MSE Pregnancy Club XVI

harley1

Beenie. Sorry he let you down again. I'm afraid I'm inclined to agree with Aless, though obviously tell us to mind our own if you wish. I'm doing this on my own and I KNOW that it will be easier than doing it with babys dad. Cos he was/is cut from the same mould as yours but that doesn't mean that I wouldn't want someone to be her dad. The trouble is it is up to us to decide what is best for us and our babies (DS too). You have to be very strong and understand that you are more than capable of doing this alone. You have done it for DS and you can do it again. Letting this loser back into your life and your bed will only lead to bigger heartbreak for all of you in the long run. He is obviously not interested in doing anything to help you and is only out for what he can get for himself.

I'm sorry things aren't better for you but we all deserve better than to be treated like that.

xxxxx

Nicki

So now I'm getting impatient, even though I know that I have a maximum of 5 more days left to wait!

Yesterday had (tmi) a good clear out of the system (not that it was backed up before) and last night I slept really really well without having to get up every hour to wee as I usually do, and woke up not feeling as sore and stiff as usual. In fact had to check to make sure I was still heavily pregnant. Got up at 8.30, and have washed all the windows inside and out, done 3 loads of laundry (so all up to date) plus all the ironing in the basket, and all outstanding paperwork and am just waiting for OH to get back from dropping DS off on a play date before I tackle the outside of the house (am looking after DD while he's out). Could be tricky though as feet are now so swollen I have no shoes of any kind which fit. 38+1 today and hoping maybe I won't get to 38+6 after all, though will have to go in bare feet if it happens!

nikkit72

afternoon ladies,

godd luck fitzo ,

not to bad of a night just evry uncomfortable having to lie in same position all time , as to pain ful to lie on sides,

rant coming on : just need to get things off my chest as i am very upset today please tell me if i am wrong feeling like this.

Ok here goes,
came home from hospiital thursday afternoon after many of you know a terrible time with the operation, any way Oh was great every hour to hour and half comign up to see if i was ok or needed anything, which was lovely, as i am finding it hard to do anything other than lie in bed or goto loo,
any way he had a friend over last night to play computer games and have a cpl beers, i said i did'nt mind as long as he carried on making sure i was ok incase i needed anything.. NOT once did he bother i had to call him twice , and he wondered why i got upset over this last night, i felt like i was here on my own and that hes mates came first, it was awful , he then went in a strop saying after everything he had done he couldnt have a night , i had only been out of hospital 1 day , cant move lots pain, was i expectimg to much?
Then this morning ,
He has he's 2 kids over today and i asked him if they could go home a little bit earlier so i dont have he's noisey ( and yes they are the noiseiest kids ever) kids all day when i keep dozzing on and offf with the pain killers and antibiotics, he said NO , so he goes to get them , and not once has he been up to make sure i am ok, i feel abandoned, maybe i'm making a mountain out of a mole hill, i ahve had no breakfast , as he said he would do some after he got them , and he has forgot, i have no drink ,i am just sat here crying, i feel like im not here , i am in pain , i hate feeling like this.

do you think i am being silly, i think its everything and hormones , its awful ,

rant over ..

xx

Evansangel

You dont sound like a spoilt brat at all.

He's the one to blame here, your doing this all on your own (which is fantastic) and he's being a prat. I know its hard to tell him where to go cause your carrying his baby, but i know you'll be a fantastic mum on your own

We dont need men entirely, just there sperms hehe

xxxx

Evansangel

Nikkit, i personally dont think your being silly. I think it is unfair of him to leave you whilst your in pain. **hugs**

xx

BeenieCat

Thanks harley, you're right. I just need to stop thinking he will ever change. I think i need to come to terms with the fact i'll never know the truth, what was he hiding etc... So i can only assume the worst and he knows this, yet he doesn't avoid it so i come to the conclusion the truth is even worse! If that even makes sense!

Nikkit so sorry to hear your OH isn't being very supportive while you're ill, i wish i could help you out, i guess it puts my whole "want a cup of tea made for me" rant into perspective and i hope you feel better soon. I hope you're not being stubborn and going without cos he hasn't thought to do it, tell him!

Well, the new neighbours moved in yesterday and it sounds like they're just about murdering each other already. Just flipping GREAT, just what i need, a pair of scruffy chavs with big mouths living a cardboard sheet away. Grrrrr.

Evansangel

Haha, apparently in our guild hall square at 3pm there having a huge laydown thing. Where there going to get a big group of people to lay face first on the floor.

I dont know why though, but my break is at 3 so im going to have a look :rotfl:

Anyone know any good ways to make SMASH taste better? We dont have real potatos lol. Its to go on top of our sheppards pie tongiht

a pair of scruffy chavs with big mouths living a cardboard sheet away

Bahahaha!

We get all the drunk chavs down our road breaking up very loudly at 3am

"I HATE YOU, WHY DID YOU SLEEP WITH MY MUM??!! I DONT EVER WANT TO SEE YOU AGAIN"

Its like, can you not go somewhere private to discuss this? lol x

Evansangel

Ooohhh and they also sing Oasis loudly, but they dont know the whole song so they repeat the same line over and over.

I sometimes want to go on the balcony and throw bricks lol.

Im a very grumpy person when tired x

got-it-spend-it

I'm back- hair is lovely so I'm a happy bunny.

Bought OH a Sudoku book, which is a bit sad but he is obsessed with them. Also got him some choccies. I've arranged a 'surprise' lunch with his family as well so hopefully that will earn me some brownie points.

Nikkit- sorry you're feeling rubbish. I don't think you're being unreasonable at all. I think men just get overwhelmed sometimes and the best thing to do is tell him how it's making you feel, in as rational way as possible which is easier said than done when pregnant!

BeenieCat

LOL EA, that's true Jeremy Kyle stuff

I have a feeling i'm not going to get on well with these muppets. Standby for me ranting about my neighbours for the next few months, just warning you all in advance!!

Guess i just have to remind myself of the positives of council renting - secure tenancies, cheap rent.... but that feeling of utter panic and fear when your perfect, quiet neighbour passes away and you just know they're gonna move some inbred loudmouth tracksuit wearing chavs in within a week.

They've not been here 24 hours yet so i should really give them the benefit of the doubt.... No dogs or kids yet but they're 2 bed houses so they must have one kid at least... Hmmmm i'm nervous about this lol!