The ultimate incentive proposed! Buying a house, a wedding, and staying debt free.

Dinah93

NIM mother update: Shes called him and said if certain people (in her family) are invited she won't be going, NIM has said its his wedding, and shes got him really angry now. I'm stepping well back and they can fight it out, my loyalties are very, very clear and if she doesn't want to come, thats her call!

No clearer on if there is a wedding fund from the weekend though.

Tete_en_l'Air

Presumably that must be his Dad then?!

Dinah93

God no, she knows there is no way he wouldn't come. I think this would be the wives of some of her brothers, and possibly one or two of the brothers themselves. Not sure if any of them are NIMs dads relatives, or just her own. Going to have to get who it is out of NIM this evening while giving big hugs.

Tete_en_l'Air

Hmm, so it's not just you she doesn't get on with then. Says a lot!

Dinah93

Yeah I had that thought. Hows tricks with you?

wendz86

Morning,

I am back at work after my nice week off.

Dinah - sorry to hear the ring is the wrong size, hope you get the new one soon. Sounds a nightmare about the MIL as usual. It is your wedding and you should only have to invite who you want.

Tete_en_l'Air

All good really. HAd a manic few weekends dotting here there and everywhere so fell a bit more settled now I know nothing exciting's happening for the foreseeable future! Work is full of wild goose chases this morning! Are you up to much with your day off?

Dinah93

I got up at 3am, I'm barely awake tbh!

N.I.M

So when are they legalising Matricide?

wendz86

I think you are hoping that is soon NIM! The whole situation sounds like a nightmare.