Lilmissmups what will 2010 bring diary!

Shoe_Gal

Can't help with that one - don't do Facebook :rolleyes:

lilmissmup

I wish I didn't some days, I need to stop being so nosey though, its my own fault, no-one puts anything up to offend me its just me being odd and nosey.

Good site for good days, not great when in a bad/weird mood!

I am very much in a cancerian mood today, staying at home and being mopey! I am gonna hit the hay soon and hope tomorrow I am not so weirded out lol

Souk08

Hon, it's not about ignoring someone you care about, it's about not dragging this whole thing out and you moving on. Someday you will stop thinking 'it's been this long since I last spoke to him' and you'll be all 'Oh yeah I wonder how he is'. Think you maybe need something else to focus on now so you can make plans and start to move on.

As for Facebook, have to ask (and not meaning to sound harsh) do you think they're botheres about whether you delete them or not? Sure they would just see it as a natural progression.

You need to put yourself first babe. Can't believe you're so young and not having the time of your life. I WILL SAY THIS ONLY ONCE - enjoy this time and do what works for you. You don't get your twenties back. Do you want to get to 40/50/60 and think 'I should have enjoyed all that while I had the chance'? Now go and start thinking about what YOU want to do in 2010.

Lots of love Dawn XXX

Shoe_Gal

Souk08 wrote: »

Hon, it's not about ignoring someone you care about, it's about not dragging this whole thing out and you moving on. Someday you will stop thinking 'it's been this long since I last spoke to him' and you'll be all 'Oh yeah I wonder how he is'. Think you maybe need something else to focus on now so you can make plans and start to move on.

As for Facebook, have to ask (and not meaning to sound harsh) do you think they're botheres about whether you delete them or not? Sure they would just see it as a natural progression.

You need to put yourself first babe. Can't believe you're so young and not having the time of your life. I WILL SAY THIS ONLY ONCE - enjoy this time and do what works for you. You don't get your twenties back. Do you want to get to 40/50/60 and think 'I should have enjoyed all that while I had the chance'? Now go and start thinking about what YOU want to do in 2010.

Lots of love Dawn XXX

^^^^^^^ what souk said - she says it much better than me

lilmissmup

I love Souk, you do talk so much sense hun.

I have deleted some of his family and your probably right but I cant bring myself to delete the ones i saw most weeks/were closer too.

I was very close to his family in our relationship which has made it harder for me too as feel like I lost them also and stupidly hate the idea of someone replacing me.....told ya I am odd.

Like I said just need to stop being nosey.

Your right about me needing to have fun, I know I need too, I am determined as of 2010 I will force myself to snap out of this more, promises.

Sorry for being a mopey moo again, off to bed now to sleep it off hopefully x

Shoe_Gal

Nite hun, remember we just want to help :A

Souk08

Sleep tight babe. You're not odd. You just need some fun lady! No one will ever replace you, and deep down you know that XXX

lilmissmup

Loves ya both, you have made me cry by being nice, first time in a month nearly damn you both

Thanks for talking sense again, night night hunnies xxx

doodledo_2

Morning hun. I know how hard it is, I have all my ex family still on FB but I am still really close to them, see them most weeks. If its causing you pain personally I would take them off. You can always re-add them in a few months when things are easier.

Fire_Fox

How you getting on, chick? xx