birth certificate advice

shell_542

DUTR wrote: »

I don't think you are owed an apology on this occasion, people can think what they like of others, it is how you deal with that personally that matters.

In this case it was nothing to do with what others think, it was a complete misunderstanding of MrsEs post. She was agreeing with Zara and was accused of doing the opposite. I don't underastand how you can't see that Zara. It looks like you were just looking for an argument as you went on to be rude when MrsE explained herself. Either you just genuinely are still misreading MrsE's post or you are purposely trying to avoid the obvious and admitting you read it wrong.

Sorry to "fight your battles for you" MrsE but I thought it was daft.

Zara33

shell_542 wrote: »

In this case it was nothing to do with what others think, it was a complete misunderstanding of MrsEs post. She was agreeing with Zara and was accused of doing the opposite. I don't underastand how you can't see that Zara. It looks like you were just looking for an argument as you went on to be rude when MrsE explained herself. Either you just genuinely are still misreading MrsE's post or you are purposely trying to avoid the obvious and admitting you read it wrong.

Sorry to "fight your battles for you" MrsE but I thought it was daft.

:rolleyes: It was a misunderstanding, it was late, as for looking for an argument please...MSE has enough keyboard warriors without me.

DUTR

shell_542 wrote: »

In this case it was nothing to do with what others think, it was a complete misunderstanding of MrsEs post. She was agreeing with Zara and was accused of doing the opposite. I don't underastand how you can't see that Zara. It looks like you were just looking for an argument as you went on to be rude when MrsE explained herself. Either you just genuinely are still misreading MrsE's post or you are purposely trying to avoid the obvious and admitting you read it wrong.

Sorry to "fight your battles for you" MrsE but I thought it was daft.

As there are plenty of people mentioned in this post, it is hard to know if your comments are reffering to the 2nd or 3rd party, people will not all agree on a topic that is life, doesn't mean I have fallen out with anybody here or dislike them because of it.
I have said from my world what I have experienced and others have said what they feel about the topic.

Zara33

DUTR wrote: »

As there are plenty of people mentioned in this post, it is hard to know if your comments are reffering to the 2nd or 3rd party, people will not all agree on a topic that is life, doesn't mean I have fallen out with anybody here or dislike them because of it.
I have said from my world what I have experienced and others have said what they feel about the topic.

Exactly we all have different experiences, saying there is no stigma attached to people who don't have a father on a BC is very naive. The same way that some people will look down their nose at a single parent, the same way that there are racist people in this world. Just because someone hasn't experienced it doesn't meant it doesn't happen.

As for "falling out" with people it's a forum on one topic I could totally agree with what a person is saying however on another topic I could disagree completely with that same poster.

shell_542

DUTR wrote: »

As there are plenty of people mentioned in this post, it is hard to know if your comments are reffering to the 2nd or 3rd party, people will not all agree on a topic that is life, doesn't mean I have fallen out with anybody here or dislike them because of it.
I have said from my world what I have experienced and others have said what they feel about the topic.

Am I going mad, or is it quite clear who I was talking about as I NAMED them :rotfl:

It was nothing to do with agreeing or disagreeing with someone, it was someone reading something in a post which wasn't there and then, IMO, being rude when picked up on it.

I wasn't commenting on your opinions on blank spaces on a birth certificate DUTR.

cavework

DUTR,
Everyone has the right to their own opinion.
Glad your proud of your Fathers and Grandfathers name.
Can I ask you how far back you have researched on your paternal side of the family?

DUTR

shell_542 wrote: »

Am I going mad,
(snip)

No you are not going mad, or I should say you are not alone , it seems everyone is going mad on this thread, here is my proposal for all to have a group hug at 1900hrs :beer:

shell_542

At 7pm I'll be running around like a headless chicken trying to get my two little [STRIKE]monsters[/STRIKE] darlings into bed. :rotfl:

:beer: now though :cool:

cavework

COUNT ME IN !
:j

DUTR

cavework wrote: »

DUTR,
Everyone has the right to their own opinion.
Glad your proud of your Fathers and Grandfathers name.
Can I ask you how far back you have researched on your paternal side of the family?

Yes I respect the right to have an opinion and for others to have their opinion too,
I had not traced my family tree, I just know of my Grandparents from my parents