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  • mermaid85
    mermaid85 Posts: 348 Forumite
    Yeh he sees him regularly but txts the next day on when he can get him again when i tell him b4hand i'll let him know asap cuz of arrangements for the weekend. He txts saying 'how ru and bump doin?'. he hasnt helped me but on the phone he was on about buying the pram for me and sound excited about coming around. i just want him to see what he really wants but he just says there is nothing there anymore. we were together 9yrs. :(

    if there is any chance of him regretting ending it, it won't happen while he is still getting the best of everything. He's getting all his own way at mo and not giving anything in return, so won't want to go back to a full on rel as then he'll be expected to behave appropriately. Sounds like he has the family life when it suits, and enjoying the single life at same time. Sorry to be blunt just been here myself :o

    And if he doesn't know after 9 years!! Will he ever?
  • kindofagilr
    kindofagilr Posts: 6,825 Forumite
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    Evansangel wrote: »
    Haha i love how whenever we have IL's coming round we are always rushing around to tidy up :D

    NHS direct called me back and they said they aren't concerned to much about me falling on my back, as i have full control of everything. But they dont want what to do about me having pain relief as paracetomal isn't working. So to call my GP, so now im awaiting a call back from my GP.

    Last time i ever try to help OH with shopping lol.

    I have to but only cos MIL has the cheek/nerve to actually comment on "mess" my mam wouldnt dream of mentioning it lol

    EA did they monitor bean yesterday? like her HB and that? did they check your pelvis to see how far in she is? I am itching to know how engaged you are

    Gym - No there is no som and her FB has been quiet EEK I hope she is the first of th four!

    I need to ring Sky and cancel the movies and psorts and I am not looking forwrd to it cos they might try and get me to stay and I am not that strong lol

    SS you cant make him love you unfortunatly :( I dont think him coming round for chinese is going to help the situation with you and him, thats giving you mixed signals and your son as well :(

    Awwww theres Som lol Exactly, we both love beanys name so she should habe just shut up!!! DWP = Department of Work and Pensions, The DHSS, The Ministry?

    Isnt it mental how everything seesm to have jut stopped isnt it, its driving me crazy lol

    I am going to have a bath in a min, but going to skip my clary oil, it seems to make me sweat buckets ... nice lol

    There is a man in airline and I want to stab him!!!!!!!!!!!! he has missed check in and he is begging to get on the flight he keeps saying over and over please try and get me on the flight please, and the worker is like I have tired, I rang them and the check in is closed! And he is nearly crying, he is like I havent seen my girlfirien in 3 months, the thing is its 7.30am and there is a fight at 1pm which they can get him on, so I like screaming at tv for !!!!s sake its not that long to wait lol
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  • kindofagilr
    kindofagilr Posts: 6,825 Forumite
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    Just had this off pamper

    [FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]Hi Rachael, [/FONT] spacer.gifspacer.gif[FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]CONGRATULATIONS ON YOUR BRAND NEW ADDITION: YOUR OWN LITTLE MIRACLE [/FONT] [FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif] With the pregnancy only just behind you, you may still sometimes find it hard to believe that the tiny baby curled up in your arms is really yours. In all of creation, there is nothing quite as amazing as babies, with their own abilities, personalities, histories and futures. Your child is already unique in every way: a little individual full of wonders waiting to unfold! [/FONT]
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  • Evansangel
    Evansangel Posts: 6,791 Forumite
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    Baby centre emailed me on Sunday, subject "Your newborn" !! Its as if they are mocking me :(

    They didn't tell me how engaged she was :(
    But they wrote 'eng' on my notes, which means engaged... so im not sure lol.
    But she's in perfect position, she only gets into an awkward position for my mw lol.

    My mum and IL's never comment, its not like our house is messy, it just i have ALOT of stuff and i always get it out to use and never put it away. Incase i need it again :p
    Im a horder and OH hates it :D

    eta: Our recycle bin came finally! After 6 months of living here :D Slightly annoying thing, we got fed up of having loads of csard stacked up waiting for it, so OH threw it all away yesterday with the normal rubbish lol
  • mermaid85
    mermaid85 Posts: 348 Forumite
    Lol OH moved in a bit before xmas, and IL's haven't visited yet!! We just got to them :)

    My mum is a nightmare for commenting on my house though - I'm clean but untidy generally, but she'll say stuff like, ooh your toilet looks really clean at mo grrr ie it doesn't normally? And on dd's 4th bday I found her actually recleaning my downstairs loo DURING dds party! We had a bit of a row over that although I realise she was trying to help it seemed really rude at the time.
  • mermaid85
    mermaid85 Posts: 348 Forumite
    Have got 2nd blood tests and anti-d at 4.30...

    I have a tendancy to actually faint during blood tests, so have got big bottle of lucozade for afternoon. but has anyone got any suggestions on when the best time to eat would be? Injection doesn't bother me but I've been getting worked up about bloods since appointment was made 3 weeks ago :o really want to stay conscious coz I passed out when mw did first lot, vein stopped and had to go hospital to get them done which just prolonged my panic. and that was at home, laying down with tv on loud to distract me :o
  • ymakesmile
    ymakesmile Posts: 505 Forumite
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    I think I'm one of those weird people who actually quite enjoy injections and getting blood taken. I really feel for anyone who has any kind of worry with it especially during pregnancy. Though I must admit my anti-d injection hurt, but in a good way lol.
  • mermaid85
    mermaid85 Posts: 348 Forumite
    I don't mind injections in the slightest but I'm selfish lol I don't want to give anything away. Have noticed a lot of women seem to be rhesus negative too, yet them men all seem to be positive? I did get OH to check blood type after receiving letter on what anti-d actually is... with dd I didn't get it so wasn't bothered lol was happier not knowing!
  • ymakesmile
    ymakesmile Posts: 505 Forumite
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    Do you get your anti d in your bum or arm? I had mine in my arm but midwife said it hurts less in bum, not sure why they didn't give me the choice.
  • Somnium
    Somnium Posts: 1,734 Forumite
    mermaid - sorry cant comment on whens best to eat! Im a real pain to get blood out of! Good job I'm not needle phobic or squeemish lol. Weird time to clean a loo at someones party!! As for sharing birthdays Its not so much as I want to as I'd rather it was mine than his, I'd really rather she had her own day but its not gonna stop the fact that we will be close together, nothing I can do about that now!

    EA - grr at the recycling bin, thats sods law! oh and bubs must be at least 3/5 to class as engaged so I've been told.

    Kindof - I hate those emails too Grrr! Glad am not watching Airline stupid !!!! Mind you I shout at stupid comercials atm lol, must be boredom.

    I really cant believe how many of us now have gone over due! Really hope Guinea's abscence is a good thing and she isnt just off being fustrated x
    Baby :female: Tahlie Lois born 15/3/10 7lb 12 oz :heartpuls
    Working on baby no2 :D
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