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My Ongoing Challenge - To live with my means

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  • Lurker1972
    Lurker1972 Posts: 779 Forumite
    quick update as nothing really happening!
    NSD yesterday so need to update siggy
    Got stood up by friend who i was meeting for lunch as she poorly, but still had v yummy subway so no NSD today
    just need to update spreadsheets before I can hibernate....if only!
    I do not make mistakes, I learn lessons.
    I work to live, not live to work.
    I love to live & live to love.
    Good enough is exactly that.
  • savingholmes
    savingholmes Posts: 29,070 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper Photogenic
    Hi lurker - at least you are still staying on track - that alone can make such a difference to our financial future!
    Achieve FIRE/Mortgage Neutrality in 2030
    1) MFW Nov 21 £202K now £171.8K Equity 36.37%
    2) £2.6K Net savings after CCs 10/10/25
    3) Mortgage neutral by 06/30 (AVC £27.9K + Lump Sums DB £4.6K + (25% of SIPP 1.25K) = 34/£127.5K target 26.6% 10/10/25
    (If took bigger lump sum = 60.35K or 47.6%)
    4) FI Age 60 income target £17.1/30K 57% (if mortgage and debts repaid - need more otherwise) (If bigger lump sum £15.8/30K 52.67%)
    5) SIPP £5K updated 10/10/25
  • Lurker1972
    Lurker1972 Posts: 779 Forumite
    can declare 2 more NSDs this week - would have been 3 but I forgot my chocolate & couldn't cope without any!

    Have just checked my figures and......dare I say it - month 1 of new budget has worked!!!!!!!!! :j& there could be a little left over!! that will be split between mortgage overpayment fund & emergency savings account

    am out for the day tomorrow off on a day trip to sunny spain - with left over euros from holiday so can happily spend without ruining a NSD!!!

    transfer of energy company should be sorted in next few weeks so that will help too - as will not putting the heating on yet!!!

    bring on the weekend!

    x
    I do not make mistakes, I learn lessons.
    I work to live, not live to work.
    I love to live & live to love.
    Good enough is exactly that.
  • savingholmes
    savingholmes Posts: 29,070 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper Photogenic
    wow enjoy the daytrip got dd on lap so short reply
    Achieve FIRE/Mortgage Neutrality in 2030
    1) MFW Nov 21 £202K now £171.8K Equity 36.37%
    2) £2.6K Net savings after CCs 10/10/25
    3) Mortgage neutral by 06/30 (AVC £27.9K + Lump Sums DB £4.6K + (25% of SIPP 1.25K) = 34/£127.5K target 26.6% 10/10/25
    (If took bigger lump sum = 60.35K or 47.6%)
    4) FI Age 60 income target £17.1/30K 57% (if mortgage and debts repaid - need more otherwise) (If bigger lump sum £15.8/30K 52.67%)
    5) SIPP £5K updated 10/10/25
  • wow enjoy the daytrip got dd on lap so short reply

    Oh how I envy you that!!! one day...one day!

    Day trip was good but so very tiring, up for 22 hours, Barcelona was lovely & sunny & I came home with 40Euro left!!!!

    On the not so good side, I spoke to soon about coming in under budget on groceries! Took Mr Lurker with me which was a mistake but I was too tired to drive or push the trolley!! bought massive pack of razor blades for him so we shouldnt need any until about May next year but not good for this months budget - not yet worked out the effect he'd had on budget...its on the list of jobs to do

    Today is housework day & am hoping to get loads of washing done as its lovely out...thats if I can get my butt into gear!
    I do not make mistakes, I learn lessons.
    I work to live, not live to work.
    I love to live & live to love.
    Good enough is exactly that.
  • :j:j:j:j:j

    Didn't go over budget after all!!
    £2.89 spare!!!!!!

    so sad how happy that make me!
    I do not make mistakes, I learn lessons.
    I work to live, not live to work.
    I love to live & live to love.
    Good enough is exactly that.
  • well I got to the end of the week & I still have paper money in my purse!!
    had a couple of Low spend days which could have been avoided, but overall not a bad week

    planning to do nothing this weekend which I may regret as the house is a tip but I need some chill time...after the usual supermarket run that is

    all in all the first month of new budget has gone ok, but I have my doubts as to whether its sustainable
    Am pushing myself at work to be in a position to do overtime without being a drain on others.....but I don't see that happening for a while

    things are ok at work, but the training seems to have dried up.....so am doing something different & having to guess its right - yikes!!

    weigh in tomorrow, think it will be a gain as clothes not comfy, will have to make more effort with portion control & actually getting exercise instead of just thinking about it - which means i need to recharge my batteries & get some sleep

    night all

    x
    I do not make mistakes, I learn lessons.
    I work to live, not live to work.
    I love to live & live to love.
    Good enough is exactly that.
  • savingholmes
    savingholmes Posts: 29,070 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper Photogenic
    glad you are on track budget wise.

    We had debts when we had both our children... and added to them initially but getting there more now...
    Achieve FIRE/Mortgage Neutrality in 2030
    1) MFW Nov 21 £202K now £171.8K Equity 36.37%
    2) £2.6K Net savings after CCs 10/10/25
    3) Mortgage neutral by 06/30 (AVC £27.9K + Lump Sums DB £4.6K + (25% of SIPP 1.25K) = 34/£127.5K target 26.6% 10/10/25
    (If took bigger lump sum = 60.35K or 47.6%)
    4) FI Age 60 income target £17.1/30K 57% (if mortgage and debts repaid - need more otherwise) (If bigger lump sum £15.8/30K 52.67%)
    5) SIPP £5K updated 10/10/25
  • v quick update
    doing ok on not spending much of weekly allowance, having said that will analyse it at weekend & probably be completely horrifed!
    Blew grocery budget at weekend byt taking Mr Lurker with me - will I ever leatn that this is a bad bad thing to do - might be able to rescue it if I can stick to a budget of £25 for the next 3 weeks - could be interesting !!!

    taken advantage of the extra hour to get more organised so lunches are being made the evening before while tea being prepared - I also have tomorrow evenings meal ready & waiting to ping
    means we were able to get in much earlier (8.15 this morning) which is good for the flexi time if nothing else

    proper update at weekend, got to go arrange lift home tomorrow to avoid paying out for buses!!

    keep those pennies in your pockets folks
    x
    I do not make mistakes, I learn lessons.
    I work to live, not live to work.
    I love to live & live to love.
    Good enough is exactly that.
  • am having to relaunch my no vending machine challenge - with 65 days left until 2010, I need to get a grip or there will be even more of me to grip!!
    stayed away from it today, but have still eaten way too much
    tea was a fairly tasty spag bol, that I can proudly say I cooked from SCRATCH!!! first time I've made the sauce & can give it 8/10 which is pretty good & theres some left for Friday when I'm on my own for tea.
    Was suprised how simple it was (thank you Lorraine Kellys anti junk food book)
    Now I just need to sort out tomorrows lunches and we should be good for a fairly stressless morning
    On the BAAAAAD side:mad:, beloved laptop has died again, only 2 weeks after being fixed :mad:- Mr Lurker (IT nerd) is not impressed at this challenge to his fixing skills - not sure what the next step is but I suspect it will be costly, hey ho

    kick up the a*se now needed so I do my chores...thank heavens for hump day.....nearly the weekend!!

    x
    I do not make mistakes, I learn lessons.
    I work to live, not live to work.
    I love to live & live to love.
    Good enough is exactly that.
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