MSE Parents Club Part 8

jillie1974

thanks csh. i happened to spot the thread and was disgusted by what the poster said.
i just hope she gets someone who can really help in a bit

tiamai_d

Yes, all dressed up for the pic I was going to use for the photo christmas card offer, but I can't get it to work. Ah well nice pic anyway!

lil_miss_06

Tia,they are adorable,,dd will def be getting spoilt by the big bro's,,,so cute

redmel1621

cazscoob wrote: »

thanks jillie! can you believe it im trying to sort things out and ask a serious question to get such a stupid answer!
as you can guess its over, i asked him to leave this afternoon and he left. i am devistated as he didnt put up a fight and i really dont know where to go from here. He is coming back to look after the kids whilst i work but i dont know how money will work out for us. i obviously dont earn enough to keep us both and he will obviously be looking for somewhere else to live etc. i just need to know if things will work out finacially as i do not want to give up work. x

Awww Caz what a horrible situation for you to be in, I kow you don't want to give up work, but do you think it might be easier all round if you did...firstly you would get support anyway...plus it would be so much less stressful than relying on him to turn up on time etc so you can go to work...plus it would allow him the freedom to find work, you never know maybe he is suffering depression through not working and once he has found a job and realised how much he misses you all he might come bounding back full of apologies. The other thing is a split of parents is a major thing to happen to kids, maybe you should be there for them instead of working??

These are all just my opinions and I really am only thinking of you and the kids, I just don't think any job is worth makingyour life unneccesarily complicated for!!

P.S don't use that benefits board they are evil over there:(


Mel x

elle_gee

tiamai_d wrote: »

Yes, all dressed up for the pic I was going to use for the photo christmas card offer, but I can't get it to work. Ah well nice pic anyway!

Wasn't sure if you'd bought so many bargain Monsoon dresses on eBay that Amber got to wear them every day!

carlamagee

tia they are gorge!! you must be so proud!! xx

tiamai_d

elle_gee wrote: »

Wasn't sure if you'd bought so many bargain Monsoon dresses on eBay that Amber got to wear them every day!

Welllll... Actually she does have a few bargain monsoon dresses for everyday wear too

money_maker_3

tia, they are beautiful !!!! lovely pic why cant you get the cards to work ??

caz, not sure what to say hun, have some ((hugs)) though

Glamazon

tia - lovely pic why won't it work?

caz - ignore the t0sser on the other thread, the BG has been on and said to be nice!

cazscoob

thanks ladies i just need ideas on what to do. with me working P/T my thoughts were that he would be able to spend half the week with them and me the other half? if it ends up with childcare then i will have to have 2-3 childminders and/or after school club? its all so confusing?

Tia your kids are beautiful