MSE Pregnancy Club XV

harley1

kindofagilr wrote: »

Grr i'm annoyed, OH's friend is here, and he's like are you looking forward to the birth? can I tell you a horrible story, and I'm like no, and he was like can I tell you a little bit, so I said no, so he told me anyway that I will soil myself

I feel like telling him to !!!! off,

I am scared/concerened/worried about the birth as it is anyway, I wish he would !!!! off.

Kindof, I would tell him that such thoughtless and insensitive comments are unwelcome in your own home and that so is he if he cannot show a little more respect. Ignorant !!!!!!!!!:mad:

Don't worry about it, the health visitor said last week that they whisk it away so quick that you won't even know if you did or not. And that the body naturally clears itself prior to labour so it is not that common anyway.

xxxx

Fitzio

Kindof - don't worry about soiling yourself! You probably won't even notice as you will be too busy pushing and trying to get baby out. Just ask the idiot if he knows about that coz his mum told him that she sh*t on him whilst popping him out! Enjoy your pregnancy and save the worrying until it's too late to do anything about it (8 months or something!).

Right, I am off for a shower now. Then going shopping for birthday present for OH's granny. Also, we have £180 of vouchers that we got for a wedding present last year which expire in a couple of weeks, so need to spend them too. Then it's my parents for dinner. Will pop back later no doubt.

Have a nice day everyone.
x

kindofagilr

Thanks Harley

He just reallly !!!!ed me off cos I thought it was very insensitive and a horrible thing to say, I mean I am the kind of person who I wont even fart infront of OH lol so the thought of that does make me go eek, I certainly dont need some immature man in my own home laughing about it

Thanks again harley

ETA thanks Fitzio

Evansangel

kindofagilr wrote: »

Grr i'm annoyed, OH's friend is here, and he's like are you looking forward to the birth? can I tell you a horrible story, and I'm like no, and he was like can I tell you a little bit, so I said no, so he told me anyway that I will soil myself

I feel like telling him to !!!! off,

I am scared/concerened/worried about the birth as it is anyway, I wish he would !!!! off.

Tell him to do one! What a twt :mad:

Right, i have to go now. OH keeps on at me that we have to go to Tesco, as we're out of toilet roll and cat food. :rolleyes:
I'd rather sit on here, but he wont let me

:rotfl:

Might buy myself a snickers bar since im allowed to eat them now (thank you new government guidelines!)

Speak soon! xx

Glamazon

kindofagilr wrote: »

Grr i'm annoyed, OH's friend is here, and he's like are you looking forward to the birth? can I tell you a horrible story, and I'm like no, and he was like can I tell you a little bit, so I said no, so he told me anyway that I will soil myself

I feel like telling him to !!!! off,

I am scared/concerened/worried about the birth as it is anyway, I wish he would !!!! off.

Hun don't worry about it! Honestly, the last thing on your mind will be pooing yourself!!

My and OH are quite open about these things and I've had him and BIL ribbing me for agggggggggggggggges that I'll !!!!!! myself - my response was 'OK, how the fluck am I supposed to push a baby out whilst trying to hold a poo in?'
They soon shut up when they realised it was impossible - at physio, my new friend was saying she is petrified of doing it but it's only nature taking it's course (just at the wrong time!)

Just saw your other post - God, your OH is lucky! Mine gets the benefit of my fragrant a r s e all the time - I'm afraid as you get further along it gets harder to be lady like :p

helen81_2

Glam, same here, I have no choice- I get awful wind cramps as soon as I wake up in a morning,have to let it out OH is used to it by now :rotfl:

Glamazon

helen81 wrote: »

Glam, same here, I have no choice- I get awful wind cramps as soon as I wake up in a morning,have to let it out OH is used to it by now :rotfl:

Yep that's it! The worst are the silent ones - he doesn't even know they are coming!

Think I'm training to be a Mum already - am sittign downstairs concerned at how quiet it is upstairs! Just shouted up and he's OK but I'm wondering what he's up to - think I need a toilet break

helen81_2

Couldn't wake up this morning,woke up initially at 8ish by ds who had wet his bed so had come to get in ours, watched spongebob square pants on tv then got all sleepy again..ended up drifting in and out of sleep untill gone 11!! Made myself get up then otherwise I'd still have been there now.
Don't you just hate days where you feel depressed and can't think why?! I just feel bloody miserable today,should have stayed in bloody bed!!! :mad:

Glamazon

helen81 wrote: »

Couldn't wake up this morning,woke up initially at 8ish by ds who had wet his bed so had come to get in ours, watched spongebob square pants on tv then got all sleepy again..ended up drifting in and out of sleep untill gone 11!! Made myself get up then otherwise I'd still have been there now.
Don't you just hate days where you feel depressed and can't think why?! I just feel bloody miserable today,should have stayed in bloody bed!!! :mad:

Aw big hugs hun! I've not stayed in bed that late for ages. The latest since I've been on ML is probably 10am. I often feel worse if I go back to sleep which was why I just stayed up this morning. I'll try and have an early night tonight - am soooooooooooooo glad it's the last week of big brother. It's been parp this year but OH insists on watching it!

Just think, by tomorrow you'll have your house back am sure that will be a weight off your mind!

OH was sorting out his ebay stuff! He's goin to get a load of stuff listed while I do some boring data entry for him for work - keeps my brain active I suppose!

Then bacon sarnies in half an hour me thinks!

kindofagilr

LOL I have just told OH he has my parps to look forward too lol, he always tells me I should fart anyway lol but I just wont ... yet lol