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Snow_White_5

Sorry you're feeling down tirl. You've come so far with your debt payments now, don't give up! It's great that you're not sacrificing your hobbies as that really is the way to unhappiness. Could you maybe fit in an evening job a couple of days a week or some freelance work. e.g. could you give private tuition in the subject you studied?

tirlittan

Thanks snow white, something definitely needs to be done. I'm just really struggling with everything atm and it's taking it;s toll. I don't see a way out. I know what i need to achieve but not sure how to get there.

Off to N Ireland on Wednesday morning. 6 days off blissful ignorance as not having to live my everyday life.

too_much_debt

Tirlittan - Enjoy your 6 days away.

Where is everyone else? It's so quiet on here this week, on all the threads I've subscribed too as well.

clearmydebts

too_much_debt wrote: »

Tirlittan - Enjoy your 6 days away.

Where is everyone else? It's so quiet on here this week, on all the threads I've subscribed too as well.

Hiya,

I am here. Reading more than writing! Tirlittan I am replying to you on your thread

Snow_White_5

Enjoy your hols tirl!

A DFD of Oct 2011 isn't too bad, is it? If you can just hang on till then...

tirlittan

Yeah, atm can't see DFD at 2011...and is it really worth not having a life before then??? I don't know...

too_much_debt

clearmydebts wrote: »

Hiya,

I am here. Reading more than writing! Tirlittan I am replying to you on your thread

I can imagine you are very busy. How is little Max? How are you finding being a Mum? I used to find the nights the hardest with a new/young baby.

clearmydebts

too_much_debt wrote: »

I can imagine you are very busy. How is little Max? How are you finding being a Mum? I used to find the nights the hardest with a new/young baby.

I am doing okay. He won't latch on so am combination feeding him so having to express as well. I am trying to offer him the shields at every feed as well. Max is a little star. He is a very chilled out and content baby. He only cries when he is very hungry or when he is having his nappy changed. The nights are hard and I am looking forward to him sleeping a bit longer. When does that happen? lol!!!

My OH went back to work today and he has been brilliant so I was a bit teary at that. It was also the first night that I did all the night feeds but I am not too tired.

How are you?

too_much_debt

I am OK thanks, just waiting now for my money from my Endowment, just want to pay off some of my credit cards, am hoping to get a cheque by the end of this week or early next week if there is no other information they need.

tirlittan

I like the name Max as well. Glad you're doing well CMD. And you still have time to give advice!!! You're doing great!