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The giving up/cutting down alcohol support thread! Part 5

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  • So_Sad_Angel
    So_Sad_Angel Posts: 7,363 Forumite
    Hi Fay

    Its 31/31 for me & 64/100 plus have saved £124 in October.

    ...gosh did I really waste so much money on drink:eek::eek::eek::eek: ( so far on my 100 challenge I have saved £256!)

    Hope everyone is well.....enjoy Xfactor/strictly whichever is your thing:D

    Angiexx
  • So_Sad_Angel
    So_Sad_Angel Posts: 7,363 Forumite
    Ooooh forgot to say well done on the rabbit Jo...my DD has one (house rabbit) & it loves a little soft dog bed that it sits in & also plays with little soft rattly dog toys.

    ....hmmmm DD wanted a dog actually.....little mite may have an identity crisis before long:confused::D:D
  • Jo - a house rabbit, how lovely, but is the hutch in your house?

    Maman - I know what you mean about the hangovers nowadays - I thought it was cos I'm getting older, but it must be due to the reduced tolerance.
    Total AFD's May-December 2009: 178 ie 73% of total days (245 days)
    Target January: 25 actual: 24 Target Feb: 22 actual 22 Target March: 26 Actual: 24 Target April: 25 Actual: 5
  • heath480
    heath480 Posts: 341 Forumite
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    Good to see more peoples about tonight.:j
    The October list is very impressive,hooray to everyone.

    Love the rabbit Jo,my 3 had all sorts of pets over the years,never forget the time we had a terrapin,it was unfortunately deceased when we got it!I took it back and the pet shop owner was trying to tell me it was alive!was like a Monty Python sketch:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

    Just got dog and cat now,both spoilt rotten.

    Well we have been inundated with trick or treaters tonight,have almost run out of huge stash of sweets I bought.

    Drinking Rochester Ginger drink,lovely warming and Alcohol Free.


    Have a goodnight all.:A
    Sobriety delivers everything Alcohol promised.


    Alcohol free since May 23rd 2003.:D
  • jo1972
    jo1972 Posts: 8,901 Forumite
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    PIR, yes the hutch is in DS's bedroom, she won't be bearing the elements ever, the kids still won't leave the bluddy thing alone :mad: she's happy though, enjoyed the carrot last night and munching on a sprout as we speak. House needs to be de-rabbit'fied properly yet so can't let her roam without keeping a close eye :eek:

    Deposited OH at the station and now back, about to have thai chicken soup with a buttered roll then my best reduced purchase this week, a Star Wars Clone Wars birthday cake (well just 'one' slice of it :rolleyes:) reduced from £8.50 to £1.70 :D:D:D Second non-birthday reduced celebration cake we've had this week. We lit a candle and sang to the rabbit to welcome her to the house :D well, had to have an excuse to celebrate with something, I can't drink afterall :rotfl:

    Thank you so much to Fay for the fantastic scoring and well done to everyone for the amazing efforts this month, specially with all the challenges. Pats on back all round, well done!! drunksmilie.gif oops, wrong one friends_smilie.gif

    Off to watch Saw V on Sky (all on my lonesome :eek:) and eat cake and drink hot choklit bullar_smilie.gif
    DFW Nerd no. 496 - Proud to be dealing with my debts!!
  • mollypolly
    mollypolly Posts: 1,737 Forumite
    Hi Jo,

    Hope you enjoy your film.....too scary for me.....Just got back from Indian with DH......
    We went out just to escape the Trick or Treaters :eek::eek:

    Thats two meals out in one day.....am feeling so fat:D:D...but dont care.

    Off to bed soon as have to be up at 5.30 for work:eek:
    Thanks for the excellent scoring Fay and thanks to GG for volunteering for Next month.

    Good luck for the rest of the evening.....See you in November.

    Take care of You
    Love Mollypollyxxxx
    :happylove :happylove
    I'm back!!!!
    DMP starts 1st July 2015:T
    Dfd March 2021 (hoping to get there sooner )
    DMP mutual support group number 444
    Proud to be dealing with my debts at last :j
  • maman
    maman Posts: 29,978 Forumite
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    Hi fay, I finished this month on 14 AF (£46.66)

    Thanks so much for the scoring, you've done ever so well :T:T:T
  • jo1972
    jo1972 Posts: 8,901 Forumite
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    edited 31 October 2009 at 11:26PM
    fayjmck wrote: »
    :jJo………………….. 26/31*************************£169/201.50

    Just dropping back in before the film starts (had to eat first, no way could I eat and watch any of the Saw films at the same time _pale_)

    My final total for October is 26 days and a whopping £175.50 not spent :money:

    Cheers ears :D

    ETA: T2GU, hope you're feeling better hunny xxx

    xx
    DFW Nerd no. 496 - Proud to be dealing with my debts!!
  • Well done on the bargain cake, Jo. There were some great bargains in the supermarket reduced sections this week - so many people went on holiday for a few days over half term.

    I'm going to a 'spinning' class tomorrow am - that'll be a first for a Sunday morning, usually just go to the gym with a hangover. Mr PIR has had two beers and a bottle of red tonight - don't know how he could. He says he's joining me for an AF November, but we'll see.

    Pumpkin candle blown out now, another Halloween just about over - hurrayy!

    Night night dearest friends

    xx
    Total AFD's May-December 2009: 178 ie 73% of total days (245 days)
    Target January: 25 actual: 24 Target Feb: 22 actual 22 Target March: 26 Actual: 24 Target April: 25 Actual: 5
  • Hi All

    Well I've hit my rock bottom. I went out with DH and 3 DDs last night to celebrate DH's birthday and got completely drunk in the restaurant by drinking lots of wine. My DDs were embarrassed with their drunken mother. I just cannot control it when I start - I can't just have a couple of glasses of wine. I feel terrible both with guilt and physically. I've just got to cut it out completely.

    I'm going to go for completely AF November ie 30 days, please GG. This is the first time I've set myself a completely AF target, but I've been finding that whilst it has got easier to ignore any cravings to achieve my targets each month, on my alcohol-allowed days, I've been drinking approx 12-14 units, which is a week's units in one night.

    Sorry to be so despondent today. I'm going to make a real, real effort now. I've got to think of positive things about myself, I'm just feeling so annoyed with myself today.


    Sending you big hugs PIR:A . I will be your buddy for the next 30 days;) . Please don't beat yourself up ... it was a blip.... you are one of our constant acheivers (sp?):T:T

    Love

    40SM:D
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