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  • sammy115
    sammy115 Posts: 15,267 Forumite
    Luci....I gave up trying to get any support off my mother a long time ago. I guess it really is a generational thing....she never really got the parenting thing. Although its hard to see your children suffering for any reason.

    I have to be totally honest though and say that going back to work did help me with my post natal depression.
    Quality is doing something right when no one is looking - Henry Ford
  • Lucifa73
    Lucifa73 Posts: 7,726 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    oh !!!!!!!!!!

    ((((hugs))))

    on a plus point, at least you have hubbles, group and us to rant at.....

    Thankfully she thinks forums (fora?) are dens of iniquity and full of axe murdering types so is unlikely to come on here... there would be ructions otherwise:rotfl::eek:
    26.2.19/14.1.19: T MC 3629.26/3629.26 : VM 0% 1050/13876.59 : W 0% 100/1485 = 4409.26/18990.85 =25.17%
    28.1.19/28.1.19 Hubs 0% £400/£2,977 =13.44%
    SPC 2019 #073


  • Apologies for my randomness straight before going out.

    @ Maz - I've asked you this before, but what do you mean 'quiet'?! :D

    @ redsquirrel80 - Yeah, the more extreme ones tend to have other meaning so if a guy you're not that into says, "Oh, that means I get...", you can say, "No, that one's just hand holding."

    Mystery shop over and done with, nearly 3 mile walk up and down hills, I want to sleep for a week. I envy you runners, I really do.
    Kayleigh
  • sammy115
    sammy115 Posts: 15,267 Forumite
    Lucifa73 wrote: »
    :confused:

    I tried to explain there was more to it than a bit of boredom/lack of company and she said 'oh I know but not working must be the main reason mustn't and when you go back you'll be fine'....:rolleyes::mad:

    There is more to it than that....its chemical/environmental and social.....very complex problem....:grouphug:
    Quality is doing something right when no one is looking - Henry Ford
  • Avogirly
    Avogirly Posts: 751 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture
    *Hugs Lucifa*

    Afternoon all, just thought I'd popped into the wrong thread..............sex bracelets??!! What's been going on???!!!!! Hahahaha!!!
    October make £10/day currently £11.02
  • sammy115
    sammy115 Posts: 15,267 Forumite
    Lucifa73 wrote: »
    Thankfully she thinks forums (fora?) are dens of iniquity and full of axe murdering types so is unlikely to come on here... there would be ructions otherwise:rotfl::eek:

    they are! Maz has her own den of iniquity and I am an axe murderer....:rotfl:
    Quality is doing something right when no one is looking - Henry Ford
  • Lucifa73
    Lucifa73 Posts: 7,726 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    sammy115 wrote: »
    Luci....I gave up trying to get any support off my mother a long time ago. I guess it really is a generational thing....she never really got the parenting thing. Although its hard to see your children suffering for any reason.

    I have to be totally honest though and say that going back to work did help me with my post natal depression.

    I'm not saying it won't help but her dismissive attitude really got my back up and having had a lovely morning at group and feeling positive as I haven't had a dip for over a week I now feel utterly p'd off and a bit defeated. It would be nice to think O could turn to my Mum for support. And she complains we never tell her anything. Well guess why...
    26.2.19/14.1.19: T MC 3629.26/3629.26 : VM 0% 1050/13876.59 : W 0% 100/1485 = 4409.26/18990.85 =25.17%
    28.1.19/28.1.19 Hubs 0% £400/£2,977 =13.44%
    SPC 2019 #073


  • sammy115
    sammy115 Posts: 15,267 Forumite
    I am ignoring all mention of sex and am concentrating on things I know something about....
    Quality is doing something right when no one is looking - Henry Ford
  • Lucifa73
    Lucifa73 Posts: 7,726 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    Gosh, I need to calm down:o Sorry folks:o:o:o
    26.2.19/14.1.19: T MC 3629.26/3629.26 : VM 0% 1050/13876.59 : W 0% 100/1485 = 4409.26/18990.85 =25.17%
    28.1.19/28.1.19 Hubs 0% £400/£2,977 =13.44%
    SPC 2019 #073


  • (Land_of)_Maz
    (Land_of)_Maz Posts: 11,738 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture
    sammy115 wrote: »
    they are! Maz has her own den of iniquity and I am an axe murderer....:rotfl:


    I wish!!!






    oh well okay, i'm working on it!
    I'm just a seething mass of contradictions....
    (it's part of my charm!)
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