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Do You you politely thank the Postman for delivering your mail and the bus driver?

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  • angle
    angle Posts: 467 Forumite

    Am I alone in this?

    Nope. I thank everyone....even those that don't deserve it! I have also been known to apologise for things that have nothing to do with me :confused:
  • geri1965_2
    geri1965_2 Posts: 8,736 Forumite
    Always thank the bus driver, except for one time when I rang the bell, he sailed past my stop and when I said "I wanted to get off there!" he said "Well, you should have rang the bell then!" so there was a bit of a row, and I just said "Ok, whatever!"

    I thank the postman if I see him (I don't usually see him unless he comes on Saturday morning with a parcel) and people in shops, I hold doors open for people, give up my seat etc.

    The rudest person I ever saw was a woman on a bus - an old man was standing in the aisle, it had been puring with rain so he was wet, and nobody offered him a seat. I was also standing, or I would have. Eventually a young girl tapped him on the arm, I thought she was going to offer him her seat, but instead she said "Excuse me...you're dripping water on me!"

    I was gobsmacked.
  • DrFluffy
    DrFluffy Posts: 2,549 Forumite
    I don't ever really see the postie, but I always thank bus drivers (and I live in London ;) )... I often get funny looks for doing so from other passengers, but heh!
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  • Pssst
    Pssst Posts: 4,803 Forumite
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    My postman only lives round the corner.

    He only delivers the mail and has never brought me a bus driver.
  • carlislelass
    carlislelass Posts: 1,776 Forumite
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    seem to thank everyone, good manners cost nothing..even it seems old fashioned now.
  • mouseymousey99
    mouseymousey99 Posts: 1,868 Forumite
    I always do - the other day the council arrived up to collect an abandoned trolley I had reported on 'fixmystreet' so I called out thank you to them too - they looked so surprised.
  • Tygermoth
    Tygermoth Posts: 1,413 Forumite
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    Yup, I do.

    Tyger
    Please note I have a cognitive disability - as such my wording can be a bit off, muddled, misspelt or in some cases i can miss out some words totally...
  • Blackpool_Saver
    Blackpool_Saver Posts: 6,599 Forumite
    seem to thank everyone, good manners cost nothing..even it seems old fashioned now.


    Does it, really??? wow I must be getting very old....
    Blackpool_Saver is female, and does not live in Blackpool

  • Takoda
    Takoda Posts: 1,846 Forumite
    Mostly. Sometimes. Depends.
  • DCFC79
    DCFC79 Posts: 40,641 Forumite
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    I thank

    bus drivers,
    taxi drivers
    people who serve me in a supermarket but the ones who make eye contact
    staff in a supermarket who shows me to an item
    post man/lady if she has an item that needs a signature or is too big for the box
    courier driver who delivers a parcel
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