Single and in Debt Part 3- The problem of surplus and excess women

Shoe_Gal

Sounds cr*p gwen :mad: And you always sound so organised and upbeat!

gwen80

No, I'm really not. I try and just get on with things, but then sometimes you just feel like you fall flat on your face.

Souk08

That's horrid Gwen. Could you write what's worrying you down and then come up with a plan to make it better.

I'm knackered, just got in at about 9. REALLY excited about the shop reopening tomorrow though and team have been fab this week. We had fun trying stuff on tonight and choosing new bits for the opening. Feels good to have money put aside for mine for the first time since coming home!

Shoe_Gal

Know what you mean - sometimes I feel like I am running just to stay still. It's hard when there's only you to do things all the time, nobody to share the load

gwen80

Yeah, I'm trying to get it sorted. My Mum has an illness that flares up sometimes and it did in January. I've just been very stressed and worried about her. I desperately want to make sure she's ok.

I'm trying to sort out some counselling for me, because I've realised I'm really not coping brilliantly with it and there isn't really anybody else. It will get better though. It always does, I just worry that one time it won't.

Sounds like you're going to have a fab time in the new shop Souk!

'Running to stand still'...that's exactly what I was thinking this morning. So annoying :mad:

Gwenx

Souk08

Gwen it WILL get better. It has to!!! I totally understand about your Mum. I get upset about mine too but all we can do is keep their spirits up with our positivity. Sending you love and thanks. X

sarahb123_3

Shoe_Gal wrote: »

Hi everybody

How's everybody's days been? Mine has been Ok, an really enjoying my job at the mo! (Remind me I said that next time it's stressing me out )

*makes mental note*:D

gwen80

Thanks Souk Off to bed with a magazine to read and chill.

Night girls!!

Gwenx

gwen80

Just had a brainwave!! Had a quick look at misslauren's thread (Hi misslauren :wave:) and remembered the amazing list of things she wanted to do or achieve. I'm going to write myself a list. I'm very sad and I do love a good list It might help provide a bit of focus for my own life rather than worrying about my Mum quite so much, because at the moment me being so stressed isn't really helping anybody and I will make a some of them things I want to do with her, because I want to spend more quality time with her.

Gwenx

sarahb123_3

Ooh gwen, you can make a 100 list:j I'm sure you have heard me mention it enough times already:o but it;s basically a list of all the things you want to do this year, like read a certain book or go to a certain place, lose weight etc, you could probably think of loads of things to go on there that you can do with your mum. If you get even half done that would be fab:)