MSE Pregnancy Club 17

meltdown_point

WOW......well done on the safe arrival of all babies:T

Im now 20th on the list..........OMG!!

Had a massive arguement with OH last night resulting in me asking him to leave, the estate agents are open tomorrow, and im sure he will be able to find somewhere pretty fast after all its a renters paradise out there!!! Im blooming cross with him, DS2 & DS3 needed batteries and apparently took them out of DPs xbox controller, but the lost the back of it......Resulting in DP sorry exDP going to their rooms at 11.30 after tutting and huffing at me over it then shoving the controller into my face to show me what they had done!!!!!! I got on my hands and knees to look for missing part while he ranted and raved at the kids.....he then came up and started on me (at this stage i had turned on the big light, and moved the settee, table and was again on my hands and knees looking under the bookcase!! He went in and out through me for a shortcut....and was yelling at me so I told him to shut his face and stop blaming me for something I didnt do......then he went off on one again saying he wasnt shouting.....I had enough at this stage and walked out.....Grrrrrr......and sent him a text saying he had better apologise half hour later he still hadnt apologised and I sent him a text saying that both of his sons had stolen money off me and I never reacted the way that he did, either times.....that he didnt react the way he reacted tonight with my children.....I said that his priorties were all wrong and that he was completly destroying us...with his childish behaviour.....he was ruining what had been a nice christmas and for the sake of saying sorry to me he had just ruined our relationship!
still nothing an hour later.....
I went home and locked up....told him to look at his phone as a movie was more important than me.....baby or anything else in his life....I went to bed.....he came in and said now say it to my face so i did...."I would like you to move out asap" he said that was fine, I also asked him not to sleep in the bed he said fine......at 4/5am he got into bed...Grrr another arguement today then methinks, I will be going tomorrow and getting a list of all the rental properties as Honestly I have enough to deal with without a 36 YO child......
I am able to do this on my own and He knows it, im sick sore and tired of being his support when things go wrong!!


And Breathe..........................................
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Nah im still peeved off!!

PrincessPlaty

aww meltdown sending you a huge hug hun! EA wont be open til tuesday though babe its a bank holiday tomorrow, hope you feel better soon xx

Kindof get yourself to a doctor asap woman just to make sure you and bubs are ok hope you feel better soon! xx

maybebaby i was sat this morning wondering whether im gonna end up with a 2009 or 2010 baby :rotfl: Having 2 due dates one in either year is a royal pain in the backside its just a case of sitting and waiting now its driving me nuts :rotfl::rotfl:

Twinkles i went through all my girls toys a few days before xmas they didnt even notice :rolleyes: Im still in my jammies too oh well i dont intend on going anywhere today not unless bubs decides to make an appearance :rotfl::rotfl:

Aless it does get easier honey! First couple of nights are always the hardest both my girls slept through from 4/5 days old So you never know you might be lucky!

Im a bit miffed the ds that i got DD1 for xmas isnt working properly when you touch it with the pen thing it touches like a cm away from where you want it to be I brought it secondhand (wanted to see how she got on with it first before splashing out totally) and i cant find the receipt :mad: She is happy with it but its not the point is it, it still cost me bloody £40 :mad:

PrincessPlaty

:eek: :rotfl:

meltdown_point

Oh PP I didnt think of that.........Gonna go on to the local websites and print off a list for him. I know I sound awfully hard, but i honestly cant live with him anymore. My kids really adore him probably as he is on their level with attitude and spoiltnessness (is that a word?) But I need to act like an adult here...could I cope with 6 children? NO
Could I cope with my kids getting the short end of the stick? NO
Could I cope with being scapegoat when things go wrong? NO
Could I cope with being spoken to like a child? NO
He is still in bed as is his DS16....my kids are all up and about and are watching TV in the sunroom....I have taken DS2 and DS3s christmas money of them to replace the controller....I think that they need to pay for a new one so that they will think twice about A) taking something that doesnt belong to them and showing them that they were in the wrong and making them pay for their mistake....Tough love huh? I dont think im wrong as they havne even batted an eyelid to look for the missing part!!


