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The giving up/cutting down alcohol support thread! Part 5

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  • Evening all,

    Snow and ice causing lots of disruption here too, can't wait for life to get back to normal.

    HB - Can you count me in for the AF Jan challenge please? I'm not going to count days or report them daily as that just seems to make me focus on counting down the days til I can 'legitimately' have a drink.

    Feel like it's got to be all or nothing. I don't drink. Them's the rules. End of!

    Feeling a bit apprehensive but quite positive. Did some drinking over xmas and felt horrible after small amounts - dehydrated, awake at 4am, upset tummy etc.

    Onwards and upwards...

    Thanks xx
  • honeybear_2
    honeybear_2 Posts: 3,914 Forumite
    HB - Can you count me in for the AF Jan challenge please? I'm not going to count days or report them daily as that just seems to make me focus on counting down the days til I can 'legitimately' have a drink.

    Feel like it's got to be all or nothing. I don't drink. Them's the rules. End of!

    More than happy too :D Although it will be a tad tricky with no target & no updates :p

    I'll add you on with us question markers & just let me know how you're getting on when you feel like it - have you got any days already? :)
    @ LBM = £15,872.65, now £10,819.82
    AF Jan = 7/? Feb = 5/14 Mar = 14/20 Apr = 6/14 May = 2/14 June 2/14 July 0/TF Aug 1/TFv Sept 6/TF Oct 4/7
    "NEVER DOUBT YOUR OWN QUALITY"
  • saorsie
    saorsie Posts: 1,905 Forumite
    good evening all

    Well it's looking all very wintery here in the beautiful Cathedral City of Lincoln so am curled up on sofa with pot of tea surrounded by cats who are lounging on any available radiator. :rolleyes:
    So with that in mind I'm happy to declare 4AFD's please HB

    Thanks

    -s-
    Frugal living challenge 2012 live on £8500 ~ £7725.87 remaining
    Make £5/day in 2012 ~ £482.24/£1830 ~ 22.52%
    Proud Member of PAD since January 2010 ~ Total paid to date £11386.64
    Savings Pot for 2012 ~ £772.60/£3000 ~ 23.38%
    Lose 19lbs / Save £2k by 30/04/12 *5/19lbs* £158.72/£2000
  • No snow here in Wilts but apparently it's on it's way. I do hope so otherwise I will have one very disappointed DS. Back to work for me today, love my job so all good there. Having to deal with some 'stuff' and I'm feeling very proud that I'm not using the booze to 'deal' with it.

    All positive if slightly chilly here!

    5 for me please.
    LBM 10/08 £12510.74/
  • Evening all,

    Snow and ice causing lots of disruption here too, can't wait for life to get back to normal.

    HB - Can you count me in for the AF Jan challenge please? I'm not going to count days or report them daily as that just seems to make me focus on counting down the days til I can 'legitimately' have a drink.

    Feel like it's got to be all or nothing. I don't drink. Them's the rules. End of!

    Feeling a bit apprehensive but quite positive. Did some drinking over xmas and felt horrible after small amounts - dehydrated, awake at 4am, upset tummy etc.

    Onwards and upwards...

    Thanks xx

    Have to agree GG. All or nothing seems to be the way forward. I'd love to be one of those people who have a civilised glass of wine with their dinner, the kind that actually use wine stoppers :eek: But I and it seems so many other people on here, know one is just never enough.

    Good Luck.
    LBM 10/08 £12510.74/
  • honeybear_2
    honeybear_2 Posts: 3,914 Forumite
    Although I am somewhat :o about my inability to leave the wine alone thus far this year I am very proud of how well everyone is doing & it's a pleasure to be scoring for you all :T

    Here's a Death Star for you all to play with: star-wars-smiley-6461.gif

    :D
    @ LBM = £15,872.65, now £10,819.82
    AF Jan = 7/? Feb = 5/14 Mar = 14/20 Apr = 6/14 May = 2/14 June 2/14 July 0/TF Aug 1/TFv Sept 6/TF Oct 4/7
    "NEVER DOUBT YOUR OWN QUALITY"
  • saorsie
    saorsie Posts: 1,905 Forumite
    No snow here in Wilts but apparently it's on it's way. I do hope so otherwise I will have one very disappointed DS. Back to work for me today, love my job so all good there. Having to deal with some 'stuff' and I'm feeling very proud that I'm not using the booze to 'deal' with it.

