Psychosis Support Needed

Jojo_the_Tightfisted

Sometimes the 'I am so bad, I have done these awful things' is due to the influence of a 12 step programme. It basically involves the person believing they are useless scum, incapable of acting differently, that can only be saved by an outside entity - the Higher Power - and the power of the Group.

Not the most successful, albeit possibly the most widely marketed, approach to addictions.

If the OP were to say in a moment of clarity, what he had admitted to (or hallucinated - it may not have happened), it may encourage him to see he needs help. Going with him to the doctor (as he may not go or will forget to mention he believes that the police are out to get him, etc) will ensure his full symptoms are reported.

If not, lock up the kitchen knives. Paranoia can take the gentlest person somewhere they would never normally go.

brummiebabe

Hi

I'm a CPN (Community Psychiatric Nurse) - the best thing to do initially, I would think, would be to go with him to see his GP. The GP can then assess and refer to the local Community Mental Health Team/Psychiatrist if they feel it's necessary. The GP has to be the initial point of contact really. Obviously, if he won't go - you may need to push for a Home Visit.

Referral does not always mean he'll be sectionned - there are lots of Home Treatment teams around now, who can offer support, monitoring and medication at home, if needed. They can also then offer you supprt aswell. With the sorts of things he's saying, and if there is a family history of mental illness, then it may be best to err on the side of caution and get him checked out. Obviously the cannabis will be a factor...but is probably something you and he need to discuss once things are more settled.

I wish you all the best & feel free to PM me if you need to.

claire0788

Hey,

I have some experience with mental illness and also a few other things from working social care. Obviously your aware of the issues with drugs and the effects they can have. Has he had this type of "episode" before ?

Not only could this be a side effect from drug use but you know some people have severe reactions to stress.

If he is aware of this conversation tomorrow Id suggest talking to him, getting some answers (as im sure youll want reassurance from him that he hasnt cheated on you) and see how hes feeling. Also remember if your really worried that this could be a sign of a mental illness developing then please do try and persuade him to see his GP or if hes embarrassed (as i know guys can be about going to the doctors) you could phone NHS 24 for a chat.

Either way your a strong person and I know youll get through anything and help him anyway you can.

Fire_Fox

Thank you so so so much everyone for your replies. He seems back to 'normal' and has said several times that he is never smoking weed again.

We went to the cinema last night as I wanted us to do something fun yet relaxing. I wore his coat on the way home and when I took it off there was a blonde hair on my sweater ... I am on medication from when my Dan was killed seven years ago, but I am still in pieces.

I am going to delete my OP as I don't want to have the detail up in public long-term. But thank you from the bottom of my heart to everyone who has taken the time to post.

Gingham_Ribbon

That could have come from the cinema seat, not necessarily the coat. Good luck.

Fire_Fox

Gingham_Ribbon wrote: »

That could have come from the cinema seat, not necessarily the coat. Good luck.

I think it did as he swore it wasn't hers. I was just about coping up to that point, had hardly cried, but I fell apart when I saw the hair. I hate her with a passion, she knows he has a girlfriend yet she still rang him very late the other night. They only spoke about an incident at work but she still rang and he still answered ...

ZiggyStardust_2

Fire_Fox wrote: »

I think it did as he swore it wasn't hers. I was just about coping up to that point, had hardly cried, but I fell apart when I saw the hair. I hate her with a passion, she knows he has a girlfriend yet she still rang him very late the other night. They only spoke about an incident at work but she still rang and he still answered ...

I'm really sorry you're going through this Fire Fox.
Cannabis can be so destructive and can totally take a grip on some people. My hubby smokes it although not as much anymore and wants to give up. He tried to give up completely a couple of years ago when he had depression and it was not pretty...:(

I take it you've spoken to him about this girl and whether anything actually happened? You will need answers either way to move through this. If he answered the phone to her maybe not the sign of a guilty conscience ?? Sending you HUGS xx

Fire_Fox

It *did* happen at least twice, once before he went away and once since he's been back. I've just made him change his jeans as realised he's worn them to work all week so he must have been wearing them then ... I've cried every hour all day even in Boots when getting my prescription.

*Jellie*

He is a fool for doing this to a lovely person like you. Stay strong.

ZiggyStardust_2

Oh Fire Fox... I'm really sorry that's what's happened. I really hope you get it sorted, one way or another. You've helped alot of people in your posts and I know we'll all be thinking of you. Stay strong x