Grrrrr on your DDs ds!!!

PrincessPlaty

meltdown_point wrote: »

Oh PP I didnt think of that.........Gonna go on to the local websites and print off a list for him. I know I sound awfully hard, but i honestly cant live with him anymore. My kids really adore him probably as he is on their level with attitude and spoiltnessness (is that a word?) But I need to act like an adult here...could I cope with 6 children? NO
Could I cope with my kids getting the short end of the stick? NO
Could I cope with being scapegoat when things go wrong? NO
Could I cope with being spoken to like a child? NO
He is still in bed as is his DS16....my kids are all up and about and are watching TV in the sunroom....I have taken DS2 and DS3s christmas money of them to replace the controller....I think that they need to pay for a new one so that they will think twice about A) taking something that doesnt belong to them and showing them that they were in the wrong and making them pay for their mistake....Tough love huh? I dont think im wrong as they havne even batted an eyelid to look for the missing part!!


Grrrrr on your DDs ds!!!

hun honestly he is making a big deal over nothing and no i dont think you are over reacting! You can get the recharchable ones cheap as anything http://www.meritline.com/xbox360-rechargeable-battery-pack-black-110---p-35885.aspx?source=fghdac
Stick to your guns hun, he is behaving like a child!

ETA just found them on amazon new from $1.99 http://www.amazon.com/Xbox-360-Wireless-Black-Controller-Battery/dp/B001E65P72

MYLITTLESISTERLOLA

meltdown point
all I can say is if my DH spoke to me like the controller would be the least of his worries, I'd have the console smashed into little bits - but then I have a horrid temper. His reaction seems extreme and maybe a bit of space would do you both the world of good - its hard to know what else to say as I am not familar with your circumstances, but good luck with whatever you decide

ymakesmile

Congrats to all the new babies! I hope your enjoying your mummy cuddles.
I am just at home waiting for the midwife to arrive to do my booking appointment and I feel dead nervous! How silly is that! I think it makes it far to real that I'm pregnant so lord knows what I'll be like when I go for my scan, probably a complete wreck.
Positive vibes to you all and get well vibes to those who need them. x

PrincessPlaty

MYLITTLESISTERLOLA wrote: »

meltdown point
all I can say is if my DH spoke to me like the controller would be the least of his worries, I'd have the console smashed into little bits - but then I have a horrid temper. His reaction seems extreme and maybe a bit of space would do you both the world of good - its hard to know what else to say as I am not familar with your circumstances, but good luck with whatever you decide

:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:
When i threw my ex out i did it so that he had to come back and get his stuff, i took all the important cables away and packed up the rest for him, I still have the cables sat in my cupboard :rotfl::rotfl:

The last i heard from his dad who agreed with what i had done (i had paid for it) he sold it to someone for £20 coz he was having trouble trying to get replacement cables :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

aless02

aww hugs to meltdown point - can't be easy going through all that with the holidays

MWs just been around for a long visit...poor little Finn got performance anxiety with feeding, after I'd been telling them about how good he was! Took agggges to get him on even though he hadn't fed in like 5 hrs. He's showing the tiniest bit of jaundice so going to see MW again on Tues. All else well, he's just so adorable (and so tiny!). I'm sooooooooo sore when sitting down

elastigirl

Huge congrats on the recent births. I think i have kind of caught up but there was so many pages i lost count. We had a great christmas all on our own. I can't imagine what it would have been like for our ds if we were still in hospital with harry. He was a good boy and let us eat our xmas dinner. The day went so quick and i wanted to remeber and save every moment but it went by in a blur. Harry is waking up at 2 and 5 for feeds which isn't too bad. This week is jammed packed with vistors so it will be like pass the parcel with him poor thing but so many people haven't seen him with him being in hospital.

Sorry your going through a bad time melting point hugs to you hun.