Trying For a Baby part 4

smartie12

I'm feeling a little better now

I've had lunch with an MSE'r (cheap lunch of course;)) and we bought the £4 meal deal thingy from Morrisons which I shall cook tonight:D

Our probem with BDing is that DH has to get up at 5 for work... which means me having to wake him up:rolleyes:... so we (me especially) are always tired He has a few days off over xmas which we will make the most of;):D

I bet even when we're all not TTC anymore (cos we will all have babies:D) we will still be thinking about whether its OV time!:rotfl:

**confuzzled**

smartie12 wrote: »

I bet even when we're all not TTC anymore (cos we will all have babies:D) we will still be thinking about whether its OV time!:rotfl:

Bloody hope not!!!:eek: Once i have a bubs to look after I reckon I'll be too busy to even think about that stuff...well, until we're planning the next one;):D

QQuaver

**confuzzled** wrote: »

If he's been drinking surely it's easier?! Or maybe thats just my DH But after a glass of wine or couple of beers and a nibble on the ear is normally enough to get him going:D

I don't know, he had problem on our wedding night since he drank too much:D
Otherwise, since we never TTCd, I don't know how he will react to 'let's make baby! Perform!' routine:rotfl:

**confuzzled**

QQuaver wrote: »

I don't know, he had problem on our wedding night since he drank too much:D
Otherwise, since we never TTCd, I don't know how he will react to 'let's make baby! Perform!' routine:rotfl:

:rotfl:Theres a fine line between drinking enough to relax and then drinking too much...men just haven't figured that out yet:rolleyes::)

And the 'perform' routine I imagine wouldn't go down too well! Its like being told you HAVE to eat 3 family size bars of chocolate...normally you'd love to but being told you HAVE to takes the fun out of things IYSWIM:rotfl:

Metranil_Vavin

I think that myself and OH are just bl*ody lazy...dunno I used to love it, but thesedays I just cant be bothered, and neither can he..not a good state of affairs for baby making! :rolleyes:

**confuzzled**

Metranil_Vavin wrote: »

I think that myself and OH are just bl*ody lazy...dunno I used to love it, but thesedays I just cant be bothered, and neither can he..not a good state of affairs for baby making! :rolleyes:

:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:At least you're honest about it:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

Metranil_Vavin

its a bit depressing sometimes!

**confuzzled**

MV do you not find that the more you dtd the more you want to?!?!

twinklie

I'm naughty (I'm also off work because I can't turn my neck so can't drive - but thats not why I'm naughty). At the weekend it was OH's 40th and we BD'd alot!!! We mostly used condoms but once or twice didn't although he did withdraw. Is it wrong that I'm secretly hoping one snuck through??

It would be awful timing and not something I'd plan right now (hence, not ttc anymore) but I know we'd both be over the moon (if a little stressed). I didn't really think about it at the time...but it was my ov time as well. Now I can't stop thinking about it! :rotfl:

I very much doubt anything will have happened but it's nice to be thinking about it again (even if it is only briefly).

Oh and my bf's little bro starts chemo on the 21st. Keep the positive vibes coming please. He's going to be fine...I know he will, but all the PMA you can muster can't hurt. Thanks ladies.

twinklie

MV I have a very low sex drive and the only time I've actually been interested is when ttc. I don't particularly get anything out of the act itself though (I just like making DH feel special). I feel awful because DH does. Although, I don't mind it with him...I used to hate it (but I was in an abusive relationship and wonder if it's damaged me slightly).