need some advice :(

klee1505

McKneff wrote: »

Get hold of his phone again, reply to a message she has sent to him. Tell her you are coming round do sort her out. Tell her you will be round after 6 when her husband is around.

And tell you OH to jog on, you deserve more respect than that.

Thanks for that she text him last night when i had the phone ive put her number in my phone in case he saves her as something else so i can check how sad is that

klee1505

foxy-roxy wrote: »

He is prob angry because he is guilty. I wonder if he has had any sleep?? He should be phoning, texting anything to get in contact with you to say sorry and explain etc. if he isn't then i would ditch him and don't waste anymore precious years on someone who disrespects and hurts you in such a way.

(((HUGS))))

nope he told me to leave him alone so he can sleep cause he got work tonight no sorry or nothing

dizzybuff

Couldnt read and run . Hugs hunny..

Leave him to sleep ha .. Id go down stairs and switch everything on , then back into the bedroom pack him a bag and throw it at him with a newspaper and say go sleep on the park bench with your tramp..

Then onto the tramp.. You know where she works .. Pop in and see her have a nice chat .. Alternitativly blow the txt messages up and post them all around there works gates .. Or even better on a bill board outside the work..

Wont mend your relationship but it will make you feel a dam sight better

klee1505

hehe oh my god if i actually had the guts to do that i would!!

foxy-roxy

Can't believe he can sleep!! Has he no conscience?? What was the text she sent last night?
Am very suprised that when he realised he had forgotten his phone he didnt make you turn round so he could get it, it's almost like he wanted you to find them!

dizzybuff

.... NO problem hunny ,

Sounds like he is very controlling and demoralises you ... I think you should do it get some strength .. If you want I'll do it for you ... My has hubby always said I was scary

RoxieW

If he was desperately sorry and held up is hands you could perhaps work on your relationship and forgive him eventually. However, I'm sorry but it sounds like he's not that bothered about winning you back to be honest. Kick him out and go round to hers and make sure her husband knows exactly what she's been up to. What a pair of idiots!

cloverfan

dizzybuff wrote: »

.... NO problem hunny ,

Sounds like he is very controlling and demoralises you ... I think you should do it get some strength .. If you want I'll do it for you ... My has hubby always said I was scary

dizzybuff...........more than willing to give you a hand if needed!!!

klee1505

dizzybuff wrote: »

.... NO problem hunny ,

Sounds like he is very controlling and demoralises you ... I think you should do it get some strength .. If you want I'll do it for you ... My has hubby always said I was scary

how would you do that :eek:

klee1505

foxy-roxy wrote: »

Can't believe he can sleep!! Has he no conscience?? What was the text she sent last night?
Am very suprised that when he realised he had forgotten his phone he didnt make you turn round so he could get it, it's almost like he wanted you to find them!

thats exactly what i thought but i guess he just thought maybe i wouldnt go throughi t