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babysaver

Thanks again CG - you're definitely a great ICT teacher - I can't stop myself now!! :dance:
I've been surfing round this site all night so I'm off to shine my sink (OS board feel-good tip!) and then off to bed. I'll visit tomorrow - thanks

urban_spirit

KathrynPenguin wrote:

Keep your spirits up Urbs and you stick to your guns, don't let them put you back in that awful place.

Thanks you KP, that means a lot. Have a little pengy from me xx

Harrods for bags Tell your mum your buying for a friend, then keep it for yourself Couldnt not buy a bag if I went down to Harrods, but I havent got a mum reasoning with me so would be much easier

Babysaver hello and welcome to our thread!
For Saturday!!!

CC - less than 2 weeks - yipeeeeee!!!!

CG - Will you stay or will you go???

mclaren_2

Careful_girl wrote:

cake time girls!!:bdaycake:

dont i get a bit? lol

Careful_girl

OK a bit but save some for Slavvy he is around somewhere!
CG.

KathrynPenguin

mmmmm cake for breakfast.:EasterBun

Welcome to babysaver, you will get used to living on your own. I did it before I met hubby and it was great and now its harder because I have DS too but it sounds like you relish your kids a bit more than I do!

Was woken up at 6am this morning by DS doesn't get holidays yet... Now he is telling me "not on puter" - he wants attention I think but he is watching telly next to me why don't I understand the problem ?

Thanks for the pengy urbs - you are gonna write that letter TODAY! Then It'll be done.

CG It must be hard having to sell your stuff and having OH so useless. Mine was like that too - spending money and not working was his thing, he's cleared out my savings to pay his debts. If your OH is making things that hard for you maybe you would be better off without him. Having said that I think maybe I sound a lot more positive than I feel sometimes but I dont' regret kicking him out. Maybe you need some time to breath yourself, does he have anywhere to go without you? Or you without him?

Paddling pool is filling in the garden now, guess I have a fun day ahead of me.

whatamess_2

Welcome to babysaver have some :bdaycake: cake from me too.

(((((hugs ))))) to all that have letters to write, toddlers to play with,:eek: tellys to fix, packing to do, decisions to make.

I was not very good with mine when they were toddlers either so dont feel guilty. I am not a very tactile mum either but mine have turned out alright.
My ds 3 (13) has got a wicked school report, he is the one that has a sen, dyspraxia, hint of aspie, visual imparement and is talking about uni.:j Ds 2 (18) has 5 days left to get some work or he is going to live with his dad.

Was fighting last night because young lady didnt want to leave her bedroom:eek: she is severly autistic, hates people,non verbal and didnt want a shower:eek: but she was sweaty, sticky and needed her pad changing. Hence the fight can take up to 5 people to change her:eek: another day she might run up to you wanting a hug, thats scary because you dont know if she wants to eat you:eek: but you have to stand there and hope. I only lost a little bit of skin last night:rotfl: :rotfl:

Have a good day all
Love Messy

babysaver

Thanks for all of the cake and welcoming comments - what a great start to the day . My task for today (after I get the TV sorted out) is to spend the day reading every single post on this thread to get to know everyone properly...I'll post back later

Philippa36

Morning all :wave:

Another sunny day here, and I've got nothing to complain about apart from being at work instead of some exotic island being pampered

Just wanted to send some good vibes to everyone having problems with o/h's children, jobs and house moves......

Mmmmmmmmmm not sure cake is the best start for my diet :think: although I'm sure I can work it in to the plan somehow

Hi to Babysaver

Love to all, Philippa

wannabe

Hi all
SO sorry to have abandoned you - but you are getting on fine without me life has just been crazy and still on pants dial up at home which is a bummer
It is really fab to see new names - welcome and save me a bit of cake without the icing please - no that doesn't mean you can lick it!
Well I am now 30 - eek is it like a time bomb, do I go bang now????
It is the school holidays yet I am in work being very unproductive as it is HOT HOT HOT and I am begining to glow rather too much!
Take care all
t x

urban_spirit

wannabe wrote:

Hi all
SO sorry to have abandoned you - but you are getting on fine without me life has just been crazy and still on pants dial up at home which is a bummer
It is really fab to see new names - welcome and save me a bit of cake without the icing please - no that doesn't mean you can lick it!
Well I am now 30 - eek is it like a time bomb, do I go bang now????
It is the school holidays yet I am in work being very unproductive as it is HOT HOT HOT and I am begining to glow rather too much!
Take care all
t x

No wannabe hon, 30 is a delicious time where you get more comfortable with yourself and in your own skin, and start encouraging things that bring you pleasure.