Rocky Road to Debt Free Wedded Bliss!!

Happytogetdebtfree

good luck with council tax xx

september09

Yes keep us updated. Good decision on the washing machine and the milk.

Moneytroubles_2

Thanks guys!

Right off to the council office now so see you soon

Moneytroubles_2

Well I went to the council office and collected a form, so gonna fill that in tommorow, also going to leave a note out for the milk man asking him to stop delivering and to send me the balance that I owe!

Not done anything else with regards to debt busting but have worked through a half a pile of ironing! had to stop when I realised the cat had peed on one of the piles :eek: good job he's cute thats all I can say!

Also i've decided to catch the train to uni tommorow instead of using the car!

Speak to you all soon X

Moneytroubles_2

Oh My God!!! I am sooooo angry at my OH :mad::mad::mad::mad:

He has just found on the internet that Henley's boxer shorts are for sale on very website, and they have been mixed up with a cheaper brand and are currently on sale for £4 per pair, so OH decides to buy 5 PAIRS! I ask if he needs 5 pairs, cos up until 5 minutes ago i didnt even realise he needed more boxer shorts!

So then I get a speech about how "its only £20 pounds!" so I then say fine if you have the money pay for it, so he buys them online, and I notice he's not picked his card up, yet he's bought them. So i asked him how he's paid for them when he hasn't used his card, and he tells me that he just added them to my account!!!!!!

So I started to kick off, as the very account has the highest APR of a whopping 39.7% and Im trying to explain to this to him, and also how I am trying to get us out of debt, and all I get is "god, I'll give you the £20" so then i'm thinking if you have the £20 why didn't you just pay for them outright!

I could actually just walk straight upto him and !!!!! slap him!!

Sorry rant over :mad::mad::mad::mad::mad:

ZiggyStardust_2

Deep breath... and relax. Don't even think about it tonight now... big, exciting day tomorrow! When you have the time, if I were you, I'd sit down and have a chat about why you got angry and what you're trying to achieve i.e, a debt free future, and that he needs to see things from your point of view :cool: (he probably thought he was saving money in the long run?!) You've been doing really well and being so positive, I hope you OH can do the same with you x

Moneytroubles_2

Thanks Ziggy, I just realised that MSE has edited my post has a actually said I wanted to b i t c h slap him lol

He really winds me up sometimes, think he lives in abit of a dreamworld! xxx

missymoo81

men do honey.... just take deep breaths and think of your exciting new day tomorrow. Induction get you!!! How very exciting.

I'm so sorry your wedding day was supposed to be the other day, you're allowed to feel sad about it, but just think of how much worse off you would have been, you made the right choice babe.

Big hugs..... see you in vegas :-)

missymoo81

p,s contrags on becoming a fellow 2 starer!!!

Moneytroubles_2

Thanks Missymoo - I was well chuffed when I gained my second star lol

Should probably go to bed soon, early start in the morning

xxxx