Daughter and her Relationships

minerva_windsong

KatP speaks the sense.

All I will say is that I had a teenagerdom (if that's a word) very similar to your daughters - I always liked guys who never really liked me back or had girlfriends or were in some way not available, and got rather a lot of stick for it from so called 'popular' people which used to get me down an awful lot. I was also very much the 'all or nothing' type of romantic then as well which probably didn't help.

I met my first and current boyfriend at university when I was 19, and we were friends for a year before we got together just over two years ago.

As others have said I think your daughter's got a very sensible and rare attitude and she should be praised for that. There's certainly nothing wrong with her having boys as friends and getting to know them better before she goes out with one of them, better that than going out and getting hammered and falling into bed with a succession of dubious blokes. The best thing you can do for her now is let her know you're there if she ever wants to talk to you about it.

rachel6188

hi,
she will be ok honestly i understand your worries though...im 21 myself and been with my partner for nearly 4 years now....we met on a blind date but i think if we hadnt met i would of still been single....i think the only thing you can do is pick up the pieces...i think will find somebody in time...your daughter reminds me on my sister when she was younger and now shes with her partner and has 2 little ones...total turn around to how she was years ago....sorry to babble...i hope she is ok and you sound like a great mum.
beast wishes
rach xox

beachbeth

Their "relationship" is back on!

He texted her to say sorry that he hadn't rung. Oh well, I'll just stay in the background and see what happens.