MSE Parents Club Part 8

r.mac_2

SM - it's a hard one. There is a distinct lack of communication in our relationship at the moment (mainly from him!). When we talk - he says all the right stuff, but then 24hr pass and it's all back to the way things were.

I'm tired - mentally and physically.

tarajayne

When she's big enough, will be about 8wks they think, but until then they have said she will not be able to keep food down herself.

r.mac_2

more hugs x

searching_me

r.mac wrote: »

SM - it's a hard one. There is a distinct lack of communication in our relationship at the moment (mainly from him!). When we talk - he says all the right stuff, but then 24hr pass and it's all back to the way things were.

I'm tired - mentally and physically.

no wonder its fustrating ... stand your ground as it looks like he knows he'll get his way ..

tarajayne wrote: »

When she's big enough, will be about 8wks they think, but until then they have said she will not be able to keep food down herself.

awww your poor DD doesnt get a break i really hope everything works out x

3onitsway

Hugs Tara and daughter. And RMac :mad: for your unreasonable & clumsy OH!


Can I have a moan please - i'm fed up!

I feel like I have spent the past week cleaning up everyones D & V and disinfecting the house.

Been to docs with LO - who said there is a particularly nasty bug doing the rounds, but as she's had D&V for a week now, he'd like a sample of D to send away in case it's something else.

Got back, and DD is sitting on my knee pumping away, when it oozes through nappy, vest, top & tights!! Oh well, at least there was enough to enable me to scrape some into the sample bottle! :eek:

I got us both cleaned up and changed and in a matter of seconds she's leaked through new nappy, new vest and trousers.

I have no idea how she's producing so much poop & sick - she's hardly eaten for a week!


And i've just got a letter from my works payroll. I've been overpaid by £300 this financial year - and they'll take it out of my next wage. :eek: £300 is a lot to come out of my crappy part time wages - particulary Christmas month.



Sorry for being rude and butting in, i'll go and read back now!!

searching_me

thats pants 3 ... poor LO and you ... and is there no way of being able for them to split it over 2 pays or do you want it just done x

r.mac_2

hugs 3. We all seem to be having a cra**y day today (excuse my language!).

I do hope that V is okay. we all need to leave LO's with dad's and have an mse ladies spa week

3onitsway

I'm going to give them a call and see if they can split it over 12 pays! Our payroll department is run by monkeys!

tarajayne

3onitsway wrote: »

I'm going to give them a call and see if they can split it over 12 pays! Our payroll department is run by monkeys!

I would insist, and tell them that your Xmas is cancelled if they don't, and then they can explain that to your children when you take them in to their office tomorrow! :mad:

tiamai_d

awww r.mac, huge hugs! He sounds like a child. Tell him to get a babysitter and then he can go out. And I'd just go get a new pair or straighteners on his card too!

Tara, big hugs for you and DD and your little DGD (its a wee girl isn't it?)

3, poor you! If it makes you feel beeter, Amber is well and still leaks through nappy, vest, tights, dress and top on a daily basis. It is draining looking after several sick kids though, just make sure you get plenty to drink and rest when you can. Can you ask them to take a payment plan or out Febs wage?


ohhh spa week *dreams* ha, I went to Glasgow for the day and got a dozen phone calls (each time to be hung up upon because I wasn't running straight home :mad: Maybe a spa with day care eh?