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strange Tesco experience

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  • lufcgirl wrote: »
    I don't care what the hell anyone says about the policy, regardless of my OH's age and wether they had ID, Tesco have no idea what I'll do with that alcohol once I leave that store. I could walk outside and give it to a group of Chav's and what could they do...nothing. But I'm persecuted for being with someone who looks their age on the basis I'm supplying an alcohol to a minor, when they actually have no proof at all of that.

    Innocent till I'm proven guilty in this country my backside.

    Kind of goes to prove what I said in an earlier post on this thread "...if you start treating innocent people like criminals they're more likely to start behaving like criminals..."

    Sooner or later an otherwise law abiding citizen will get so pee'd off with being refused service because <insert daft reason here> that they'll just snap and go into a supermarket buy 24 cans of stella and just give it to the local chavs.
    "One thing that is different, and has changed here, is the self-absorption, not just greed. Everybody is in a hurry now and there is a 'the rules don't apply to me' sort of thing." - Bill Bryson
  • kudos_ni
    kudos_ni Posts: 12 Forumite
    edited 28 July 2009 at 2:27PM
    Well, that all seems absurd - not selling to people who have their children with them. Surely if someone purpose was to buy alcohol for a minor they would get the minor to hide outside!

    I've never had a problem buying alcohol. In fact I got served in off licenses when I was 14. I always looked older. I was going to bars in the city centre from i was 16 (with mum's permission) as I was sensible and I never got asked for ID.

    However, now I'm 26. I have lived in the same flat for more than a year now and go to my local Co-op every day. This might be for groceries, a paper, a banana, whatever. It is always the same staff, and they have all served me at least a few times each. For the past year I have bought cigarettes there and, having noticed their "think 25" signs, always brought my Id with me.

    Just last week, after I got home from work, I dumped all my stuff, grabbed a ten pound note out of my wallet and headed to the Co-op for some cigarattes. I queued for 20 minutes (it was busy with people stocking up at dinner time).
    And what happened - yes I was asked for ID.

    I was dressed in my suit from work, and as much as I wish I could, I do not look under 18/21/25 whatever. I look my age.
    The girl flat out refused to serve me. I could see the guy on the other till looking over as if "I know her, she's can buy them" - but he didn't say a word. i was also paying by credit card - as I always do for eveything (cashback baby!), and I was under the impression you couldn't have a credit card til you were 18.

    SO she refused me. I stormed back to my flat accross the road, got my drivers license, and just to be petty and annoying I counted out the exact money in 5p/1p pieces. (pathetic I know).

    I queued up again al the while just wanting a cigarette. Eventually got to the front of the queue, I purposely went back to the same til. I showed my ID, and waited while the girl tried to work out my age from my DOB. Grrr.
    Got my cigs, poured the money on the counter and walked out.

    She doesn't like me much now. But she hasn't asked me for ID again. and is always with the "hello", "goodbye", "have a nice day".

    I know they are just doing their job, I worked in shops and bars from I was 16-23. but common sense needs to be used... especially when I see teenagers buying cigarettes and alcohol in that shop all the time without getting ID-ed.


    Rant over.

    (got a bit carried away!)
    Where there's a will, I want to be in it.
    :rolleyes:
  • So what happens if I send my eleven year old out of the shop before I go to the till? Or if I go to the till and they sit reading the comics (which is what they normally do)?
  • Helix
    Helix Posts: 2,381 Forumite
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    kudos_ni wrote: »
    I was dressed in my suit from work, and as much as I wish I could, I do not look under 18/21/25 whatever. I look my age.
    The girl flat out refused to serve me. I could see the guy on the other till looking over as if "I know her, she's can buy them" - but he didn't say a word. i was also paying by credit card - as I always do for eveything (cashback baby!), and I was under the impression you couldn't have a credit card til you were 18.[/I]

    There not allowed to authorise someone else's sale most likely, so thats probably why the other guy didn't say anything. I know at Sainsburys where I work, if the cashier asks for ID and you don't have any that it no sale even if someone else has served you before and has seen your ID. They are not allowed to authorise the sale for another cashier.
  • lufcgirl
    lufcgirl Posts: 1,875 Forumite
    So what happens if I send my eleven year old out of the shop before I go to the till? Or if I go to the till and they sit reading the comics (which is what they normally do)?


    If you get a good supermarket whose till operator has common sense - Nothing

    If you go to one of these ones that appear to be going barmy at the moment - they'll probably refuse to serve you on the basis you could be buying alcohol for the child. Or say they saw the child in the alcohol aisle with you and therefore your blatantly buying it for the kid and therefore you aint getting it.

    To be fair, it's not the checkout operators fault, they shouldn't be given such responsibility by the store to put them in a place whereby they could lose their job.
  • pulliptears
    pulliptears Posts: 14,583 Forumite
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    I mentioned this on a thread the other day, but my local one stop ID'd me last week for ciggies....... I'm almost 36!!!
    She did serve me in the end as the only ID I had was an NUS card, but she saw my reasoning that you cant be in University at 16 lol

    Now Im faced with having to change my old paper licence for a photocard to prove my age :(
  • before_hollywood
    before_hollywood Posts: 20,686 Forumite

    Now Im faced with having to change my old paper licence for a photocard to prove my age :(
    you havent had to change it already? :eek:

    i've had photo licenses for the last 10 years?
    things arent the way they were before, you wouldnt even recognise me anymore- not that you knew me back then ;)
    BH is my best mate too, its ok :)

    I trust BH even if he's from Manchester.. ;)

    all your base are belong to us :eek:
  • poet123
    poet123 Posts: 24,099 Forumite
    I still have a paper license too, they don't automatically send you a new one, only if you lose the old one, or request (and pay for!) a new style one.
  • pulliptears
    pulliptears Posts: 14,583 Forumite
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    you havent had to change it already? :eek:

    i've had photo licenses for the last 10 years?

    Nope, still on my original paper licence I got at 17 :D
    (This is a source of huge amusement at Uni as all my classmates are far to young to remember them and we have to hand in our licences etc when we borrow Macbooks etc)
  • barvid
    barvid Posts: 405 Forumite
    My sister was ID'd when she bought a bottle of shampoo in a novelty champagne bottle wrapping. She had to point out to the cashier that it wasn't an alcoholic drink but something to wash her hair with...
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