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The November Bankruptcy & DRO Club

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  • hd143
    hd143 Posts: 13 Forumite
    My court date is the 6th of November. I'm terrified but hope it means the end to years of stress and worry, and the beginning of a new bright future.

    It also means I can finalise my divorce from the excuse for a man who got me into this position.

    HRD:beer:
  • cloverfan
    cloverfan Posts: 635 Forumite
    hd143 wrote: »
    My court date is the 6th of November. I'm terrified but hope it means the end to years of stress and worry, and the beginning of a new bright future.

    It also means I can finalise my divorce from the excuse for a man who got me into this position.

    HRD:beer:

    This could have been one of my posts other than it would say the 2nd :rotfl::rotfl: welcome to the club hd143!
    Determind to make a better life for ME and my children


    Thanks to hangingbyathread for making me include myself in the above xx
  • cloverfan
    cloverfan Posts: 635 Forumite
    :hello: Hi everyone,
    Just wondered how everyone was feeling/coping? I am getting less letters but loads more phone calls! I have also been hit by nerves!!!
    Determind to make a better life for ME and my children


    Thanks to hangingbyathread for making me include myself in the above xx
  • dojoman
    dojoman Posts: 12,027 Forumite
    Up and down really, no phone calls as I changed my number, but loads of mail. I wish it was sooner so we could start again and hopefully look forward to future instead of dreading it.
    :pB&SC No. 298
    Life`s Tragedy is that we get OLD too soon
    and WISE too late!
  • confused76
    confused76 Posts: 12,680 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    hiya i'm the same, up and down.feel pro-active for doing it but scared as it's an irreversible route! the letters and calls (especially at work, i have written to them asking them to stop it) are a bit scary but hey-har!!! when i think about it i feel sick but the thought of trying to cling on without doing it is no better!
    hopefully it will be afresh start for all of us. good luck everyone!!! x
  • confused76
    confused76 Posts: 12,680 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    DON79 wrote: »
    Welcome to dojoman & cloverfan & totaldespair! best wishes to you all for your BR! hope it goes well.


    Cloverfan.............................1..........................2nd November
    Dojoman..............................2..........................25th November
    TotalDespair.........................3..........................6th November
    confused76..........................4..........................tba November



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    i'm the 19th to be specific! gulp! x
  • _pale_was going to write dont worry confused loads of people have said its not as bad as u imagine but realised i am actually paying no attention to that myself
    Determind to make a better life for ME and my children


    Thanks to hangingbyathread for making me include myself in the above xx
  • confused76
    confused76 Posts: 12,680 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    cloverfan wrote: »
    _pale_was going to write dont worry confused loads of people have said its not as bad as u imagine but realised i am actually paying no attention to that myself

    i know what you mean! i can't help it...ooh you're before me! are your forms all done? i need to do some more work on mine...x
  • all forms done by CAB but I am going to try and go through them again over the weekend and post up my SOA as i am not convinced with the CABs advice and would like some second opinions from ppl on here....also just found out that my court appointment is on the monday AND ITS A TEACHER TRAINING DAY:eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek: panic,panic,panic:eek::eek::eek:
    Determind to make a better life for ME and my children


    Thanks to hangingbyathread for making me include myself in the above xx
  • cloverfan wrote: »
    all forms done by CAB but I am going to try and go through them again over the weekend and post up my SOA as i am not convinced with the CABs advice and would like some second opinions from ppl on here....also just found out that my court appointment is on the monday AND ITS A TEACHER TRAINING DAY:eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek: panic,panic,panic:eek::eek::eek:

    Hi cloverfan

    Deep breaths Honey....Monday will mean its over & done with very soon. Certainly post your SOA....it will put your mind at rest to know that you know it inside & out. No need to panic....get a nice cuppa & post it over the weekend.

    Good luck for Monday...remember you have loads of us `with you` in spirit you know.

    Angiexx
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