actually realised it's not essential !

My gumtree friend is fab - we have been out loads and I guess it's a bit like falling in love when you click with a new friend it's wonderful.

I'm going to spend the rest of the evening catching up with all you lovely people's news with a nice glass of cold pink wine.

Whhhooopppppppppeeeeeeeeee I'm so glad to be back in action

Hx

ukbadger_2

Oh forgot something I need your advice on ...

Last saturday I did my irregular stint babysitting for my niece and nephew and when I got home at half one I noticed a car badly parked about 5 doors up , as I approached I noticed there was someone in there even though the lights were off so I looked as I drove past and I am 99% positive it was my violent ex. I was really freaked out , came in and grabbed the phone ready to call the police , after about 5 mins he drove off.

I debated for ages about wether to call the police anyway or if I should contact him and ask what he was doing there. The last big incident was a couple of years ago when he drove his wreck of a car into my brand new car - this was followed by regular phone calls in the early hours when he'd slur drunkenly and play Gabrielles out of reach down the phone. I contacted him then by text saying he had to stop or I would phone the police , that I was recovering from major surgery and had a new partner - from that day nothing until last weekend.

Should I just hope that it was a one off ? I have been having a few silent calls too - it's worse as it was obvious that I was living alone , I hadn't shut the curtains and came back on my own.

Probably over-reacting but he tried to kill me once so it was really upsetting.

Hx

Careful_girl

My laptop has died too. This keyboard is awful. Sorry to hear about the TB but pleased that you have a nice scottish guy. I would try to get his number blocked. I did that when some Debt collectors got my number (didn't owe them anything). BT have a section on nuisance calls. if you feel unsafe call the police. Get some advice from them or CAB. I can't offer much otherwise.
Right time to get ready for an anniversary meal. Still haven't told him about the date but have offered to take him out. He is very sad as no news from the job.
Oh he does have an interview in Ramsgate. We get a hotel room paid. Anyone close by? Don't know how i will organise the animals though.
CG.:beer:

whatamess_2

Hi badger welcome back:j was getting worried!!! cg has made the best suggestion even if the number is withheld the bt thing will block it. Used it once myself when kids were messing about.

Didnt mean you mclaren just most men:mad:

Zombie sending a big (((hug))) tempers do get frayed when diy is involved.

cg do I say happy anniversary:j or commiserations.;)

Kp had agrilics once but I have broad flat nails the false ones started to lift my real nail from its bed. OUCH!!!

Update fron yesterday the neighbour had died, council were fitting a new kitchen the day before came back to finish job and they were gone.:eek: Makes you think about your own mortality a bit.:eek:

Out for day yesterday with mr4x4 to Dover castle, walked for miles!!!! went down the war time tunnels, they are wicked:j Some of the tunnels are even older there was some graffiti in the chalk from 1806!!! Brilliant day totally whacked when I got home. Loads of talking but the silences were comfortable.:cool:

Found out I am the only person he has wanted to take out in 6 years:eek: :cool: and he has asked me to go and meet his son and grandkids on Sunday:eek: :eek:

Cg let me know when for the interview and I will meet up with you. Ramsgate is a bit of an eye opener:eek: Wheres his interview for?

Love to all.

Messy

whatamess_2

(((hugs))) cg.

Remember its your happiness, future not friends, parents etc...

Messy

KathrynPenguin

V short note, can't type with nails on!

Love Dover castle.

My wedding anniversary was a washout, went shopping he left me loving card but he spent the day in the pub with the rest of the losers. At least my Mum doesn't like him much.

Hair is OK, she cut my fringe too short, I told her it wasn't meant to be a fringe but hey it is now. I should really remember she always does it how she wants it, not how I want it. It looks nice though and will look better when I do it myself tomorrow.

Other than that just went out for last min holiday bits, you know foot lotion, flip flops etc. One more day till we go - I spent time in the garden this evening polishing all my handbags and treating all the footbeds on my Birkenstock collection with cork stuff. Sad eh?

mclaren_2

whatamess wrote:

Didnt mean you mclaren just most men:mad:

in my books its the other way about lol - know what u mean tho