lilmissmups moving on and hopefully upwards diary!

lilmissmup

I hope you manage to sort things, I never realised how much of an issue it was before he left, he is off it now as with his mum but when he moves next week i am sure he will be straight back on it :rolleyes:

Shoe_Gal

lilmissmup wrote: »

I hope you manage to sort things, I never realised how much of an issue it was before he left, he is off it now as with his mum but when he moves next week i am sure he will be straight back on it :rolleyes:

Sounds like he can give it up if he has to/wants to but wouldn't do it for you :mad: Hopefully, in time, you will see this is for the best, although it won't seem like that now

:j for your Dad helping you, there are good men out there

lilmissmup

Hes done it for last 15yrs so more habit i guess but it has messed with his head, it really has. Most of his exes before me were into it as well.

I never asked him to quit though

Well backroom all painted and carpet down though needs trimming.

Went to have a look at beds too and gonna set me back about £360 for a new one with mattress but at least it will be mine and new.

Then hoping to replace sofa soon as I have never liked it but it was free from his mum and did actually match the ugly mess of carpet/wallpaper.

Need a new telly too as thats his.

Blinkin expenses!

yukkibear

Oh a new bed will be nice even despite the circumstances. Well done on your prorgress as even though you may not think you're making any, you are x

lilmissmup

I haven't cried today so far, yesterday i got teary but nothing was really let out so thats progress!

I am still hearing from him every day though be it text, phone or internet but we do still have things to sort out.

Not sure what will happen once I am in new house.

benbenandme

one rule I made for the new house was to not give him my phone number. He can contact me/ds on my mobile if he needs to but I love knowing that he can't call me on the home phone. I know it sounds a really minor thing but it makes a big difference to me

Hollyberry

Just popped over from Single & In Debt. You have done so much in a very short time, and I am glad that you have good support from your friends and your dad. Wishing you all the best for the new place, and for lots of happiness there.

lilmissmup

I don;t even think he knows our phone number here :rolleyes:

lilmissmup

Just a quick announcement.

I managed a whole day yesterday without crying! I didn't let them flow saturday too though did get teary.

Just wanted to share for some weird reason.

I know i am gonna have bad days though still.

lilmissmup

Just had a text from him as i sent him a message on facebook about paperwork last night and he hasn't read it yet as he went to play snooker, fell down the stairs after at home (guess was drunk!) and now thinks he has a broken rib. :rolleyes: He must have also driven about 10miles.....grrrrrrrr.

I know I shouldn't worry about him but i still do as i can't just switch my emotions off and now i am really worried!