We’d like to remind Forumites to please avoid political debate on the Forum.

This is to keep it a safe and useful space for MoneySaving discussions. Threads that are – or become – political in nature may be removed in line with the Forum’s rules. Thank you for your understanding.

📨 Have you signed up to the Forum's new Email Digest yet? Get a selection of trending threads sent straight to your inbox daily, weekly or monthly!

The giving up/cutting down alcohol support thread! Part 5

1129130132134135809

Comments

  • Pippilongstocking
    Pippilongstocking Posts: 16,336 Forumite
    edited 5 October 2009 at 6:34PM
    Thanks Fay, you're right I guess, I just think I set my target too low and should be trying to achieve more! But that's the target I've set and I'll stick to it this month and see how I go. 10 days this month will be a lot more than I've managed in the last couple of years.

    My problem now this evening is that there's half a bottle of wine left from last night. It's sat right in front of me staring at me, and half of my brain is saying :eek:"DON'T DO IT!!!!" and the other half is saying "You've already spent the money, why waste it by throwing it away", and if I leave it where it is I'll only end up having it tomorrow instead...

    I suppose if my OH haves a glass I'll only really get one out of it. Plus I have managed to have a NSD today instead. :)

    Gonna go catch up and read back a few pages!

    Earlier last year someone said to me when I said but the money saving the money saving (I think it was Bismark one of the wiser ones on the thread :))

    Pouring it down the sink or p*ssing down the loo - what's the difference?


    You'll feel better if you pour it down the sink (maybe a step too far:eek:??)

    The money is already spent - if you feel brave - shove it in the freezer in a plastic bottle it will keep til an alcohol friendly day :rotfl:

    PS sorry not being the alcohol police - just trying to be sort of um helpful? I know about the calling wine, I have huge massive ding dong alcohol bells at the moment
    - so hugs hunny!!!

    If you want to be strong - stash it in the freezer.
    Total debt 26/4/18 <£1925 we were getting there. :beer:
    Total debt as of 28/4/19 £7867.38:eek:
    minus 112.06 = £7755.32:money:
    :money:Sleeves up folks.:money:
  • fedupandskint
    fedupandskint Posts: 10,358 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    I'm aboard for the AF Monday!

    A fleeting thought about a glass of wine - pushed it away by thinking 'No it's Monday and I'm not drinking today' On the Basics OJ and off to get my curry leftovers for tea

    Day 3 AF today please Fay!
    final unsecured debt to repay currently £8333
    Proud to be Dealing With my Debt
    DFW Nerd 1154 Long Haul 155
  • honeybear_2
    honeybear_2 Posts: 3,914 Forumite
    My problem now this evening is that there's half a bottle of wine left from last night.

    I sometimes make ice-cubes out of what I have left over then use them for cooking rather than buying a bottle "for cooking" & then drinking most of it.

    As they say every little helps ;)
    @ LBM = £15,872.65, now £10,819.82
    AF Jan = 7/? Feb = 5/14 Mar = 14/20 Apr = 6/14 May = 2/14 June 2/14 July 0/TF Aug 1/TFv Sept 6/TF Oct 4/7
    "NEVER DOUBT YOUR OWN QUALITY"
  • toby3000
    toby3000 Posts: 316 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 100 Posts Combo Breaker
    fayjmck wrote: »

    toby3000 I will put you down for25 days and well done on the 4 AFD's already do you want to add in your average spend figure and I can save that for you if you like (virtually not in real life :)) and I see you are trying to make £5 a day - if you saved the AF money I bet that would help towards that !! Anyway here's your first 4 stars ****

    Thank you for my Stars! I feel so special!

    I have no idea about spend, unfortunately... going out I spend maybe £40-50, so I might try and keep a tally of money not spent when out!
  • toby3000
    toby3000 Posts: 316 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 100 Posts Combo Breaker
    Also, you can freeze wine?! I wish I'd known this!
  • dreamonsu
    dreamonsu Posts: 59 Forumite
    :hello:Evening everyone I hope you all had a good weekend (and if you didn't that you have recovered now;))
    I didn't have an AF Sunday but I could easily have done, I feel so cross with myself:mad:. It got to about 10pm and I hadn't had a drink; my OH had been drinking my favourite Fleury all evening and had 'conked out' snoring on the sofa leaving about a quarter bottle of wine. Did I find a stopper for the wine? no I did not I found a glass instead and finished off the wine. Ah well that's much better than my usual adventures with my favourine Cote Du Rhone.
    I am joining in with AF Monday and as I type I'm sipping my tea. Don't put me down as AF yet fay 'there's many a slip..) I'll post tomorrow if I managed it.
    Welcome to all the newbies (I feel like an old timer now!)
    going to start the dinner now, byee.
    Su
    January AF target 15 days - 6/15
  • jo1972
    jo1972 Posts: 8,901 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    Hi to newbies! Would love to insert all manner of exciting welcoming smileys but posting from phone tonight so cant. Welcome aboard and if you wish please join us for AF monday! We have a monthly challenge where we pledge the number of alcohol free days we would like to achieve, Fay is our scorer for the month so let her know if you want to join in. Plus we made today a national alcohol free monday to give support to a few that are struggling, safety in numbers etc!
    DFW Nerd no. 496 - Proud to be dealing with my debts!!
  • Marru
    Marru Posts: 4,126 Forumite
    HS1Welcomepng1.png to all the newbies and

    HShugsdoganim_16923.gif to 40SM

    I have now caught up but need to get DD to bed, back soon....
    "Everything will be alright in the end. If it's not alright, it's not the end."

  • honeybear_2
    honeybear_2 Posts: 3,914 Forumite
    toby3000 wrote: »
    Also, you can freeze wine?! I wish I'd known this!

    Works a treat! I made a great spag bol yesterday while AF with red wine ice cubes added in & it was lovely :D

    Sadly, I haven't quite made it to the AFD Monday party :o
    @ LBM = £15,872.65, now £10,819.82
    AF Jan = 7/? Feb = 5/14 Mar = 14/20 Apr = 6/14 May = 2/14 June 2/14 July 0/TF Aug 1/TFv Sept 6/TF Oct 4/7
    "NEVER DOUBT YOUR OWN QUALITY"
  • heath480
    heath480 Posts: 341 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    Well done to all who are having an Alcohol free Monday.:T

    Dont listen to the Alcohol bells,they lie to you.:eek:
    Sobriety delivers everything Alcohol promised.


    Alcohol free since May 23rd 2003.:D
This discussion has been closed.
Meet your Ambassadors

🚀 Getting Started

Hi new member!

Our Getting Started Guide will help you get the most out of the Forum

Categories

  • All Categories
  • 352.1K Banking & Borrowing
  • 253.6K Reduce Debt & Boost Income
  • 454.2K Spending & Discounts
  • 245.2K Work, Benefits & Business
  • 600.8K Mortgages, Homes & Bills
  • 177.5K Life & Family
  • 259K Travel & Transport
  • 1.5M Hobbies & Leisure
  • 16K Discuss & Feedback
  • 37.7K Read-Only Boards

Is this how you want to be seen?

We see you are using a default avatar. It takes only a few seconds to pick a picture.