Missy's must get rid of this debt diary!!

Moneytroubles_2

Hi Missymoo!

How are you today - Im not too happy about these dark, cold morning either xxxx

missymoo81

hi how is everyone... well I had a positive type of day today I hated it as usual, but I tried to stay postive instead of getting majorly stressed. I had a relatively low spend day, I only got petrol which was budgeted for. I drove very carefully trying to get my tank to last the week. I didn't buy any treats either, and although I haven't eaten wonderfully I haven't eaten badly. And for a major change I am actually sititng in my living room in my pyjamas instead of sitting in bed!! I'm rather liking sitting all warm in the living room. I'm going to have a bath later too, to relax me.

Have had a chat with OH and have decided to wait until march to start trying for babies my mum was so incredibly poorly with her pregnancy that I can't run the risk of ruining our holiday/wedding of a life time that we have spent forever saving up for if I get pregnant now.

but on the up side, it means i have longer to pay off my debts (not that I will pay any less off, it will just take the stress out of it) and I can pay more off my car... so in a mse sort of way it will be better but its not what I want

but must stay postive.... might sit and work my budgets out to cheer me up..... goodness that sounds sad!!!!:o

slm6002

we will be trying at the same time then. i totally agree with how annoying it is having to wait. For the previous 2 we have just gone ahead. I feel very impatient but excited

missymoo81

im the most impatient person in the world too.

Souk08

Ah Missy, know it's hard waiting but better than looking and feeling like a sick heffalump on your special holiday! I had a positive day too. X

Catzpaws

missymoo81 wrote: »

hi how is everyone... well I had a positive type of day today I hated it as usual, but I tried to stay postive instead of getting majorly stressed. I had a relatively low spend day, I only got petrol which was budgeted for. I drove very carefully trying to get my tank to last the week. I didn't buy any treats either, and although I haven't eaten wonderfully I haven't eaten badly. And for a major change I am actually sititng in my living room in my pyjamas instead of sitting in bed!! I'm rather liking sitting all warm in the living room. I'm going to have a bath later too, to relax me.

Have had a chat with OH and have decided to wait until march to start trying for babies my mum was so incredibly poorly with her pregnancy that I can't run the risk of ruining our holiday/wedding of a life time that we have spent forever saving up for if I get pregnant now.

but on the up side, it means i have longer to pay off my debts (not that I will pay any less off, it will just take the stress out of it) and I can pay more off my car... so in a mse sort of way it will be better but its not what I want

but must stay postive.... might sit and work my budgets out to cheer me up..... goodness that sounds sad!!!!:o

I totally know what it's like to feel impatient about this, Missy, but really I do think it's the right decision. You want to enjoy every second of your wedding - hard to do if you're feeling poorly. Also, I'm guessing it'll be rather hot in the Maldives, so could be uncomfortable if you're pg. I got married abroad so know how uncomfortable the heat can be in the wedding ensemble!

Moneytroubles_2

Hey hun, know how you feel re baby, me and OH was originally gonna start trying this month, but as you know we cancelled our wedding, and I have gone back to uni so had the implant in

was hard choice to make but i know it will be the right one xxxx

missymoo81

thank you all so much for all your lovely words, I know deep down its the right decision, its just hard to change plans when you have your heart set on something. I guess it's a case of having to follow my head rather than my heart on this decision.

And I'm glad I'm not alone in having to postpone things due to other plans and money.

oooh slm we could be getting pregnant buddies!!!

Hmmm didnt even think about the heat thing, dont want to be miserable and hot either!

cheers peeps you are lovely

x

missymoo81

right must get to sleep, have an early start tomorrow as usual. nights everyone, thanks for listening ot my inane ramblings :-) x

missymoo81

morning oh im so not used to this time difference in changing the clocks, i woke up at four thirty thinking it was time to get up!!! am shattered now!!! anyway must be positive and keep smiling.

have good days x