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Kittenkirst

Keep going, you're doing so well. Its great reading your pages as it gives peeps new things to try but also the thought that we're not doing this alone! So keep your head up- the numpties at work will eventually get bored and you shall be vistorious xx

ramblingtree

Hi IMD - Found your diary! I read the first few and the last few pages! I will read hte middle ones soon...
I'm all subscribed, so look forward to following your journey.
x

In_my_dreams

Up bright and early, kids ready for school, BB done and nothing won
Need to do some BT's today for my 0% deals.

Just realised I've sat and watched Ben 10 with no other children in the room :rolleyes:

gallygirl

In_my_dreams wrote: »

BTD - thank you for the hugs.

SH - am trying to ignore and it is only one person but it is hard work.....hoping time will make it easier. Still looking for a job just incase it gets too much!

Just read diary from start to finish, you're doing great :j.

Sorry to hear about your dilemma at work. I had a (v different) situation at work 5 years ago which resulted in a colleague not speaking to another colleague & I. It was v v difficult at the time as the background to it involved a sacking & a lot of other issues and our involvement &/or motivation was completely misinterpreted which was v hurtful. Now I work closely with that colleague & he is close again to the other colleague. Nothing has ever been said but time does heal.

Try looking forward 2 or 3 years. If this person changes their current behaviour can you see yourself still there? Would you like to still be there? Is it possible you will be able to forgive, if not forget? If so, take time to consider your position, but if the damage is too deep then get your CV out & find another job - in your own time.

& when it all gets too much for you - breathe deeply & eat chocolate :EasterBun

Happytogetdebtfree

Keep plugging away IMd works a pain when u like it even more of a pain when there's awkwardness. Just keep going it must be really hard to be ignored but it's a waste of good energy on the igniters part maybe Xmas and new year will change things x x gosh I'm so lazy I just woke up at half 11 must have needed the rest x

Nelmer

gallygirl wrote: »

& when it all gets too much for you - breathe deeply & eat chocolate :EasterBun

Gallygirl - you are soo right.....chocolate is the answer to everything! xx

savingholmes

Hi - I would keep applying for other roles but avoid doing anything rash. In the meantime I must admit chocolate especially silly chocolate like curly wurlys definitely give me a lift!

Happytogetdebtfree

any chocolate gives me a lift but i feel on friday that the film new moon will be giving me a lift woo hooo abit of eye candy can never go a miss especially when its vampie eye candy whooo eeee xx

In_my_dreams

I love chocolate :EasterBunI am trying not to eat it this week and there you all go and recommend it, :eek:

savingholmes

Hey IMD - at least its cheap! and non-life threatening! There are alternatives but they are probably x rated on the forum lol...