MSE Parents Club Part 5

weezl74

feelinggood wrote: »

Argh, I'm so unhappy. I really need to cheer up. Just feel this 'pain' inside, it is constantly there and I don't know how to live with it.

Awww Feely, so sorry about that

Have you got any idea what type of emotional pain it is?

Is it angry or sad?

Do you feel like you've lost something?

Is it the pain of having a need that isn't met, or life not being how you hoped?

Loneliness?

Frustration?

Obviously you don't need to respond on here unless you'd like to! I just thought some questions might help you to start to get to the bottom of it!.

Hugs for you, and hope you feel better soon

feelinggood_2

OH mentioned that if we leave LO with someone, we wouldn't have any way of knowing if they were abusing him, ignoring him or leaving him to cry.

feelinggood_2

weezl74 wrote: »

Awww Feely, so sorry about that

Have you got any idea what type of emotional pain it is?

Is it angry or sad?

Do you feel like you've lost something?

Is it the pain of having a need that isn't met, or life not being how you hoped?

Loneliness?

Frustration?

Obviously you don't need to respond on here unless you'd like to! I just thought some questions might help you to start to get to the bottom of it!.

Hugs for you, and hope you feel better soon

I really don't know how to desribe it. It isn't nice, but it isn't tearful or angry. Despair I suppose. Hopeless, despondent. It is like there is a black void in me that I'm desperate to fill, but nothing works. I just wish I wasn't me, wish I wasn't here.

cazscoob

feelinggood wrote: »

OH mentioned that if we leave LO with someone, we wouldn't have any way of knowing if they were abusing him, ignoring him or leaving him to cry.

at the end of the day noone can ever look after your baby as good as you, they can try though! sometimes it is better to leave your child with someone else as in my opinion it helps them when they attend school and nursery.

weezl74

Feely I've sent you a lil PM

Sami_Bee

Krystaltips wrote: »

Bruno, could you not just take Elijah round to your Mum's for a visit while oh writes? That way your Mum gets to see him, your oh gets a break and you get... To do all the running around

I think you mean Bruno gets to see his mummy

scruffy96uk wrote: »

No but at least I vented my frustartation thanx for asking tho. I had a big PM and I deleted it before I sent it coz I really didn't see the point in PMing you my worries

ooh feel free to off load to me any time! Xxx

I ended up crying like a loon earlier it all got too much, still a bit fragile but ok.
Weezl the meal was for my nan's 75th and granddad's 80th

MadDogWoman_2

Dodgy Hugs all round

:grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug::grouphug:

I leave DD for 2 minutes whilst I get the chicken in the oven - she finds a pen and promptly draws over her legs, bottom of her feet, and stomach - all scrubbed off with several baby wipes - all pens are out of reach who knows how she got hold of this one!

MDW

elle_gee

BIG HUGS for feelie xxx

Well, I've survived.. Rhys whinged a bit and she instantly said "oh you've got colic" - he does not have any signs whatsoever of colic! He was just crying cos she poked him awake :rolleyes: Her miracle suggestion for his kidneys is pearl barley water.. but I'll be sticking to the meds he's on, ta very much :cool: Never mind, she's gone now.. torture over for another month It wasn't a special journey btw, she was at a christening round the corner.

money_maker_3

Hi everyone
We ended up going to the air show that was on today and it got rained out
((Hugs)) all round needed I think
I am on here loads and am happy to talk to you all via PM if you need me

sami, you OK hun, you have my mobile no. now, so feel free to use it

money_maker_3

Oh, Glam got Jack home again BTW - bloods came back fine and he is sitting in the conservaory getting some sunlight for the jaundice !!