MSE Parents Club Part 8

elle_gee

AM, is there anything that can be done to make exOH stay away? Legally, I mean.. some kind of restraining order

searching_me

thats poo AM .. cant you get a mutual exchange x

Sami_Bee

redmel1621 wrote: »

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I also wanted to ask those of you who are SAHM's....do you bother with make-up and dressing nice etc. As I am going to be one 'officially' from January I am starting to wonder what I will do all day, and I am also wondering how people find the motivation to look nice when they don't have to go anywhere. I am not a vain or materialistic person so am not too worried, but I don't want to turn into a big fat, greasy haired, sweaty, smelly lazy cow (who eats 3 bags of frazzles everyday;))....dykwim

Mel x

put simply; no I'm often greasy haired and a bit smelly :rotfl:
I'm with Ladybird on this

ladybirdintheuk wrote: »

Oh, and re makeup, I only wear it if I'm going out on the town, or to a wedding or something. I've not bothered with any since before I was pregnant I don't think. Life is too short!

plus I can't do make up so I'd definitely look worse if I did my own!:o

I did manage to keep up regular showers, hair styling and de-fuzzing etc. from when Chris was roughly 8 months old and hope to get back to that in the new year when Ed will be a similar age but while pg and looking after lil baby the rest of the worl just has to take me as I come. I'm fully aware some people are totally different to me and think it's wrong or whatever but to me my baby comes before everything 99% of the time until they're old enough to keep themselves entertained/nap for a decent amount of time

Krystaltips

Working my way through... But so far....


Ladybird, sorry to hear about your Nan

Mfd, got any jobs going?

r.mac wrote: »

On the upside though my sister has announced she is pg!!!!! It's all very exciting Although I'm not meant to tell anyone - but figured you aren't real anyway

My brother's wife too :shhh: (I'm the only one who knows )

Sorry to hear about your Granny too hun... And I hope things start picking up for you generally too...

Sami_Bee wrote: »

Gllaaaaaammmmmmmmm! http://www.shotdeadinthehead.com/products/info.php?products_id=976
:rotfl:

Frieeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeend! Hubby will love this!

tiamai_d wrote: »

Who's broody?

ME!!! Ridiculously so...

SugarSpun wrote: »

Husband's home again!!!!

Apparently he's doing much better than expected and has been allowed back here! Hurrah!

Yay!!! Keep an eagle eye on his personal hygeine though

tarajayne wrote: »

DD just rang, it's not a cyst but a problem in her babys tummy, gonna have an operation. Was sitting with Maddy in my arms so I got upset, can't imagine handing over such a little one for an operation!!!

((Hugs)) Hun, medical science is amazing now, I'm sure it will be fine

3onitsway wrote: »

Can I have a moan please - i'm fed up!

Anytime Home LO starts to feel better soon! And Wounder about the over payment! Hope they can spread it out a bit for you!

elle_gee

Totally agree, Sami!

I've had a lovely afternoon We're seeing each other next week too. I told my friend I'd been saying to OH I wish we saw them more, and it turns out my friend had been saying to her DH that she wished she saw us more, but she thought I wouldn't want to because we have appointments and I have friends "my own age" (I'm 25, she's 40, but makes no odds to me!), but we've been honest now and are probably going to see each other nearly every week :j

Rhys is crashed out on Daddy now. Been playing all afternoon so he's shattered!

astonsmummy

elle_gee wrote: »

AM, is there anything that can be done to make exOH stay away? Legally, I mean.. some kind of restraining order

Yeah there are options like that but I know he wont take any notice, this is the bloke who has been on a driving ban and been to prison for driving offences yet still drives around :rolleyes:
His best friend is my neighbour too so I just feel like I'll never be free if I stay in this house, dont get me wrong I dont feel like he's gonna come and kill me but he just wont leave me alone to get on with my life.

searching_me wrote: »

thats poo AM .. cant you get a mutual exchange x

Nope, got some rent arrears, so unless I pay them off, I'm stuck here.

astonsmummy

Oooh yeah and to top it off, I have bloody tonsilitis again!!!!!!!!!!!!
I feel like I;ve had just about enough now *cries*

searching_me

thats lovely elle .. nice to have friends like (quite jealous none of what little RL friends are like that) x

searching_me

AM if you dont mind me asking how much are the arrears? x

Glamazon

elle_gee wrote: »

Thankyou For the benefit of Glam, I think Sami means this one.


Hugs to Ladybird, rmac and MFD xx

Ladyb, I was looking through your FB pics. You have some lovely ones of your Granny with Izzy :grouphug:

Aw I still can't see it asking me to log in

Krystal - thanks for quoting Sami's Football Friend post I wouldn't have seen it otherwise!

Friiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiieeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeend!!! :rotfl:

Not got time to catch up hope everyone's OK but can see AM needs a hug and a proper bed! R.mac - looks like you need a hug as well xx

Well, Jack and I went to Tiny Stars today - he was being a little sh1te on the way there so I Stopped him MFD stylee :cool: Britney Spears on FULL BLAST!

Then we took advantage of the Schweppes Free Monday Swim offer at the Thistle Hotel. Jack was a bit scared, I think I went in too quickly so I took him out had a cuddle then we went in very slowly and HE LOVED IT!!!! Only stayed for 15mins, then he had his first shower :rotfl:

Sami - I will be going into work next Friday (11th) for Christmas Lunch so if you want to meet me there you can have the bumper off me. (Can't remember whether sling meet is before or after that )

Right, off to make bottles and sort tea out - I'm starving even though I just had a Happy Meal :silenced: but that was the only thing I've had since the big slice of chocolate cake I had for breakfast at 10am :rotfl: