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Alcohol self help thread II

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  • Edinburghlass_2
    Edinburghlass_2 Posts: 32,680 Forumite
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    I'll need to come back to answer this properly ac but meantime !!!!{hugs}}} I do hope mr ac will take on board what you have said to him.

    :kiss::kiss:
  • ac
    ac Posts: 7,028 Forumite
    he nos i wasnt joking...

    told him (wednesday) if i died today i would die unhappy.....

    i dont want to die unhappy....wouldnt it be best if the kids had two parents
    who were seperated than them just have a daddy whos wife/mummy
    died of a killer illness :eek: :eek: :eek: ...

    he nos its not a whim and im deadly serious ......
    Heaven wont let me in & Hell's too scared i'd take over :kiss:
    Alcoholics do it till they pass out :o:D :;)
    THE MORE I NO THE LESS I UNDERSTAND :o

  • micheleen
    micheleen Posts: 1,635 Forumite
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    :grouphug: hun, you know that your welfare must come first. You can give him a fair chance and see what happens, but if home life returns to the bad old days, then it's time to part IMHO :o You'll have to be prepared for all the stress that comes with that path as well though :(

    If he thinks that Al-anon will help him support you then that's well worth the try, but if he just thinks going to Al-anon and then not doing anything with what he learns is the support, then it'll be a waste of time.

    Big hugs hun, if you want to talk just shout :)
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  • ac
    ac Posts: 7,028 Forumite
    i have to give it a chance...

    then if we fail at least we no we have tried

    xxxxxxxx
    Heaven wont let me in & Hell's too scared i'd take over :kiss:
    Alcoholics do it till they pass out :o:D :;)
    THE MORE I NO THE LESS I UNDERSTAND :o

  • micheleen
    micheleen Posts: 1,635 Forumite
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    ac wrote:
    i have to give it a chance...

    then if we fail at least we no we have tried

    xxxxxxxx

    Can't say fairer than that hun :)
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    £100 banked Mar 06
    V-Free : 4 weeks :)
  • Al_Mac
    Al_Mac Posts: 5,519 Forumite
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    Well done, hugs from me to :) Life is a roller coaster, you just have to ride it (sorry) ;) Had to be done and YOU did it :) As Mich said we're here to talk, on the thread or by PM :)
  • ac
    ac Posts: 7,028 Forumite
    the only thing ive got to face now is my debts :eek: :eek: :eek:
    Heaven wont let me in & Hell's too scared i'd take over :kiss:
    Alcoholics do it till they pass out :o:D :;)
    THE MORE I NO THE LESS I UNDERSTAND :o

  • ac
    ac Posts: 7,028 Forumite
    g2g and face occupatinal health now..... :rolleyes:

    will try pop back laters xxxxxx
    Heaven wont let me in & Hell's too scared i'd take over :kiss:
    Alcoholics do it till they pass out :o:D :;)
    THE MORE I NO THE LESS I UNDERSTAND :o

  • Edinburghlass_2
    Edinburghlass_2 Posts: 32,680 Forumite
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    ac wrote:
    the only thing ive got to face now is my debts :eek: :eek: :eek:

    Well you are in the right place for that ac :)

    I really can't improve on what Mich and Al have said so will just say, keep talking to mr ac and to your friends here.
  • Edinburghlass_2
    Edinburghlass_2 Posts: 32,680 Forumite
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    and mariauk, empty your inbox :)
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