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  • Flower08
    Flower08 Posts: 4,771 Forumite
    Dinah93 wrote: »
    Or I researched harrassment before I decided it was just easier to change my phone number.


    I've changed it twice now. She will think nothing of waiting for someone to go to the toilet or the bar and steeling my phone number off their phone.
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  • Dinah93
    Dinah93 Posts: 11,466 Forumite
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    Right, she really is a nutter. I think getting the police involved might be the only thing that would scare her off.
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  • Tete_en_l'Air
    Tete_en_l'Air Posts: 7,134 Forumite
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    Just checking it's this one:

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  • Dinah93
    Dinah93 Posts: 11,466 Forumite
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    Yep thats the one Tete
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  • N.I.M
    N.I.M Posts: 2,248 Forumite
    He's a man, we usually dont get this, I just had a LOT of female friends growing up. You need to sit him down and explain how things really are with women. Defintely speak to the uncle about it, but only if your on good terms with him. And as for your OH, I'd have less than no respect for him if he reacted any differently. Anyone spoke to Dinah like that and the next time they'd be seen would be on the evening news.
    This was 6 months out of date so I've changed it.
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  • clearmydebts
    clearmydebts Posts: 6,485 Forumite
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    I agree. I think a text to her telling her that any more carry on you will be seeking legal advice about her harassment. That should get rid of her.
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  • Dinah93
    Dinah93 Posts: 11,466 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Combo Breaker Bake Off Boss!
    He might well just want to pretend she isn't a problem, and part of that is pretending there is no possibility of a crush. It makes things less hassle.
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  • N.I.M
    N.I.M Posts: 2,248 Forumite
    How attached to her is he?
    This was 6 months out of date so I've changed it.
    :j:j:j:j
  • wendz86
    wendz86 Posts: 7,171 Forumite
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    Flower - I would ask my OH but don't think he is up to that stage in his training yet. I think if you tell her to leave you alone or you will contact the police then its her own fault if anything happens after that.

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  • Tete_en_l'Air
    Tete_en_l'Air Posts: 7,134 Forumite
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    Dinah93 wrote: »
    Yep thats the one Tete

    Sorry off-topic I know, will book it up after work. Been doing my budgets til Christmas, lots of money going out this month what with one thing and another but I feel better for having them written down. Got my £50 from Nationwide too for transferring all my DDs over (well, my one £3 per month RSPCA donation) :T - almost didn't notice it because it was payday!
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