MSE Parents Club Part 7

Sami_Bee

pinkpig08 wrote: »

Does anyone play cafeworld on FB?

me me me! are you my friend? http://www.facebook.com/sami.bee.h

ladybirdintheuk wrote: »

Oh, can't remember who was looking for haloween costumes, but I love this one.

oh yes I ment to say I dressed my big sis as a haunted house once She wore a big cardboard box that we covered in paper and drew/stuck on varous bits n bobs for windows, ghosts etc and a piece of card folded in to on her head for the roof. everyone found it throughly hilarious at the time

feelinggood wrote: »

Sorry, another me post. I've written everything down. I would like someone to read it, and tell me if anything needs explaining or expanding on. It is 2500 words, and quite personal, long and miserable. Do you think any of you lovely people could readit through?

I'd like to read it (me nosy? never lol) not sure if I'd be any use tho...

elle_gee

Me.. oh probably.. six

Hope it helped to write it all down xx

Is it something you could also share with your mum maybe?

Tigsteroonie

Hi Everyone

Am having a down day Andrew's stalled, stuck on 0.02l oxygen, and also not successfully BFing. He can't be considered for discharge until the two are sorted, and that could still take weeks apparently. I'm drained, spending 10hrs a day at the hospital (it's not worth me trying to come home between feeds).

feelinggood_2

Definitely could share with my Mum, it mentions what happened when I was 11/12 and I wouldn't want her to know that.

I feel a little better for writing it down, but it don't half make me sound crazy!

Will be more useful/chatting about other people tomorrow, promise. OH is back to work tomorrow

pinkpig08

Just added you sami

Sorry you're feeling down Tigs.....Andrew has come such a long way and he WILL get there ((((((hugs)))))

searching_me

((hugs)) tigs hope its gets better ..

just finished feeding mister ... :coffee: anyone? x

Millie's_Mum

TIGS Getting BFing established can be difficult even for babies born full term, what help are you getting from the hospital? It might just be that he needs more practice.

Can't comment about oxygen as I know nothing about it but You and Andrew are doing fantastically well, look how far you have come, I know its been a long time and its hard work ut it won't be forever and he is worth it.

We all have down days even those of us without having to deal with what you are handling at the moment, I'm in awe of you! You are doing great repeat until you believe it like we do.

scruffy96uk

Tigs ((((hugs)))) to you all, PP is right he has come such a long way, he'll be back to his usual fighting self soon and before you know it the hospital days will be a distant memory.

feelinggood_2

Tigsteroonie wrote: »

Hi Everyone

Am having a down day Andrew's stalled, stuck on 0.02l oxygen, and also not successfully BFing. He can't be considered for discharge until the two are sorted, and that could still take weeks apparently. I'm drained, spending 10hrs a day at the hospital (it's not worth me trying to come home between feeds).

Awww ((hugs))

Try not to think to about it as stalling. He has been working so hard, and he just needs a little rest. It must be hard for you though. Are you eating properly while at the hospital and getting enough sleep? I hope you can find a solution. A nice bubble bath and an early night?

elle_gee

Tigsteroonie wrote: »

Hi Everyone

Am having a down day Andrew's stalled, stuck on 0.02l oxygen, and also not successfully BFing. He can't be considered for discharge until the two are sorted, and that could still take weeks apparently. I'm drained, spending 10hrs a day at the hospital (it's not worth me trying to come home between feeds).

*hugs* hun xxx He will get there.. Have you been in touch with T? Similar happened to B at a similar point in the coming home plan.. (sorry, for anyone else, that's my friend and her LO, Rhys' room buddie)

feelinggood wrote: »

Definitely could share with my Mum, it mentions what happened when I was 11/12 and I wouldn't want her to know that.

I feel a little better for writing it down, but it don't half make me sound crazy!

Will be more useful/chatting about other people tomorrow, promise. OH is back to work tomorrow

Ah, I did wonder Don't worry about it making you "sound crazy".. it's all on the road to getting better More *hugs* for you.. We'll all be here tomorrow too, you know that xx