Single and in Debt Part 3- The problem of surplus and excess women

gwen80

Hello :wave:

Happy New Thread!! Love the title, well done makeup!

Welcome nicjl!

Watching the mobo's at the mo. Love Diversity! Need to get myself to bed though, have ambitious 'To Do' list for tomorrow.

Good to see you back again Yargo and skint spice.

Gwenx

Shoe_Gal

gwen80 wrote: »

have ambitious 'To Do' list for tomorrow.


Gwenx

Me too! Just about to write it down and hope it motivates me

determinedtodothis

hello everyone,

I am in debt and single, have been for a while now - do you think its possible to actually meet someone when you are trying to have NSD's and pay your debts? I'm wondering I should just accept until my debts are clear dating just isn't possible...

Shoe_Gal

determinedtodothis wrote: »

hello everyone,

I am in debt and single, have been for a while now - do you think its possible to actually meet someone when you are trying to have NSD's and pay your debts? I'm wondering I should just accept until my debts are clear dating just isn't possible...

If you read back on the old thread there are a few 'adventures' there :rolleyes: - so I think it is possible

niclj

It all comes down to the guy really.

I went on a few dates with one guy who was into dining at very expensive restaurants. Wasn't comfortable with it as I couldn't afford to keep up with him.

Shoe_Gal

niclj wrote: »

It all comes down to the guy really.

I went on a few dates with one guy who was into dining at very expensive restaurants. Wasn't comfortable with it as I couldn't afford to keep up with him.

Then he wasn't the right guy

determinedtodothis

i will find the old post :-)... worried i'm going to end up a debt free old maid!

Shoe_Gal

determinedtodothis wrote: »

i will find the old post :-)... worried i'm going to end up a debt free old maid!

Think there's a link to the old thread in the first post of this one

niclj

Stopped seeing him after 3 dates. He thought spending loads of money would impress me. I'd have been happier if he'd bought me a bag of chips! And he was needy.

Still after the right guy who hopefully won't mind cheap dates!

lilmissmup

Hiya all,

Oooo shiny new thread!

I am actually a bit scared of my next guys finances. I know it sounds silly but I was 18 and when I got with my ex and didn't give a monkeys about debts until I found this site and got myself debt free, my ex didn;t have debts at the beginning of our relationship though he left with one credit card (vanquis, as we were supposed to be getting a mortgage and needed to improve his non existent credit rating).

Hes not paying anything other than the minimum I think but anyway point is I dunno how I will handle a guy in debt, guess i could train him.

Now I am 25 and I just want a rich cat loving man who wants to spoil me and have a family one day although don't want to find him for a year or so anyway!