MSE Pregnancy Club 17

PrincessPlaty

aless02 wrote: »

I'm sooooooooo sore when sitting down

Sounds obvious but have you tried sitting on a soft cushion or a bean bag?

meltdown_point

Thing is.......Whats really peeving me off is his DS who is 17 in 3 days.....stole £50 on the 23rd Dec (our fault as we trusted him to go shopping for clothes) he got 1 pair of jeans and a tee shirt! that cost £35 so we accounted for bus fares and eats......he came home with a handful of change....said he lent his mate money to get a present for his mum.....well yes OH went ballistic and told him to get the money before he returned again......well on xmas day his son sent him texts....asking if he could come over OH asked if he had the money and his son the sent the most horrible texts calling him old man get a life Eff off and look after your new family etc.....OH was really cut up about it and I was there telling him that firstly he was probably having a horrible time at his mums....(which turned out to be true) and secondly he wanted to see him over xmas and was a little jealous that he was here and OH wouldnt go and lift him (as he had a few drinks) and his mum was the same! (surprisingly true again) I wasnt going out on xmas evening driving 10 miles on frosty ungritted country roads.....most things no problem but not this!!! Then yesterday at around 4pm a text apologising for his behaviour arrived and OH asked what he should do, I said just leave it, and let him ask to come around, OH did do this and low and behold another text arrived asking if he could come over, to which OH said yes and proceeded to colllect him, OH and his son came into the house his son went into his bedroom and sat there while we ate our dinner....OH approached me and said I will have words with him tomorrow as its boxing day!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! But yet my kids are woken up out of their bed yelled at for doing such a trivial thing...........Really Really angry now!!

PP love the cable idea......I bought OH his xbox for christmas last year too maybe I will do the same....

MLSO Im usually quite calm.....until im pregnant......then I go a bit nutty, but I know this time im not wrong!!

aless02

PrincessPlaty wrote: »

Sounds obvious but have you tried sitting on a soft cushion or a bean bag?

Oh yes, I have a pillow that follows me around the house!

meltdown_point

aless02 wrote: »

aww hugs to meltdown point - can't be easy going through all that with the holidays

MWs just been around for a long visit...poor little Finn got performance anxiety with feeding, after I'd been telling them about how good he was! Took agggges to get him on even though he hadn't fed in like 5 hrs. He's showing the tiniest bit of jaundice so going to see MW again on Tues. All else well, he's just so adorable (and so tiny!). I'm sooooooooo sore when sitting down

There is a lot to be said for rubber rings:rotfl: I had TMI awful piles TMI OVER after DD couldnt sit/ stand do anything....my mum bought me a childs water ring it was my best friend for a month;)

Can you give baby water? A MW once told me that when a child has jaundice to treat him like a growing flower......plenty of food water and sunlight:) DS was born with jaundice and a growth in his blood was caused by it... he was fine after a couple of weeks of being treated like a flower:) His crib was beside the window all day long and 2/3 ounces of water between feeding!!! Im so glad your enjoying your baby, its lovely to hear!!:T

PrincessPlaty

meltdown_point wrote: »

Thing is.......Whats really peeving me off is his DS who is 17 in 3 days.....stole £50 on the 23rd Dec (our fault as we trusted him to go shopping for clothes) he got 1 pair of jeans and a tee shirt! that cost £35 so we accounted for bus fares and eats......he came home with a handful of change....said he lent his mate money to get a present for his mum.....well yes OH went ballistic and told him to get the money before he returned again......well on xmas day his son sent him texts....asking if he could come over OH asked if he had the money and his son the sent the most horrible texts calling him old man get a life Eff off and look after your new family etc.....OH was really cut up about it and I was there telling him that firstly he was probably having a horrible time at his mums....(which turned out to be true) and secondly he wanted to see him over xmas and was a little jealous that he was here and OH wouldnt go and lift him (as he had a few drinks) and his mum was the same! (surprisingly true again) I wasnt going out on xmas evening driving 10 miles on frosty ungritted country roads.....most things no problem but not this!!! Then yesterday at around 4pm a text apologising for his behaviour arrived and OH asked what he should do, I said just leave it, and let him ask to come around, OH did do this and low and behold another text arrived asking if he could come over, to which OH said yes and proceeded to colllect him, OH and his son came into the house his son went into his bedroom and sat there while we ate our dinner....OH approached me and said I will have words with him tomorrow as its boxing day!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! But yet my kids are woken up out of their bed yelled at for doing such a trivial thing...........Really Really angry now!!

PP love the cable idea......I bought OH his xbox for christmas last year too maybe I will do the same....

MLSO Im usually quite calm.....until im pregnant......then I go a bit nutty, but I know this time im not wrong!!

I dont blame you for being angry i would be too! I wouldnt take your DS's xmas money off them though hun, one of amazon would cost about a quid! For them to be rudely awoken from their beds and yelled at is not on at all!
Season of goodwill i would give them their xmas money back yes it may have been their fault it went missing but for the sake of summat that will cost about a quid to replace its not the end of the world

xx

PrincessPlaty

meltdown_point wrote: »

There is a lot to be said for rubber rings:rotfl: I had TMI awful piles TMI OVER after DD couldnt sit/ stand do anything....my mum bought me a childs water ring it was my best friend for a month;)

Ooh i forgot bout rubber rings! and salt baths too! :rotfl: Oh god il be doing this all again soon :eek::rotfl:

Sarah_Joanne

Hey all. Caught up halfway yesterday and just noticed new birth stories so have read those before I continue back on this thread. Aless and Beenie, lovely stories and yes they made me cry!!

Back in a bit when I've read up anyway. Hope everyone had a lovely Christmas.

meltdown_point

PrincessPlaty wrote: »

Ooh i forgot bout rubber rings! and salt baths too! :rotfl: Oh god il be doing this all again soon :eek::rotfl:

You and I both_pale_ Ach well it will be worth it in the end!!!:p

Its the only part im not looking forward to......that and the ring of fire!! Oh i have writted in the birth plan that the G&A is under no circumstances to be take of me after baby is born.......The after birth was like labour all over again with Nos 3&4.......so its not to be taken off me at all....

PrincessPlaty

meltdown_point wrote: »

You and I both_pale_ Ach well it will be worth it in the end!!!:p

Im just hoping i can get away with no stitches this time :rotfl:

meltdown_point

PrincessPlaty wrote: »

Im just hoping i can get away with no stitches this time :rotfl:

Tee Hee I have been so lucky that way.......I never had a stitch....just grazes:j bet now I have said that I will get stitched now:eek:

My sister was stitched inside and out...and she hated me for not having any!!