Trying For a Baby part 4

Sammy_Girl

Evening All,

I agree. I've got the App on my iPhone and it is a Fertility Friend one - you can sync it with your usual FF user ID. I must say though that I do prefer it on my phone as I find on the usual website there's too much info. So if you have already got an iPhone or an itouch I would recommend it ~ but probably not worth going to get one just for this app. But I've already seen a lush pregnancy app if I'm lucky enough to ever get that far!

Not much to report here. CD22 for me and AF due Sunday (hopefully sooner!).

Hugs and sticky baby dust to all x

QQuaver

jacobsmum wrote: »

hi ladies how is everybody?
just a quick question how long did you wait after your m/c before dtd? with all my others we have tended to wait a few weeks but we dtd last night and was wondering if i may have put myself at risk of an infection? iykwim
xx

I was told to not to until bleeding stops. Otherwise use condom.

TwiceasNice wrote: »

Its only through this thread i have truely realised how common it is to mc. That doesn't make the pain anyless but its nice to knoww i am in a place where people have been through the same situation as me.

I am now over a week late and still bfn so i am making an app to go drs. I think i asked before but got overlooked but has anyone missed a month period before. just need to know if this is common or something i should worry about!

I don't think mc is that common, it is perhaps that people who mc'd are more likely to post here than those who had straight forward pregnancies.

I used to lurk, but never posted until I had mc.
Not many people knew of my pregnancy, so this was a good place to share:D

As for skipping AF, I usually skip (or have very late AF) once or twice a year since the very beginning:cool:

MERFE

morning, I'm back. Had a scan yesterday because of bleeding and the pregnancy is completely gone. It was over so fast this time we barely had a chance to get used to it. I'm not going to be actually TTC for a few months just to give my body a rest on the advice of the lady who scanned me. She also advised that whilst 1-2 miscarriages can be very common for no reason, when you get to three it is more likely that there's a reason its happening so I'm going to be referred for tests now.

jacobsmum

QQuaver wrote: »

I was told to not to until bleeding stops. Otherwise use condom.

morning ladies
thats made me felel better, i had stopped bleeding a few days before we dtd.
im so sorry merfe ((hugs))
i started my tests off last week, just waiting for my referall for gynae and i think lauralous waiting for hers, am sure theres more ladies also but its early am not quite awake yet

xx

ladylegs

MERFE wrote: »

morning, I'm back. Had a scan yesterday because of bleeding and the pregnancy is completely gone. It was over so fast this time we barely had a chance to get used to it. I'm not going to be actually TTC for a few months just to give my body a rest on the advice of the lady who scanned me. She also advised that whilst 1-2 miscarriages can be very common for no reason, when you get to three it is more likely that there's a reason its happening so I'm going to be referred for tests now.

Oh, MERFE. I'm so so sorry. I know it's a bittersweet pill to say "at least you can get the tests now" but hopefully they will lead to a solution and you'll get your longed for little one. Sounds like the best thing to do is to step away from ttc so you can recover emotionally as well as physically.
But you know us lot are here at any time for you....well, maybe not 4am (unless MoneySaver12 is waiting for another Boots sale)

TwiceasNice_2

QQuaver wrote: »

I don't think mc is that common, it is perhaps that people who mc'd are more likely to post here than those who had straight forward pregnancies.

I used to lurk, but never posted until I had mc.
Not many people knew of my pregnancy, so this was a good place to share:D

As for skipping AF, I usually skip (or have very late AF) once or twice a year since the very beginning:cool:

Mc is quite common as up to 1 in 4 women experience it and i think your right due to the nature of this board it can seem more. In my RL i'm not aware of so many women who are ttc so it def seems less common for example out of my close friends i am the only 1 who has had a mc.

I only joined this thread after my mc and am very glad i found it.

RE: af being late this is a bit of a anomoly for me as the first time i ever had it was last Jan and i seem to be having it again this year.

Big hug MERFE and any other ladies who need it

Am off work today as i have a stinking cold, managed to suffer through work yesterday, but no way could have made it today!

**confuzzled**

Merfe I'm so sorry:( (((HUGS))) we're all here for you xx

QQuaver

MERFE, I'm so so sorry (((Big hugs))):(

gettingthereslowly

Bigs Hugs Merfe ((((HUGS))))

Welcome Bluebell

Woke up this morning to EWCM - Hubby woke up to his cold sore :rotfl:oh well we were planning on having a break this month so thats sorted.

Fuzz can I come off the testing list please for this month. Know that it will be at least a week until DH gammy lip heals and clears before we bd so no chance of a birthday BFP (dont fancy annoying myself on my bday with a BFN when I know there is no or little chance of anything other than that)

Big hugs to anyone that wants one

Sticky baby dust to all (and happy bding to everyone ) xxxx

Murray

Hi everyone,

I've decided to take the plunge and delurk! I've been following this thread for about a month now and cannot tell you how much stuff I have learnt from you all so thank you very much! I dont really want to talk to my friends & family about TTC becuase I dont want the extra pressure so it is a brilliant support to listen to you guys who are going through it too.

Just a bit about myself, I'm 29 and am trying for #1 (it seems strange to write that down - so much more definate!!). We've been married for 8 months and TTC for 4 months. There are no complications that we know of. I'm CD27 now and am desperately trying to resist the uncontrollable urge to POAS! I'm going to test on friday (CD30) with a Clear Blue test that you can use 4 days early becuase I'm going out that night and dont want be tee total if theres no need (my friends would smell a rat if I wasnt drinking too!!).

Anyway, sorry for waffling and I hope you'll let me join your club!

I couldnt go without saying how sorry I am for the ladies that have had the bad news recently...I've been thinking of you.

Murray x