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Tete_en_l'Air

Dinah93 wrote: »

Eeek I've done it Tete! The one about 6 courses down on the front page of the mbro.ac site, Wednesdays at Middlehaven 6pm-8pm, tell me I got it right!

Err, just back from Body Conditioning, will have a look!

poddle911 wrote: »

I also like the idea of a wedding in September (or May) as July and August seem a bit... obvious... if you know what I mean?

I also think with a summer wedding, if the weather's miserable it's a DISASTER, whereas spring/autumn/winter you're expecting the weather to be bad so if it's not then it's a lovely bonus.

Flower08 wrote: »

there was a group of us at another friends house because she had just had a baby, i was saying how cute the baby was, OH commented that i better not get any ideas - her comment "god you would be mad if you had kids with her".

Flower, I definitely agree with what others have said she MUST have a crush on OH to be so downright horrible and rude! Bask in the knowledge that she's only being like that because she wants what you've got and ignore her, certainly don't let it come between you. Still though, how has she got any friends left - if one of my friends spoke to someone like that I don't think I'd bother to contact them again!

ETA -

im ashamed to say i threw a drink over her

:T

Flower08

Tete_en_l'Air wrote: »

Still though, how has she got any friends left - if one of my friends spoke to someone like that I don't think I'd bother to contact them again!

I have no idea, people always seem to get annoyed with her tell her shes out of order for the things she says (and she can be rude to any number of people - she just has the biggest problem with me), no one hears from here for a couple of weeks, then when everything has settled down she shows her face again and everything seems to be forgotton....until the next time.

On better news, i just checked the online account for the deposit protection scheme for the deposit for the old flat and it is now showing as payment processing, s hopefully should have that soon!

poddle911

Flower08 wrote: »

im ashamed to say i threw a drink over her

Ha ha ha! Good on you!:rotfl:

Disclaimer: I do not condone the throwing of drinks over people in normal circumstances (unless they really really deserve it)

Birdie85

Dinah93 wrote: »

Ooooh I like Kuoni. So how do you use these codes if not online? I know Thomas Cook do shops, but Kuoni and Virgin don't?!

It isn't a voucher code, there's a call centre to ring up and book it through, you just have to quote my company and Hello Discount! I love working for my company sometimes... like when I get cinema tickets for £4.30 a pop! I really need to order some more actually... will do it on Friday when I get paid!
CMD, we *think* we're getting married in the Dominican Republic, we're going late October to check it out and if we think it'll be good we'll book it as soon as we can!
Flower, I'm very jealous of you throwing a drink over someone (and very glad that it was the horrid jealous girl who clearly fancies your OH!), I've always fancied throwing a drink over someone very dramatically!

Flower08

Birdie85 wrote: »

Flower, I'm very jealous of you throwing a drink over someone (and very glad that it was the horrid jealous girl who clearly fancies your OH!), I've always fancied throwing a drink over someone very dramatically!

:rotfl::rotfl:OH moaned at me coz he had to buy me another drink. But i have to say it shut her up for a while.

N.I.M

clearmydebts wrote: »

It sounds like she may have strong feelings towards your OH.

I'm glad I'm not the only one whos realised this, she's crazy about your OH, you need to tell him that cause I guarantee you he wil NEVER realise this.

Flower08 wrote: »

I've only lost it with her once and unfortunatly i had had quite a lot to drink so wasnt my usual restrained self - im ashamed to say i threw a drink over her

If it had been me she'd have been lucky to end up with just the drink thrown at her.

Am I allowed to suggest telling her to stop contacting you or you will go to the police and get an asbo against her for harassment (I'd need to look into it but I'm failry sure that her activities count as harassment in the legal sense)

Dinah93

They do. So long as you have told her once you do not want her contacting you, if she continues after that even on one occassion the police will consider this harrassment.

N.I.M

You've been paying attention love. :P

Dinah93

Or I researched harrassment before I decided it was just easier to change my phone number.

Flower08

N.I.M wrote: »

I'm glad I'm not the only one whos realised this, she's crazy about your OH, you need to tell him that cause I guarantee you he wil NEVER realise this.

I've said to him before i think this is the reason she is being like this, but he just laughs it off and says im being silly. His reasoning is if she liked him that much she would want him to be happy! I dont think he quite understands lol

If it had been me she'd have been lucky to end up with just the drink thrown at her.

She should count herself lucky, not trying to paint OH out to be a thug - hes not honestly! But he wouldnt put up with a guy talking to me like that.

Am I allowed to suggest telling her to stop contacting you or you will go to the police and get an asbo against her for harassment (I'd need to look into it but I'm failry sure that her activities count as harassment in the legal sense)

I was actually thinking about asking OHs uncle about this (hes in the police), but i sometimes dont think its worth it because sometimes it can be months until we hear from her.
Something definatly needs to change though because its been going on for 4 years its just rediculous.