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  • Zara33
    Zara33 Posts: 5,441 Forumite
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    DUTR wrote: »
    I think **um is a little harsh in fact a lot harsh, not just considering my own circumstances but that of many posts on the forum, as well as offspring parents still have to have their own lives and seek or maintain contentment with their lives.
    However it is law to contribute but not law to have contact, it is a great shame that some feel they have no option than to just 'disappear' .
    Not in your case or mine but some do try and take advantage of the other party :o
    DUTR :p it's been a while since we have had a ding dong on here!
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  • DUTR
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    Zara33 wrote: »
    DUTR :p it's been a while since we have had a ding dong on here!

    Where have you been my sweet, I missed you :beer:
  • Zara33
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    DUTR wrote: »
    Where have you been my sweet, I missed you :beer:
    :p Trying to avoid the anger/hate of the csa forum...but I come back eventually.
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  • DUTR
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    Zara33 wrote: »
    :p Trying to avoid the anger/hate of the csa forum...but I come back eventually.

    You just have to relax , the venomous ones soon tame as their poison does not work, there are a lot of keyboard warriors about, but I suspect they are as soft as moist putty in real life, perhaps the anger expressed is from the hurt they are feeling for whatever reasons. Healthy debate is always good.
  • cavework
    cavework Posts: 1,992 Forumite
    DUTR
    So the name on a birth certificate will ensure the son KNOWS the father when he grows up? Really?
    There is no stigma attached anymore and I stand by that!
    As I said to OP, just make sure your son knows WHO his father is when he grows up.
  • Zara33
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    cavework wrote: »
    DUTR
    So the name on a birth certificate will ensure the son KNOWS the father when he grows up? Really?
    There is no stigma attached anymore and I stand by that!
    As I said to OP, just make sure your son knows WHO his father is when he grows up.
    Knowing a name and Knowing a father are two completely different things.
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  • MrsE_2
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    cavework wrote: »
    DUTR
    So the name on a birth certificate will ensure the son KNOWS the father when he grows up? Really?
    There is no stigma attached anymore and I stand by that!
    As I said to OP, just make sure your son knows WHO his father is when he grows up.

    I agree, there is no stigma now.
  • Zara33
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    MrsE wrote: »
    I agree, there is no stigma now.
    Should those of us who have no father on a birth certificate feel shame, and be disgraced then?
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  • MrsE_2
    MrsE_2 Posts: 24,161 Forumite
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    Zara33 wrote: »
    Should those of us who have no father on a birth certificate feel shame, and be disgraced then?

    Is that what I said?
  • Zara33
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    MrsE wrote: »
    Is that what I said?

    They wouldn't let me put sperm donor on the certificate so I had to leave it empty.
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