    Good for you PBT2008 - it's so easy to reach for the bottle when the chips are down - you have every reason to feel proud :A

    -s- xx
    Frugal living challenge 2012 live on £8500 ~ £7725.87 remaining
    Make £5/day in 2012 ~ £482.24/£1830 ~ 22.52%
    Proud Member of PAD since January 2010 ~ Total paid to date £11386.64
    Savings Pot for 2012 ~ £772.60/£3000 ~ 23.38%
    Lose 19lbs / Save £2k by 30/04/12 *5/19lbs* £158.72/£2000
  • squizz_2
    squizz_2 Posts: 105 Forumite
    There be a light dusting here in ye olde Putney marshes....it is very coldfreezing.gif

    I am :( because tomorrow I must take down my tree :xmastree:

    Time to watch some Peter Kay and then an early night for meeeee

    Have a good evening folks
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    AF days in Feb 2010 - 2 :A
    No new toiletries challenge 2010 (no buying new stuff until existing stash runs out!)
  • I have just had a thought...I do that from time to time! I feel the need to share...in fact i'm going to do something radical (for an oldtimer like me) and search for a link and post it. This sums up me at the moment (in a very positive way!)...I vaguely remember someone having a line from this song in their sig?????????

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tYnOE1W1kkA
    LBM 10/08 £12510.74/
  • budget_babe
    budget_babe Posts: 1,633 Forumite
    edited 5 January 2010 at 10:24PM
    Hello my friends,

    Well what a frazzle of a day Dear Budgie has had, set off to work this morning with Mr BB driving he did not think he would be able to get the car back home so he got me half way there and then I walked the rest of the way. Budgie's thinking was I will get a taxi back, DOH the taxi firm took their cabs off the road all day. The main bank in the town I work closed too :eek: So Budgie was in a flap, I rang my boss to say that I was having to walk home and as I was not prepared to walk in the dark I was leaving very early. To be fair he was fine, I have said I will make the time up.

    To cut a long story short, Mr BB set off from home and he met me halfway to walk back with me, there is quite a dodgy country road with no pavement. We were going to stop at a pub, BUT ONLY FOR A COFFEE. But that was closed too :eek:

    So it took poor Budgie 2 hours to walk home and my boots were so soaking they leaked so my poor feet were squelching. But instead of begruding the walk, I thought to myself at least I am able to walk the distance and I felt thankful I am fit enough.

    And there my Dear Friends is the difference, I managed to turn a negative into a positive and that is the key to changing how we/I think. ;)

    So to the Bear that cares ;) Yes you my Dear HoneyB make it 5 outta 5 please, so glad to hear that the mice problem is being addressed. I fear you have no choice and it is a means to an end. Big hugs and take care (())xxxxxxxxxxxxx

    Fay would love to see ya, ;) and no excuses would be given here. Big hugs and nice to have you back. (()) xxxxxxxxxxxxx

    Pricey hugs hunny sorry to hear about your Mums appointment, but Manchester has been hit very hard, don't venture in tomorrow if it is bad. (()) xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

    Bhb thanks for that matey, do you know I had that tune in my mind ;) hope the hand is ok? (()) xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

    Gien, 115k and GG nice to see you both back, take care and hugs (()) xxxxxxxxxxxxxx

    Graeme hugs and I see I am not the only on who thinks you are fab, :A hugs (()) xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

    Dear Lurky and YM hugs and take care (()) xxxxxxxxxxxxxx

    Miss P sorry to hear about the tablets but well done on not drinking :T hope you and the adorable piglet are ok? (()) xxxxxxxxxxxxx

    Well had an email asking me to call this phone volunteer line, rang as I was home early and there was no one there to take my call :eek: so I have left a message and sent another email. Quite troubled as it is for vulnerable people and if they are ringing and then no one can get back to them until the day after :confused: though I guess it may be down to the weather. I will see how it all pans out.

    Waves to Jo, Maman, Mari, Wbf, Squizz, Marru, Bis,Pbt, Fedup, Ra, SSA, Dizzy D, Lincs, Cazza, 40sm, Cw, Shaggy, Fh, 69Chick, Kittie,Dc, Md, IM,Eselt (hope you are ok), MP glad you could work from home today. Hugs to you all and to everyone else I haven't mentioned. (()) xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

    God Bless Budgie
    xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
    Cherish the ones you love and travel back on the road that brings you home :)
    "What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us" Ralph Waldo Emerson :A
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