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Trying For a Baby part 4

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  • twinklie
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    becs wrote: »
    Twinklie I have a lot of the same "symptoms" as you constipation (sorry way tmi there!), had the sore boobs although was nipples rather than boobs but not as bad now (again tmi!) the pains I've been getting for a couple of days now, like a stitch type pain on the left! I'm cd 29 now and average cycle is 28 but longest was last month at 35. I am not testing! EVER! It's too flipping depressing!

    Edit to say also been getting heartburn past couple of days and nosebleeds for the past 2 days!

    You first then...:rotfl: Nah, seriously, I don't think I am though (but I'll let a little flame of hope keep flickering).
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  • twinklie
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    Maddie wrote: »
    twinklie - you sound like a great friend, obviously!!! :D I hope everything works out ok for her. I can't remember what you are like with testing - are you afraid to test like smartie or unable to resist like me?

    Used to be like you...now I'm just cheap!!! :money: I'd rather the witch disappoint me, rather than being disappointed AND out of pocket!!! :D:rolleyes:

    Ellie forgot to put in earlier post that I'm really sorry this is dragging out for you. I hope it gets resolved in the least stressful way possible soon.
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  • Red_Rose
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    Just had an amusing thought. An alternative ttc thread for our OH's. Can imagine it now.... "had another s**g today"! :rotfl:

    twinkle Thats very MSE of you! Heres hoping AF doesn't appear & the test doesn't dissapoint this month. :)
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  • becs
    becs Posts: 2,101 Forumite
    Twinklie I'm not testing! Seriously! I may consider it if no af in 3 weeks time but I strongly suspect that's about as likely as an immaculate conception! I'd rather have a teeny bit of hope until af arrives than see a bfn! DH will probably have his results back before af shows and that'll probably confirm that af will arrive! My pma got up and gone? Never!
  • sexki11en
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    twinklie wrote: »
    You first then...:rotfl: Nah, seriously, I don't think I am though (but I'll let a little flame of hope keep flickering).

    You guys, I'm only posting this as I wish someone had posted it for me, I nearly drove myself mad second guessing and POAS 3 times! I had exactly the same symptoms last month (constipation, pains in lower stomach, sore boobs, nausea etc etc) for the first time ever. Plus AF was late (!!!!!!) The cowbag still got me tho.

    Slap on the wrist both of you for SS :rotfl:

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  • sexki11en
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    Red_Rose wrote: »
    Just had an amusing thought. An alternative ttc thread for our OH's. Can imagine it now.... "had another s**g today"! :rotfl:

    twinkle Thats very MSE of you! Heres hoping AF doesn't appear & the test doesn't dissapoint this month. :)

    This made me laugh. Welcome to our crazy gang!

    SK x
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  • twinklie
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    Don't worry sexki11en I'n not buying it. I got over all the SSing when I was convinced one time when AF was a week and a half late!! :eek: Like I said in earlier posts I think it's the madness of going back to school messing with me.

    Having said that...it is nice to daydream. But shall wait for AF to turn up as usual.
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  • sexki11en wrote: »
    You guys, I'm only posting this as I wish someone had posted it for me, I nearly drove myself mad second guessing and POAS 3 times! I had exactly the same symptoms last month (constipation, pains in lower stomach, sore boobs, nausea etc etc) for the first time ever. Plus AF was late (!!!!!!) The cowbag still got me tho.

    Slap on the wrist both of you for SS :rotfl:

    SK x

    I actually really appreciate your honesty to be fair because I think im guilty of noticing more now its an issue in my life as i think last month id of just got on with stuff but now im like oooooh ive got pains and urgh i feel sick and then wondering whereas its probable i normally get pains and dont give them a second thought and feel sick coz im hungry or something.


    And lol at Red Roses alternative thread for the blokes hehe i would love to see that lol
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  • becs
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    definately not guilty of ss'ing here sexki11en. After 33 months of no bfp I really truely have given up all hope of it at the moment I'm afraid, just wanted to post the pre af symptoms so when af shows everyone can see that all these "supposed" pg symptoms are af 99% of the time af unfortunately!
    Like Twinklie was lulled into ss'ing last month because lp was 3 days longer than it had ever been so dared to dream only to be picking myself up off the floor with shattered dreams when af did show!
  • what she said.

    Managed to convince myself the first month of trying that because AF was late and I felt sick in the mornings and my sense of smell was heightened and food tasted funny, that we'd done it and was totally gutted when AF showed up. Have to accept that I feel sick most mornings, get dizzy fairly regularly, my boobs just hurt and I'm always tired and perhaps my cheese had gone off.

    Last month I was more relaxed about it. Did a test before Christmas to see if I could drink, but didnt expect AF not to show.

    This month I know I'm not because we've not Bd'd at the right time. We've not bd'd in nearly 2 weeks actually :(

    Right. Question. Is it possible to get ewcm on separate occasions in the same month? Definitely had EWCM last week and what looked like EWCM yesterday. Ideas? Thoughts? Help!!! No idea what my stupid body is doing.
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