The giving up/cutting down alcohol support thread! Part 5

Lurkio

yellowmonkey wrote: »

Much prefer Joland to Lurkioland at Christmas

Yes, but.......... AT CHRISTMAS!!! Not chuffing September!!!!

I give up........

honeybear_2

For Lurkio:



Celebrating the joy of Autumn

barshamhillbilly

Lurkio wrote: »

Remember, you only have to say the word.......



:rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl:

Damn - what did you do that for ? That song is flying round my head again - I only just got rid of it from last weekend :eek::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

115K

honeybear wrote: »

Reminds me of something I read in a magazine once:

"Make a list of all the jobs you have to do then lose it"

:T I will have to try that technique.

honeybear_2

115K wrote: »

:T I will have to try that technique.

Happy to help :cool:

I'm a bit of a lister but remembering that always make me smile It was all in the context of not striving to be perfect all the time & just being happy as yourself

honeybear_2

Saw this & thought of us all

http://www.emcartoons.com/january-2009/

Go to above & scroll down 6 cartoons to the one called Permanent Marker

Lurkio

honeybear wrote: »

For Lurkio:



Celebrating the joy of Autumn

:T :T :T :T

that's more like it!

elantan

yellowmonkey wrote: »

Morning all

Hope everyone is doing OK. I am at work ATM and sorted out little problem yesterday so should have a nice quiet one

elentan I found your post quite sad actually regarding your OH. Hopefully I am not the same now as I was putting drink before my family and I could see myself mirrored in your OH. Hope something happens to re ignite your relationship ( if that is what you want of course)

Going to be a lovely day down souf today and I hope it is the same where you are

ym

hey Ym i do know what you mean when you say it is quite sad ...it is ...but it is what it is ...to find out that the person you love and would die for prefers to have alcohol to a happy marriage and that the alcohol is more important that you really changes the way you feel with the relationship and the love.... as alot of people are aware alcohol is an addiction i know he loves me i just know he needs alcohol more just now....and yes it is slowly killing my love for him...but at the end of the day i can only change my behaviour i cant change anyone elses

yellowmonkey

elantan wrote: »

hey Ym i do know what you mean when you say it is quite sad ...it is ...but it is what it is ...to find out that the person you love and would die for prefers to have alcohol to a happy marriage and that the alcohol is more important that you really changes the way you feel with the relationship and the love.... as alot of people are aware alcohol is an addiction i know he loves me i just know he needs alcohol more just now....and yes it is slowly killing my love for him...but at the end of the day i can only change my behaviour i cant change anyone elses

Indeed that is so true

jo1972

Elantan, so good to see you popping in to see ya old mates! Sorry to hear about your OH, makes me wonder too if my OH has thought the same as you about me? Congrats on the drinking front, you are an inspiration x