MSE Pregnancy Club 17

fernliebee

MJS- Fern is a great name I'm not bias at all!

DD middle name is Aster which is starflower. I also really like Acacia and Lilac.

Violet is on my girls name list as a middle name.

mermaid85

Fern is nice, but not what I'm looking for I quite like Acacia but it's the name of a really trampy road near me lol

I was planning on getting a tattoo done of my DD's name, not like Beckhams etc, it's more like a tribal pattern which is made up of the letters. Baby bro is wicked a designing stuff like that, and had jasmine flowers incorporated around it. But now as haven't got that yet and having another daughter, was thinking about getting a rose, jasmine and whatever flower dd2 has for middle name entwined in a tattoo instead.

SUPER_SAVER_7

Thank you x
Hope you ladies are all doin well?
Just spoke on the phone to him and he said he wants us to get on but he doesnt love me and never will be be with me again. Said he wants to come over the weekend for a chinese with me so we can get on? whats this all about? he said the more we get on the more time he can spend with his son. is he just using me thro that. i'm so stupid i just want him to realise...what do i do? my sons so upset that he doesnt know whats goin on

Evansangel

Im doing that, but with Lily's

Starting around my ankle and going up my leg

Right i hate my internet, it just disconnected again. Grr!

MIL is having a tatoo of some Poppys and Lily's entwined. Poppy is SIL's daughter

Somnium

Kindof - if you can get proper lavender oil then you could pop a few drops in the bath, I have a linen spray and put that on my pillow before I sleep. If I wake up and am awake for a while then I try reading for a bit, if that doesnt work then I come down stairs and play games on the comp lol. Oh and ignore your very rude friend, your name choice is non of her business, as long as you and OH love is all that counts. Im being thick whats DWP?

Smartie - thinking of you for your scan today x

EA - smarties for breakie love it! Sory your backs still hurting Ya totally put off names by people have met/known. Oh and if your struggling for names bad enough you have to call, call centres and hang up then next time I'll lend you a name book lol.

Fernlie - I totally agree with you on all you said about names, I grew up with my name being totally different and altho OHs is not unheard of its not common so we wanted the same for baby girl, but not weird! Do you mind saying what DDs name is out of intrest?

gym - sorry to dissapoint! If anything everything has died down even more now, but then as I sooo dont want bubs coming tomorrow then am quite happy atm. Oh and have only ever known one Guy, he was my boss, and a really nice person if just a lil mental lol, totally full of life and bubly, but then he was a kiwi hehe.

SS - I am so sorry hun, but thankyou for popping by at what must be a really hard time for you. Feel free to rant or express your self here at anytime. I think if I were in your position Id be kicking OH into touch and telling him its all or nothing, sounds like he wants his cake and to eat it. But thats my opinion and you do whats right in your heart xxxx

ymake - best of luck for the scan today, hope bubs is well behaved and camera friendly

mermaid - I like Willow too

diamond - so jelous of your free Aqua, I loved going, but stopped a few weeks back as its miles away and was concerned about Lil lady putting in an early appearance and being so far from our own hospital.

Well deffinatley keeping my legs crossed if baby doesnt decide to show up soon, she will not share her birthday with FIL on wed, even if Im in labour Ill be screaming at the MWs that I refuse to push till past midnight! I dont mind her sharing my birthday cos at least we live together but think it will be a mare with FIL as he'll never shut up about it and then Ill get all hormonal and cry loads. TBH tho I think its gonna be another few days yet, not getting anything other than when I walk or shower atm, and tho am getting sharp pains in the foof there very random and not constant. Looks like Ill be getting a sweep on Fri!

mermaid85

SS it sounds like he is really messing you about. Hard to say as an outsider whether he wants to see you to get on, or to cause problems, but you really need a clean break before you can be friends. You can't go straight from being with someone, and having that type of expectations of them, to a friendship because you will still want the same things you did before. Is he still seeing your son? I had an ex who constantly called me and wanted to see me after telling me he didn't want to be with me anymore, and inevitably we ended up being the same with each other as we always were, our behaviour just fell straight back into it. And it ended up taking me nearly 2 years to get over him, coz every time I thought I had he screwed my head up again. It's natural to carry on how you were, but if that's not where he is it isn't fair to you coz you'll be getting mixed signals. x

SUPER_SAVER_7

Thanks som x
I just want him to realise what he had...i'm so stupid He just says we will be never together again but wants us to get on again. Said we could take r son out at the weekend, then when he's asleep we could have a chinese. What does this mean? i'm so....stupid He's moved to his mum and dads since he left 3 weeks agao btw.

mermaid85

Som - not much fun sharing birthdays, I was born on my dad's 40th and lovely though it is, I cried my heart out on my 20th - coz me being 20 meant my daddy was 60 and that seemed really old! lol
and then lost my nanna on my 21st which has made it a hard day, and hit home how bad it's gonna be after my dad passes being his bday too...
my sis has same prob as she was born 2 days off her dad's, and can't enjoy her bday since he died.

Evansangel

Som - I had frosties for breakfast lol. I just realised i wrote smarties. I was thinking about Smartie and her scan thats why

And i didn't actually do the call centre thing, i just thought of it yesterday thinking it was funny
I hate baby name books though, its like reading a dictionary.

SUPER_SAVER_7

Yeh he sees him regularly but txts the next day on when he can get him again when i tell him b4hand i'll let him know asap cuz of arrangements for the weekend. He txts saying 'how ru and bump doin?'. he hasnt helped me but on the phone he was on about buying the pram for me and sound excited about coming around. i just want him to see what he really wants but he just says there is nothing there anymore. we were together 9yrs.